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In response to the last post, though my partner is sikh, he does not attend the temple much etc, he leads a good and honest life etc just doesn't necessarily know the ins and outs of Sikhism. We have plans in place to go to India in December then someone mentioned we may not be able to so now we are concerned. If we can't, it will be very disappointing not to have been accepted.

If your not sikh, why on earth would you take part in such a big sikh ceremony?

Why dont you guys have a jewish wedding aswel?

your christian, he is of sikh background, neither of you are religious. Why make a mockery out of a religious ceremony? Have a civil ceremony, a party, whatever. Leave sacred religious acts out of it.

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If your not sikh, why on earth would you take part in such a big sikh ceremony?

Why dont you guys have a jewish wedding aswel?

your christian, he is of sikh background, neither of you are religious. Why make a mockery out of a religious ceremony? Have a civil ceremony, a party, whatever. Leave sacred religious acts out of it.

What a great answer to the lady's query.

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eat dead animals why follow the sikh tradition ??

"The fools argue about flesh and meat, but they know nothing about meditation and spiritual wisdom.

What is called meat, and what is called green vegetables? What leads to sin?

It was the habit of the gods to kill the rhinoceros, and make a feast of the burnt offering.

Those who renounce meat, and hold their noses when sitting near it, devour men at night.

They practice hypocrisy, and make a show before other people, but they do not understand anything about meditation or spiritual wisdom.

O Nanak, what can be said to the blind people? They cannot answer, or even understand what is said.

They alone are blind, who act blindly. They have no eyes in their hearts.

They are produced from the blood of their mothers and fathers, but they do not eat fish or meat." Ang 1289, Meat is not bad for you.

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"The fools argue about flesh and meat, but they know nothing about meditation and spiritual wisdom.

What is called meat, and what is called green vegetables? What leads to sin?

It was the habit of the gods to kill the rhinoceros, and make a feast of the burnt offering.

Those who renounce meat, and hold their noses when sitting near it, devour men at night.

They practice hypocrisy, and make a show before other people, but they do not understand anything about meditation or spiritual wisdom.

O Nanak, what can be said to the blind people? They cannot answer, or even understand what is said.

They alone are blind, who act blindly. They have no eyes in their hearts.

They are produced from the blood of their mothers and fathers, but they do not eat fish or meat." Ang 1289, Meat is not bad for you.

stop side tracking the topic, stay on topic

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"The fools argue about flesh and meat, but they know nothing about meditation and spiritual wisdom.

What is called meat, and what is called green vegetables? What leads to sin?

It was the habit of the gods to kill the rhinoceros, and make a feast of the burnt offering.

Those who renounce meat, and hold their noses when sitting near it, devour men at night.

They practice hypocrisy, and make a show before other people, but they do not understand anything about meditation or spiritual wisdom.

O Nanak, what can be said to the blind people? They cannot answer, or even understand what is said.

They alone are blind, who act blindly. They have no eyes in their hearts.

They are produced from the blood of their mothers and fathers, but they do not eat fish or meat." Ang 1289, Meat is not bad for you.

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Thanks for calling me fool

Honestly if you eat meat and the sight of seeing a animal slaughtered brothers you then maybe you should rethink your diet.Imagine being hung upside down, shocked into paralysis, having your throat cut, then drowned in hot water...while youre conscious. Thats the stuff of nightmares, and its the tragic reality for billions of birds each year. These animals have virtually no protection from the worst slaughter abuses, you can have steak dinner tonight bro

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vegetaria calling me fool

Honestly if you eat meat and the sight of seeing a animal slaughtered brothers you then maybe you should rethink your diet.Imagine being hung upside down, shocked into paralysis, having your throat cut, then drowned in hot water...while youre conscious. Thats the stuff of nightmares, and its the tragic reality for billions of birds each year. These animals have virtually no protection from the worst slaughter abuses, you can have steak dinner tonight bro

"First Mehl:

Look, and see how the sugar-cane is cut down. After cutting away its branches, its feet are bound together into bundles,

and then, it is placed between the wooden rollers and crushed.

What punishment is inflicted upon it! Its juice is extracted and placed in the cauldron; as it is heated, it groans and cries out.

And then, the crushed cane is collected and burnt in the fire below.

Nanak: come, people, and see how the sweet sugar-cane is treated!" Ang 143. But really this is going of topic, and I won't argue anymore on vegetarianism,because that's not the issue of this topic, you have your way of thinking and I have mine. Vaheguru bless you!

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