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Just now, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

how does one then resolve the mental conflict of spirituality and materialism ?

can one not choose both , esp as far as intimacy with your loved one is concerned ?

I would love to lead a spiritual life , as I am interested in spirituality, but then I can't give up on all the cute guys without flirting with them . ^_^

ALL the cute guys ...are you really trying to tell me you are so fickle that you could not keep to one ?

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again with the jumping to conclusions ...in sikhi there is only ONE Pursh AKAL PURAKH the rest are Naari jaat whether human male or female. if you read the chiritars as detailed BOTH human forms are s

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actually porn is part of the zionist agenda to undermine/subvert other moralistic faiths, family structures and societal values of non-zion countries so they can be subdued and brought under the rule

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not everyone has privilege of wealth, health or happiness ... it's all karam de khel

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2 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

I would love to lead a spiritual life , as I am interested in spirituality, but then I can't give up on all the cute guys without flirting with them . ^_^

Gst a hobby.

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1 hour ago, jkvlondon said:

ALL the cute guys ...are you really trying to tell me you are so fickle that you could not keep to one ?

you obviously don't understand the dynamics of how society works, esp in regards to marginalized groups .

And I was just referring to flirting. Please don't try to raise a finger on my character. no offense

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5 minutes ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

you obviously don't understand the dynamics of how society works, esp in regards to marginalized groups .

And I was just referring to flirting. Please don't try to raise a finger on my character. no offense

I was  asking if you were trying to say you were a social butterfly ....I am aware of a lot of things in those circles as quite a few work colleagues of both sexes  were openly/closet  homo, saw first hand how they were picked on, how they deflected aggression and one uni friend was just so queeny it hurt ...but he was a virgin .

Homos are humans not baingan so they have the same relationship problems , may be a little more because of the competitive streak I've seen .

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On 2017-09-05 at 8:10 PM, Guest Guest123 said:

What was the need for porn? Why is it even on the internet? And because of some sites not asking for proof such as bank details or ID etc a lot of the younger generation are getting addicted to it! I read as young as 11!!!!!! It also wrecks our rehat and sikhi!!!!!

Remember this from long ago?

Ah I have been waiting on this topic to show up. Let us find out why the future of sikhi are addicted 

It does start on a early age. While the parent(s) are to busy with work and stress. The smartphone is parents best babysitter that can take care of them while going to the bathrom. 

If you do not live in the US and do not have access to youtube kids. Then your kids watch stuff like spiderman and elsa from the movie Frozen being sexual with each other.

Basically porn will affect the whole society.

If you find that video on google (which is nsfw for 18+) at around 28:00 you will see the story of Randeep paji that tells tyger about his problem with porn which is very interesting to listen to.

Her full lecture (Gail Dines) is also really interesting.

Porn addiction it should be classed the same as heroin addiction. In canada is classed as a health hazrd for the population according to her.

Men want thier woman to look like Sunny Leone.

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12 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

I was  asking if you were trying to say you were a social butterfly ....I am aware of a lot of things in those circles as quite a few work colleagues of both sexes  were openly/closet  homo, saw first hand how they were picked on, how they deflected aggression and one uni friend was just so queeny it hurt ...but he was a virgin .

Homos are humans not baingan so they have the same relationship problems , may be a little more because of the competitive streak I've seen .

I am the polar opposite of a "social butterfly" bhenji . I am more like a wallflower. I have a hard time socializing with people I guess, or is it because I never tried hard enough .

Just yesterday felt like watching horror movie "IT". So asked a colleague sitting in front of me if he would like to go . He didn't knew about me. So I guess he agreed. Due to time issue, our plan got spoiled.

Last weekend, I asked a guy if he would like to go for movie Annabelle. That prick said yes and I booked 2 tickets, later on somehow perhaps he came to remember I had told him a few days back I am not interested in girls. So slowly he turned uncomfortable and canceled coming. I had to watch it alone.

I have a hard time making friends and have very few if any. 

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12 hours ago, jkvlondon said:

Homos are humans not baingan so they have the same relationship problems , may be a little more because of the competitive streak I've seen .

No , its not the same problems, atleast not here in india and most likely not even in US, UK, canada, etc where they have full rights "on paper" and so called social acceptance by more than 50% of society.

Still most of them have so much wounds on psyche or for whatsoever reasons, perhaps due to lack of social expectations from their relationships, low self-esteem due to bullying and othering by society, their relationships are often brittle and fall apart , and when they do , no one's (family, in laws, etc) there to hold them together unlike normative relationships.

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5 hours ago, AjeetSinghPunjabi said:

No , its not the same problems, atleast not here in india and most likely not even in US, UK, canada, etc where they have full rights "on paper" and so called social acceptance by more than 50% of society.

Still most of them have so much wounds on psyche or for whatsoever reasons, perhaps due to lack of social expectations from their relationships, low self-esteem due to bullying and othering by society, their relationships are often brittle and fall apart , and when they do , no one's (family, in laws, etc) there to hold them together unlike normative relationships.

I thought gays were legally allowed to marry in India? But apparently it's completely illegal for some reason. (Life-imprisonment apparently). What do other gay people do in India with your situation?

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3 hours ago, Jacfsing2 said:

I thought gays were legally allowed to marry in India? But apparently it's completely illegal for some reason. (Life-imprisonment apparently). What do other gay people do in India with your situation?

LOL , no wonder . Actually even gay sex is not illegal in india. If I am "caught" red-handed in an intimate position with a man, police can slap sec377 case to me and I could get life imprisonment as maximum punishment, although its rarely enforced but still present in the penal code. And the hindutva govt is in no hurry to scrap this travesty.

So gay marriage is a 100 light year ahead thing. 

Right now india is in a point of history where westernization and urbanization is highest than ever. You see more girls in mini skirts than ever . All youth, esp urban youth is so westernized. No one raises an eyebrow if a girl and a guy are together in public place.

Despite this , lgbt is suffocated. Thats why the disparity is so huge , its painful for most gays . To see someone else take for granted  and enjoy what you are deprived off and would beg to get , is painful

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