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Sangat Jio im in abit of a crisis i was having so back problems this weekend and the docs gave these painkiller and sed they WUD NOT make me drowsy.................... But i knocked out and when i was awake i was all giggly and acting...........well............drunk............. :wub: Do they put alcohol type sunstances in painkillers such as Tramadol...............? i didnt mean to do it its just my stupid back was hurting and i tuk the tablets to help it :wub:
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I Think I Have Ocd And I Need The Sangats Advice 1 2 3
by Guest help- 23 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khasla Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh I think I have OCD, and its making doing path very hard. I get intrusive thoughts, that I can't control. I get thoughts of saying bad stuff to the Guru, Saheeds and sants. I get thoughts of me doing beadbi. When I do ardaas every time I say the Gurus name at the beginning of Ardaas, my mind says bad stuff about the Gurus. I was my hands a lot, and now because of excess washing my skin is getting damaged. I feel like if i touch my head with my hands then im disrespecting my Kesh. I wash my hands a lot before touching the Gutka Sahib Ji. I also wash my hands a lot because my family eats meat and drinks alcohol, and I feel…
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I think I messed up, how do I undo this!?! Please help 1 2
by Guest 500rma- 18 replies
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I think I just committed apostasy in sikhi. I’m kesadhari/Nitnemi and not amritdhari. long story short, a man approached me at work started to ask stuff about me which was very unusual. So he was rather nice and then he reaches out to shake my hand before leaving and I shook him and then asked me to say “Jesus, come into my heart.” Me being a dumba$$ that I am I actually said it. Now I feel really terrible. It’s 10pm at night. I feel like I betrayed guru sahib. how do I fix this mess? How do i apologize to guru sahib that I messed up and accept me back. ”jab lag Khalsa rahe niara, tab tak tej diyo Mai Sara. Jab eh Gaye bipran ki reet, Mai na Karu Inki parte…
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I think I saw Guru Nanak Dev Ji 1 2
by Guest Spiritual soul- 10 replies
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I hope this doesn't sound strange or delusional to any one reading this. Maybe there are other people out there like me, who "know " things, or "see"things, without trying. I am a very spiritual person , who does not know how to read Gurbani, but deeply believes in the true Sikh way of life. I believe you should care for all human beings and try to help and show compassion for them. I was born in England, and raised in Canada. We used to attend the Gurdwara every weekend, when we were children, with my parents. I am an adult 47 year old woman now. I used to see auras in University. I didn't know what was happening, so I mentally blocked it , as it would take tremendous am…
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I think I'm going to be reincarnated, what can I do?? 1 2
by Guest sengh- 10 replies
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I feel I can be close to God but I am very far off so I might be a Gurmukh in my next life? What can I do to be with Waheguru when I am destined for reincarnation?
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I Think Im A Failure.. 1 2
by Guest -low self esteeem-- 11 replies
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vaheguru jee ka khalsa, vaheguru jee kee fateh. Hello. I have a question. My whole life, as a person ive never liked myself in any ways. i hate mirrors, i cant bare to see myself. i hate pictures, i think i look hideous. i hate school, i always feel stupid there. i hate myself. How can i say this though? i feel like im insulting guruji, but this is how i feel. I dont think im preeety, and i dont think im smart, all i really wanna do is curl up in bed all day. I hate myself, for not doing the things i shud be doing. ... i hate not having a talent.. i have so many thoughts jumbled up, i dont know where to put it all................. i dont get high marks in school, i feel…
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I Think It Is Time For Usa Sikhs To Come Home
by Guest LAXMAN-REHKA- 0 replies
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Satsangat ji, Sat Sri Akal! Mai ohh vyaktee hegaan jinneh pichleh mahineh ehh savaal puchaya cee: http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?/topic/67496-i-dont-believe-in-modern-feminism/ Having lived in usa 23 years, I have been advocating for the past 15 years that there is a fundamental flaw in American culture because of capitalism. Unbridled capitalism is especially now lethal because all semblance of morality has been lost in american culture. Some say that 90% of Sikhs in the west cater too much to trying to appease the whiteman because they don't want to come across as intolerant. Yet tolerance can't be the cause because when it comes to speaking out against Musli…
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I Thought He Was Far But He Is So Close
by Guest _Someone_- 2 replies
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I have sinned to think he was far...Maybe I looked for him in the wrong places. I thought he was somewhere outside in the world. Though it's true that he is outside too. But he is somewhere else...somewhere which is so much closer than the outside. Way closer then I think. He is inside of me. He is that close. I have sinned...I thought he was far. But I had forgotton that he is so near. Problem isn't it? Something that truly needs to be dealt with... What would you do?
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I THOUGHT WE WERE TOUGH !? 1 2
by Guest Singh- 12 replies
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I took amirt recently and i use to think all the teen Sikhs at the gudhwara sahib were inspirig just by looking at them me being the same age as them. i thought they were awesome sikhs i thought they did naam simram, read gurbani hardout, stood up for sikhi and were tough guys. But i found out that half if not all these TEEN sikhs are so.wimpy (so sorry in saying that there gurus sikhs i shouldnt be talking like this) they think there tough by taking photos of themseleves with.there sleeves rolled up haha idk so weird they dont listen to katha, i confronted them me being there fellow sikh brother i told them to sit in the hall and stop taking photos of each other, they d…
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I took a hukamnama... 1 2
by Guest Kaur 2- 12 replies
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VJKK VJKF I took a cyber hukamnama after I specially did an ardas. Can someone please tell me what it means and quick so I can take on the hukam Thanks. In Gurmukhi ਆਸਾ ਮਹਲਾ ੫ ॥ ਆਪੇ ਪੇਡੁ ਬਿਸਥਾਰੀ ਸਾਖ ॥ ਅਪਨੀ ਖੇਤੀ ਆਪੇ ਰਾਖ ॥੧॥ ਜਤ ਕਤ ਪੇਖਉ ਏਕੈ ਓਹੀ ॥ ਘਟ ਘਟ ਅੰਤਰਿ ਆਪੇ ਸੋਈ ॥੧॥ ਰਹਾਉ ॥ ਆਪੇ ਸੂਰੁ ਕਿਰਣਿ ਬਿਸਥਾਰੁ ॥ ਸੋਈ ਗੁਪਤੁ ਸੋਈ ਆਕਾਰੁ ॥੨॥ ਸਰਗੁਣ ਨਿਰਗੁਣ ਥਾਪੈ ਨਾਉ ॥ ਦੁਹ ਮਿਲਿ ਏਕੈ ਕੀਨੋ ਠਾਉ ॥੩॥ ਕਹੁ ਨਾਨਕ ਗੁਰਿ ਭ੍ਰਮੁ ਭਉ ਖੋਇਆ ॥ ਅਨਦ ਰੂਪੁ ਸਭੁ ਨੈਨ ਅਲੋਇਆ ॥੪॥੧੭॥੬੮॥ Phonetic English Aasaa Mehalaa 5 || Aapae Paedd Bisathhaaree Saakh || Apanee Khaethee Aapae Raakh ||1|| Jath Kath Paekho Eaekai Ouhee || Ghatt Ghatt Anthar Aapae Soee ||…
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I took amrit as a kid and trimmed my hair due because I was stupid. Now im older and want to go to pesh but im scared of what the punj payare will say.
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I Used To Be More Inspired And Have More Faith Before I Took Amrit, What Happened? :-( 1 2 3
by Guest KKaur- 24 replies
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Gurfateh Jee Im just really confused and upset, and one question keeps playing on my mind. Why is it that before I took Amrit I felt more closer to Gurujee and I had more faith? I don't get it. At the age of 13/14 I went through a phase of waking up at 2 a.m to do amritvela, and found myself continuously doing simran throughout the day, even while being at school. I used to cry when hearing the amazing stories of gursikhs from the past which my dad used to tell me, and I used to feel so motivated and so faithful, and I used to think 'I want that'! But slowly after taking amrit (not straight after) but after time I don't feel like I am now what I used to be. I dont fee…
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I Used To Pluck My Beard 1 2 3
by Guest Sikh_Man192- 27 replies
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wjkk wjkf sangat ji about for 2-3 years i would pluck my dhadi and i wouldn't know it was a bad habit i would just pluck it from spots. just keep picking at it. But for about 1 year i have stopped i RAreley do it ( but no all the spots are covered up with hair.) I HAVE A CURLY DHADI. know but i just put my hand in my dhadi and strait it out! but the one thing i love about my dhadi is that it is coming in a perfect shape ! when i take a shower and come out i brush it and its in a perfect shape but after in 1-2 hours it doesn't look like that anymore and my 2 questions are that is my dhadi going to come out in the future in this perfect shape ? 2nd question is that how do i…
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I Want Amrit! 1 2 3
by Guest Singhni- 20 replies
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Wjkk wjkf I am 14 going to be 15 soon. Sikhi is my life and I will do anything even scrafice myself. The only problem is that my dad won't let me take amrit. i started keeping amritdari rehit like 2-3years ago and still going. I really want to be an amritdari, I want to give my head to Guruji. My mum also follows the rehit, just waiting for my dad. My elder sister is an amritdari, she took amrit without telling my dad, when my dad found out, i have seen what happened. I am really proud of her for doing this. That day, I saw how strong amrit was. it was hurtful to see everyone arguing but my sister she proved me how strong amrit is. it just felt so good to see a lioness…
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I want dasam bani sanchiaa
by Guest Singh62- 3 replies
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Sangat ji , I want to read dasam bani from sanchiaa without line to line explanation. But I don't know where i can get those sanchiaa from punjab . I asked to many shops near gurughar but they have teeka by pandit narain singh sanchiaa . Please help
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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