Masturbation I need help

[Guest Yogi]

Sorry for my negativity but mera jee krda ke eho jehe jwaaka de 20 chapplan maar ke ek ginna and es hisaab naal 100 chappal mara, means ke 2000 chappal lol

 

oye kamlio, tusi koi game sports kio ni participate krde ?? 

Othe lgaawo jor te power

[S4NGH]

On 14/12/2016 at 5:52 PM, Guest Yogi said:

Sorry for my negativity but mera jee krda ke eho jehe jwaaka de 20 chapplan maar ke ek ginna and es hisaab naal 100 chappal mara, means ke 2000 chappal lol

 

oye kamlio, tusi koi game sports kio ni participate krde ?? 

Othe lgaawo jor te power

Chill out bro. He's a kid. He'll live and learn. Acting like uv never touched ur winky.

[Guest me,]

bro,im not amritdhari, but try to keep yourself busy. your only 14 and you are going to do it again. but try not to make it into a pattern or habit. if you start doing it more often its going to reach the point where your gonna have to do it for the sake of doing it, thats how it becomes a habit. dont make the mistake of looking at nude pics or porn! you look at it once then you are definitely going to look at it the 2nd time and then 3rd, 4th ... and watching porn will become a filthy habit!  im 23 and i still do that but only maybe once every 2 weeks! i keep myself busy. but if i just lounge about doing nothing, i will have nothing to concentrate on and my thoughts will go all over the place and i will then start thinking of wrong stuff. as you get older and if you try, you learn how to control it. when i do get those thoughts i try to distract myself but later on in the day it comes back and i just then have to do it because i cant concentrate on anything else lol! your still young and as you will get older you will have control over that. when i was 14 i was really bad when it came to that haha! your doing really well trust me!    but yes do not make the mistake of watching porn or nude pics etc you will make it into a habit and regret it. you mind becomes desensitized to the human body and you just want more and more. you first look at a bit of skin, it excites you but then gets boring and then you want to see more skin, from nude pics you then move to porn, from porn you then move to actual sex. we become desensitized to the naked body and get bored easily and then want more a more. so its best if you try not to see nude pics, videos etc i know its hard because sex is everywhere in the media but dedication and discipline is important. 

[Guest Yogi]

17 hours ago, S4NGH said:

Chill out bro. He's a kid. He'll live and learn. Acting like uv never touched ur winky.

I wish u could have visited my house full of mementos ofnational level championships 

if i am giving suggestion here, I didn't meant to make fun of this kid like u think

[Not2Cool2Argue]

 

Someone sent me this:

Symptoms of Spiritual Sickness From discussion forum

Here are some symptoms that your spiritual Jeevan is in trouble:

Slipping amrit vela and even attempts to wake up are not successful. Waking up consistently after amrit vela is the eventual conclusion of this trend.

Increased time on internet and in front of TV

Less paath and missing banis; no desire to do paath

Dropping "small" rehits like doing keshi ishnaan, doing kangha twice a day etc

Less concentration and ability to do paath and simran

Less desire to go to gurdwara and stay in sangat

Increased vikaar especially anger and kaam

Rationalizing faults and mistakes in rehit as "acceptable" and "understandable" or "I'll fix it later..."

*Root Causes:*

Serious mistake in personal rehit

Ego and pride

Looking down and belitting other Gursikhs

*Cure:*

Ardaas to Guru Sahib for forgiveness

Speaking to other Gursikhs about problems

Peshi before punj pyarai for serious mistakes in rehit

Going to sangat even if there is no desire. Forcing yourself to fo no matter what.

*Note*: It's best to recognize the sickness early and combat it. Otherwise, things keep getting worse till you're in real trouble and recovery is a big uphill battle.