Need Help!!!!!

[Gurpreet Singh]

Waheguru ji ka khalsa !

Waheguru ji ki fateh!!

Mkhalsa jio,

what would you call a relationship with extreme moh.......two gursikhs who spend time in each others company doing paath, doing simran, doing kirtan ??......but singhji i know the case has always been if you like someone you tell your parents and then the marriage gets arranged.......but whats this singh/singhni's fault?....their parents still caught up in the caste system...is that their fault?......i understand u have been thru this already but i don't see these couples feelings as extreme moh....and another thing they would be willing to say it infront of the panj piare and their parents but the singh needs to finish up his studies...anyways singhji no one hates you....and i don't hate gill either...its just that when people jump to conclusions without knowing the situation and the singh/singhni involved...thats what's wrong..anyways .. thanks everyone for replying on this thread ....

Waheguru ji ka khalsa !

Waheguru ji ki fateh!!

[Jaspaul Singh]

Ya i think i gotta agree wit gurps here..

.. mkhalsa veer i agree that its hard and you went through it rite, but not every relationship is the same, and the feeling u two had is prob different to the singh/singhni in this relationship. From what gurpreet veerji is saying, these two are pretty close and on the sikhi path, n i think those this strong .. guru ji is always on their side.

[Sunshine]

soohee mehulaa 4 ||

Soohee, Fourth Mehl:

keethaa kurunaa surub rujaaee kishh keechai jae kar sukeeai ||

All that happens, and all that will happen, is by His Will. If we could do something by ourselves, we would.

aapunaa keethaa kishhoo n hovai jio har bhaavai thio rukheeai ||1||

By ourselves, we cannot do anything at all. As it pleases the Lord, He preserves us. ||1||

maerae har jeeo subh ko thaerai vas ||

O my Dear Lord, everything is in Your power.

asaa jor naahee jae kishh kar hum saakeh jio bhaavai thivai bukhas |1|| rehaao ||

I have no power to do anything at all. As it pleases You, You forgive us. ||1||Pause||

subh jeeo pi(n)dd dheeaa thudhh aapae thudhh aapae kaarai laaeiaa ||

You Yourself bless us with soul, body and everything. You Yourself cause us to act.

jaehaa thoo(n) hukum kurehi thaehae ko kurum kumaavai jaehaa thudhh

dhhur Likh paaeiaa ||2||

As You issue Your Commands, so do we act, according to our pre-ordained destiny. ||2||

pu(n)ch thuth kar thudhh srisatt subh saajee koee shhaevaa kario jae kishh keethaa hovai ||

You created the entire Universe out of the five elements; if anyone can create a sixth, let him.

eikunaa sathigur mael thoo(n) bujhaavehi eik munumukh kurehi s rovai |3||

You unite some with the True Guru, and cause them to understand, while others, the self-willed manmukhs, do their deeds and cry out in pain. |3||

har kee vaddiaaee ho aakh n saakaa ho moorukh

mugudhh neechaan ||

I cannot describe the glorious greatness of the Lord; I am foolish, thoughtless, idiotic and lowly.

jun naanuk ko har bukhas lai maerae suaamee surunaagath paeiaa ajaan ||4||4||15||24||

Please, forgive servant Nanak, O my Lord and Master; I am ignorant, But I have entered Your Sanctuary. ||4||4||15||24||