TBH- what is happening to the women?

[jkvlondon]

Just now, Akalifauj said:

That was not an apology.  An apology is where a person recognizes they did a wrong thing and apologize for it (calling someone an insult as in this case) and it has no baring on the person who the insult was direct toward. Clearly you are the person with gandh on your mind and want to project it on others.     

look I don't agree with her doing that and posting it , I don't think it is right for anyone to 'act out' if it brings disrespect on Guru ji's sikhi . I don't want to fight with you over her stupidity.

  I'm sorry for saying what I said and how I said it , it was a shock to see someone I respect saying stuff like that , my best judgement wasn't there and I said something brash and hurtful at that moment . 

 

 

 

[californiasardar1]

Why don't you guys just lay off her?

 

At least she has some sort of interest in Sikhi and wishes to identify as a Sikh.  Would you be happier of she cut her kesh, stopped expressing any sort of allegiance to Sikhi, and became another completely nonreligious punjabi girl?

 

If someone is gravitating towards Sikhi in any way, let's try to encourage that and be inclusive instead of nitpicking and pushing them away.

 

If you don't like the way that she is doing something, show a different/better example yourself.

[Akalifauj]

19 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

look I don't agree with her doing that and posting it , I don't think it is right for anyone to 'act out' if it brings disrespect on Guru ji's sikhi . I don't want to fight with you over her stupidity.

  I'm sorry for saying what I said and how I said it , it was a shock to see someone I respect saying stuff like that , my best judgement wasn't there and I said something brash and hurtful at that moment . 

 

MOD EDIT

 

Thank you for apologizing.  Anoop caur has a photo with her top off and she is tying a dastar.  She may have deleted it off of her Instagram but many people still have the picture.  Here it is

 

 

[Akalifauj]

38 minutes ago, californiasardar1 said:

Why don't you guys just lay off her?

 

At least she has some sort of interest in Sikhi and wishes to identify as a Sikh.  Would you be happier of she cut her kesh, stopped expressing any sort of allegiance to Sikhi, and became another completely nonreligious punjabi girl?

 

If someone is gravitating towards Sikhi in any way, let's try to encourage that and be inclusive instead of nitpicking and pushing them away.

 

If you don't like the way that she is doing something, show a different/better example yourself.

She is not promoting sikhi.  But misrepresenting sikhs.  She is perverted.  She is using outrageous acts as a way to get attention.  If she was graviting toward sikhi then she would not be half naked tying a dastar in a photo.  She does not say that she made a mistake.  She fully believes what she is doing as correct and according to sikhi.  

 

[Khalistanisinghni]

1 hour ago, californiasardar1 said:

Why don't you guys just lay off her?

 

At least she has some sort of interest in Sikhi and wishes to identify as a Sikh.  Would you be happier of she cut her kesh, stopped expressing any sort of allegiance to Sikhi, and became another completely nonreligious punjabi girl?

 

If someone is gravitating towards Sikhi in any way, let's try to encourage that and be inclusive instead of nitpicking and pushing them away.

 

If you don't like the way that she is doing something, show a different/better example yourself.

Why do people always have to include such feedbacks? 

what makes one think that we are perfect? Why can't a person simply comment on the doings of another? 

If you this is sikhi-congragulations. She is well promoting it. These women on social media are the reason why people view sikhi so lightly. 

Brainwashed much.

[Khalistanisinghni]

4 hours ago, MisterrSingh said:

As I've said before, you bibiya with your heads screwed on straight need to step up and put the record straight. Don't throw Singhs under the bus because you struggle to find your voice. Each time a male speaks up in these kind of instances, he's going to be rounded upon immediately. 

They shut us women as well. Telling us that the sikhi is between them and guru ji. So much for a panth-sisterhood.

 

[jkvlondon]

7 hours ago, Khalistanisinghni said:

They shut us women as well. Telling us that the sikhi is between them and guru ji. So much for a panth-sisterhood.

 

that's why they've made it a closed shop activity because ordinary Kaurs may rock the boat of their self-delusion of 'leadership' 'expression' and question their attitudes . It is definitely NOT about sisterhood in any sense 

[Kira]

10 hours ago, Khalistanisinghni said:

They shut us women as well. Telling us that the sikhi is between them and guru ji. So much for a panth-sisterhood.

 

I owe you an apology. I actually thought you were a guy for ages, your name says singhni but I always missed the "ni"

[Khalistanisinghni]

3 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

that's why they've made it a closed shop activity because ordinary Kaurs may rock the boat of their self-delusion of 'leadership' 'expression' and question their attitudes . It is definitely NOT about sisterhood in any sense 

Exactly! These few women defining sikhi their way all over again.

[Khalistanisinghni]

6 minutes ago, Kira said:

I owe you an apology. I actually thought you were a guy for ages, your name says singhni but I always missed the "ni"

Hahahaha!