GUPT FORUM
Need Privacy? You got it ! Discuss and share your views without revealing your identity.
7,429 topics in this forum
-
I Want More Hair On My Head Pls Help
by Guest Singh- 2 replies
- 1k views
Guys, I have noticed that I have got shorter hair on my head compared to others which have got more longer hair nearly reaching their feet. Im so embarrassed of my short hair, please please please help me get longer hair
Last reply by ASKhalsa1, -
I want to back off saying no to him without hurting him . Please help!
by Guest Anonymous Kaur- 1 reply
- 552 views
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh, I need help in saying I don’t want the relationship anymore or to end it but without insulting myself or hurting the other person. ok so there was this guy who proposed to me and I said yes because he wore a turban, doesn’t cut hair, is respectful and has a good career. He is from another caste but that didn’t affect me much, i knew it will for my parents with old mentality but I know I’d convince them. Being in a relationship for about 7 months but known each other for a couple months more because used to chat. We only met like 3 times only. He told me he rejected many girls because thinkings don’t match and thinks our does…
-
I Want To Be A Devout Sikh But Much Stuff Is Holding Me Back!
by Guest Sam Singh- 1 reply
- 702 views
Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ke Fateh Hello, I'm a 16 year old guy who is a Sindhi,Hindu who wants to convert into Sikhism! I want to follow all 5 k's but my parents are afraid of the racist people in Southern United States! I want to learn Different prayers but i cannot find any online all i chant is the mool mantra. Please teach me is there another way to change my parents mind and where i can become a true Sikh!
Last reply by Mrkhalsa007, -
I Want To Be A Sikh But...
by Guest Dutch Guy- 8 replies
- 1.9k views
Good Day i would like to know what the gurus, sggs and sikhs say about homosexual? do they think its wrong and bad like christs and muslims do? or do you say its okay so long they do not harm other ones..? this is a important point for me in religion specially in these modern times. would be bad if i would be in a religion, after years i have a son with my wife and then he is gay but need to hide it his whole live. maybe it destroys his mind... are all animals beautiful and equal to waheguru? nothing like dogs are nice but if you touch one you should wash your hands 7times.. and more important: you think, if i would convert to sikhism, there is still a…
Last reply by Revolutionary, -
I Want To Change 1 2 3
by Guest change- 28 replies
- 4.8k views
i really want to change my lifestyle.... i want to sleep less, get up early do nitnem, and really lose some weight. i want to excercise have discipline eat healthy food. i want to study well ..i want to change. i dont know what to do. the key is ardas. but i dont know what to do or say. i feel so lost. i start follow this path.. but i feel like i cant handle this. sikhi isto hard for me, sometimes i want to go back to my old life....have my hair loose, my eyebrows done, wants to party...whats happening with me
-
I have worn a turban alll my life and have hated most of it. I find as though it gets in the way of my every day life such when playing sports it tends to fall off my head and if I do have it tight on my head I tend to feel dizzy and in unable to play team sports properly such as rugby and football which makes my teammates very pissed with me and has also led my to failing to get onto the school team. I live in community in which I have people pointing and staring at me ,and calling me names like "rag head" or sly comments like "I have your head gets better" or even when I wear my patka people on the street call me "pirate". I am suffering from depression and social anxi…
Last reply by ipledgeblue, -
I Want To Cut My Hair 1 2
by Guest _Indy_- 11 replies
- 2.6k views
Where to start off..hmm. Okay firstly my name is Inderjot Singh i am currently studying Commerce at Uni in New Zealand... I have been brought up as a Sikh but my upbrining is was not the ideal upbringing since i only started living with my parents till i was 12... Anyway the reason i am here is to get some advice on is, that i am a 19 year old guy who grew up to take Sikhism at face value and never realy got told much about why i am a Sikh so hence as years went by i made up my own beliefs and so on, however i do have a understanding of Sikh values. I am at a crossroads in my life at the moment where i think i will cut my hair because i think it should be your own c…
-
I want to cut my hair.
by Guest Anonymous9089- 7 replies
- 1k views
So I’m in grade 6 without a patka but I have a rumal. I live in Australia and have my whole life so kids here are getting aware of Sikhs but most don’t know I am (due to me not wearing a patka or paag). My mum wasn’t very pushy for me to wear a patka but my grandpa was. Now people are saying to my mum “your son is in grade 6 and still doesn’t wear anything to cover his head” (those people are from my gurudwara and culturel community. Once people said that, my mum has pushed me to do something harder than anything before in my life. I’ve got a cousin and a brother who both have cut their hair. Now everyone is getting to me and all I think about now is wearing a patka and p…
-
i want to die??
by Guest NONEOFURBUSINESS100- 9 replies
- 951 views
Hi, so basically im a 22 year old female and i am completely fkin fed up of life I HATE IT AND I HATE EVERYONE IN IT. and all i can think about is killing myself lately??? it just seems there is no point in me living anymore. is there some sort of paat or kirtan or ANYTHING that can help me feel better!? I dnt rlly know what im suppose to listen too, religion is like my last resort rn cos MAYBE GOD CAN FRICKEN HELP ME. i feel so alone and hopeless and i have like 5839 meltdowns a day. THANK U FOR READING THIS AND I RLLY APPRECIATE ANY HELP TBH.
-
- 2 followers
- 222 replies
- 17.3k views
As the title suggests, I believe this has to be done sooner or later. Don't wish to end up like Californiasardar all lonely, frustrated at women and being a partypooper on every thread(just kidding). Lets discuss,suggest,encourage,discourage me on this thought of mine.
Last reply by GurjantGnostic, -
I Want To Learn Pure Punjabi
by Guest Learn- 1 reply
- 1.1k views
I know basic punjabi but it is broken but i want to learn pure punjabi , i dont have an accent while speaking punjabi but i dont know how to put it all together and dont have enough vocab, is there any books that i can learn to understand and speak pure punjabi
Last reply by Not2Cool2Argue, -
- 1 follower
- 40 replies
- 10.3k views
I know sikhi isn’t a top, which I can take off and put it back on later. I don’t mean to offend anybody! I took Amrit on my 14th birthday and tbh life before that was amazing. (Btw I am 17 now) I loved the attention off girls and family members, friends etc telling me that me and my older brother are very good looking. (I was a mona and all my family apart from my grandmother are patits) After taking Amrit, obviously I looked different. It was hard to suddenly stop getting all that attention. I read a post on here that was pretty much basically like my life, how my family isn’t amritdhari and that person used to get loads of comments too. I’m a strong amritdhar…
Last reply by Jacfsing2, -
I Want To Lose The Weight! 1 2
by Guest wanna b slim- 15 replies
- 1.9k views
Hi I am afraid to say it but I’m a really fat Singh i weight 90kg! and i wanted to know how to lose the weight! Nobody likes a fat Singh! The reason i came onto here because i want to know about how many rotis to eat or what sabji daal. And how to burn the weight! And just good tips! Also what should be the average weight of a man?? also when should i eat? because i do rehrass late and i go slep straight after i eat.
Last reply by Barfi n Mithai, -
I want to move to London for my University course? 1 2
by Guest Kaur- 14 replies
- 1.5k views
So im 22 years old and i am thinking about moving to London to do a postgrad course. But as a sikh girl that isnt married i just feel like it would not be appropriate. What do you think ?
Last reply by ipledgeblue, -
- 8 replies
- 1.2k views
Almost everyone tells me I’m blessed, I come from a wealthy background, I’m blessed with good looks and I’m at a top uni and a model for a famous clothing brand, but I have a very big secret I have never told anyone, I think I’m bi. I think I am because I’ve never done anything with someone the same sex but I have fancied and been attracted to them. the only way I fight this urge is to sleep with anyone. I feel shame writing this on a Sikh religious forum but I feel like for you to help me you need to understand all the details, I will sleep with any girl I find attractive. Gori, Hindu, Muslim anyone. If I have this feeling of attraction to another male, then I’ll ju…