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10 hours ago, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

Not every Sikh has lots of contacts with other Sikhs.

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On 5/10/2017 at 3:00 AM, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

People get arranged marriages into some conservative families and can still end up with the type of girl you're talking about.

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On 2017-5-9 at 7:00 PM, Guest Tony said:

Quality of girls on dating sites is appalling only a despo singh would go out with most of them as those kinda girls have been defiled by non-sikhs usually sullay, goray, kalay and imagine your future wife having had a non sikh guy in her many times she will think its normal and teach your daughters its ok to have non-sikh partners.

Chose a girl loyal to sikhi and sikh guys is my advice

Many of these girls call it.....trying every flavor.  Their official name is something more colorful but why go there when its obvious.

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On 5/10/2017 at 0:54 PM, Guest battleaxe said:

what does that mean?

I do not know if your family is Punjabi/Subcontinental, but to explain the concept, usually an arranged marriage is decided upon a few factors and mostly based on your contacts, which has been how people have found Rishtas. Now we get all that history out of the way let's discuss the now. Most Sikhs sadly don't all live in Sikh-only centers like we used to, so it has become harder to find contacts. The only ways to find a Rishta is either someone helps you or you find it yourself, (this includes love marriage as well). 

Now let's get the person who's parents don't have many contacts and telling him to find a spouse that is also compatible in and they don't live in a Sikh-center: (Punjab), and they need to find a Rishta, it'll be incredibly hard for them.

Exceptions to the contacts rule are:

1. Money. (By money I mean big bank).

2. Visa.

3. Love marriage.

4. Finding someone from a matrimonial site.

5. They also don't have lot's of contacts.

6. Unique Status position.

Again you can only find Rishtas realistically from either you knowing contacts, or you finding contacts. (One or the other), because our culture has a very much marry 2 families instead of just 2 people.

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"Necessity is the mother of invention"
 
proverb
when the need for something becomes essential, you are forced to find ways of getting or achieving it.
 
Dating is supposedly a taboo for Sikhs but as money takes priority over moral values n parents no longer bothered who can say it's wrong.
 
I wonder why there's no mention of minimum & maximum age for marriage in Rehat Maryada ?
 
None of the religious leaders were genuine & bold enough to add this much needed diktat "marrying age" in Sikh Code of Conduct.
 
 
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