Bibian With Facial Hair....

[guruvah]

As I promised under the thread,"Tell The Truth"..under gupt forum... :umm:

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Let me tell you guys a story……

Where I come from, there is an amritdharee phen jee here.She has some facial hair.She has a dharee on her chin , which is about 2 inches long :T: and she 37 year old.

Till today,this phen jee has not received even ONE proposal for mariage… .not even ONE! ...why :H: ?....because she has a bit of hair on her face….which makes her look like a man rather than a woman :H: ……. Her parents have been trying HARD for the past 12 years :D _oh_OLD: to find a rishta for her…..but their efforts have been in vain. :glare:

There is an easy for her…..and she knows about it….she can just shave off the hair or have a surgery done by a plastic surgeon.Then she can just look like a normal women.But, you know what?.....She chooses to keep her facial dharee… ..because she knows it is a kurehit to remove hair… ……because she knows she had given her head to her father, Guru Gobind Singh Sahib maharaj… ..because she knows she made this promise to her Father :WW: !Guru Gobind Singh Sahib maharaj… …..

For over the 12 years……she has been rejected time after time :cool: ……..people have made her a laughing stock(about her facial hair) ……she has also been through a lot of emosional suffering. (for being rejected continuesly…..being pressured by her family to remove her facial hair…..so that it would be easier to get a rishta for her).

Her younger sister who doesn't have any facial hair tho….has vowed that she will not get maried as long as her older sister is not married .Her mariage has been delayed for years now….and she is 35yo now .This phen jee has told her sister not to worry about her……and she should get married first…but the younger sister just doesn'tlisten. This is one phen jee with facial hair whom I know has been through a lot.

Imagine how much love does she must have for her Guru ? (many singhs faill to see this quality in her! :closedeyes: )……No matter how much of rejection she has faced :cry: ….being made fun of :closedeyes: ….and pressured :compress: …..she still didn't desert her Guru Sahibs hand .This is LOVE…..true love…..ask yourself a question……if I was in her shoes , would I still be still standing…and upholding Guru Sahibs rehit? :bakreey:

The only reason Dass is posting this post is because many seem to say "yesssssss" on the thread, "Tell The Truth".I know a singh who was about the same age as this phen jee and was looking for a Bibi :cool: .I told him about this phen jee and he was kinda impressed with her love for Guru Sahib's rehit.Then I asked him,"why don't you propose to this phen jee?' :wub: '…his reply was,''Errrrrrrrmmm …actually I am kinda not ready yet ..but I will definitely help you to look for a rishta for this phen ''……It is easy to talk…..but when you come under such situation …many ussually CHICKEN OUT!. :bakreey: ....

But hey :umm: !....who cares :glare: ......end of the day everyone of us wants a DAAAYYYYYYYMMMM HOT partner who looks like :wub: Angelina Jolie phen jee :wub: !(same goes for BIBIAN :glare: ...before they get paranoid and start bashing the singhs for no reason !)....Looks are so imporant :wubc: …that some amritdharees see no SHAME :..: in getting married to a partner who is not even amritdharee :umm: ….such people are just encouraged to take amrit for the sake of getting married @ ….not because out of love.Before you get married ask yourself these questions……Does my life partner loves my Guru?....does s/he keeps rehit?......daym :wub: who cares as long as they look HOT !.....

And for those who made fun of Bibian with facial hair …….if you are NOT ASHAMED of your self after reading about this phen jee…..I have no words left for u…..find the talest bulding in ur town and jump out of it!!

So any SOORMA Singh :nihungsmile: here ready to hold this phen jee's hand?PM me ….now we will see how many are willing to help out! Ecspecially those who said YESS….

[millitant_kaur]

:WW:

BIG respek 2 dat Penji!!!!!!!!!

[Singh-in-Welling]

So any SOORMA Singh :nihungsmile: here ready to hold this phen jee's hand?PM me ….now we will see how many are willing to help out! Ecspecially those who said YESS….

Guruvah Ji this is an amazing post and a real eye opener...now i can undastand y u feel so strongly about this topic!! but i sed YES but i am only 16 an i cannot marry any1 yet coz im doing my GCSEs lol !!

[millitant_kaur]

not funny! ...

im not surprised she hasnt been marrid yet after all what sort of man wants to marry a woman that looks like another man ....am only playing think i should my thoughts in my head

ye i fink u shud kp em in ur hed. u may meanit asa joke n it may sound funni 2 u, but i fink u shud jus kpem 2 urself.

[millitant_kaur]

EAZIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII now ppl. Singhaliscious noz hes in d rong. no need 2 get violent coz it ain gan solve netin!!!!!! lets jus kp calm. maybe Singhalicious shudnt post nuffin on dis topic if he ain got netin 2 say dat wont offend ne1!

[Singh-in-Welling]

This brown on brown violence makes me sick!!! jus joking

but seriously paji, sometimes there are jus sone thoughts that shud jus be kept quiet

[singhalicious]

This brown on brown violence makes me sick!!! jus joking

but seriously paji, sometimes there are jus sone thoughts that shud jus be kept quiet

Someone here has a sense of humour :cool:

[millitant_kaur]

nutters!

[Pakhand]

wjkk wjkf

Singhalicious if u reading this i fink you shud hush yaslf if you gt nufin nice 2 say say nufin at all dis is a serious post dnt take da mic plz

y cnt people just xcpt waheguruz hukam

sorri if i sed nefin rong

fateh

[jasmeet86]

there goes the chance for another singhnee to be brave enough to take the step..anyway a real to the penji who is brave enough..i know my waheguru will help my beautiful penji..n she will get a beautiful soul who will take good care of her...and her waiting will bring good reward..and im sure the praji who marries her wont regret...gurfateh

bhul chuk maaf ji