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Dealing with child's death
by Guest gurukachakkar- 7 replies
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Sadh Sangat ji, I need your opinion on how to deal with situation when your 5 year old kid is dying of cancer. My son has been suffering from this deadly disease since 2.5 years with multiple relapses and now is progressing like wildfire and I suspect few weeks are left. Though I have full faith in Guruji from very start and he has taken great seva from me in terms of gurbani paath reading, nitnem, sangat, shabad keertan, sehaj path but disease is not showing any signs of regression or even control. Even these days I am able to spend few hours doing path, naam bani and everything. With Guru's grace, our family (including my son) was able to visit Harmandir Sahib and …
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Kurehit
by Guest Guest- 5 replies
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well bascially im the only amrtidhari in the 1n my family are very respectful but i have just found out that they have given food to me cooked in the the same oven- the veg at the bottom and the meat at the top do i need to go pesh
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Confused Bhenji Here
by Guest Guest- 5 replies
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wjkk wjkf i jus want to ask this question as somebody said somthing to me and its been playing on my mind...i dont want to start any big arguements or anything or offend anyone... i know nothing compared to others on this forum.. so please forgive me if my question may sound stuupid!? why do we wear the kakkars..yet theres no mention of them in our Guru Granth Sahib Ji...? i havent done much research myself, but i was hoping that some one would clear this up for me please i would ultimately love to take amrit but i want to be 110% sure that i no the reasons so i can b confident to answer questions - i want do it properly with all my heart - with no doubts thank you s…
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Waheguru Shivers
by Guest nihung singh- 5 replies
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Sometimes when i do simran i get shivers maybe it just happen because i have the worst concentration ever so when i get bored i yawn and get shivers in sum type of order. I dunno iv jsut always wanted to ask if it happend to anyone else. Im the laziest person in the world because whhenever i do paat i automatically start yawning.i dunno BUT saying waheguru gives me shivers......... :lol:
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Hair Issue
by Guest DhKaur- 5 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh I am a kaur, I have been amritari since I was a child. Just a few years ago, I was clinically depressed, and at some point last year, I couldn't bring myself to showerv every day, or anything. I didn't comb my hair for about a year due to depression, and now my hair is matted and impossible to comb. I still wear a dastaar but my hair is so rough and big, It's bundled up I want my old hair back, when it was long, silky, and beautiful. I do NOT want to cut it, obviously. But I am looking for advice. I don't know how to get my old hair back. I wish to never cut it. I know I've made a terrible mistake and I do ardaas, but pleas…
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I fail to wake at amrit vela, resulting in not doing nitnem paath or simran in the early hours of the morning. I feel like my sikhi saroop isn't there, which makes me feel 'dead whilst yet alive..' I set a routine and slowly it works and then something gets in the way, resulting to failure again. I haven't been consistent with amrit vela, some days are better than others but I feel like I'm sinning. Does this mean I will have to go to pesh to ask for forgiveness as I've initially broken a vow to guru sahib of not waking at amrit vela and doing nitnem bani.. Please any advice would be helpful. WJKK WJKF
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Drug Users
by Guest koolsingh- 6 replies
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Wjkk wjkf sangat ji our Sikh panth is in a real bad state this is in my eyes the reason for this is in my school there are lot of Sikh drug users and just recently 2 of my friends started smoking when I found out I was shocked and me and my m8 told our 2 friends to stop smoking and told them it against guru jis teaching they accepted it was wrong and told us they will stop and then just last week they started smoking again and the whole school was talking about it me and my m8 got annoyed we told our 2 friends 3 times stop smoking but they don’t listen it goes in one ear and comes out the other so I what to now the next course of action I should take any ideas sangat …
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Need Help
by Guest guest- 5 replies
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sangat ji wjkk wjkf I am starting to lose faith with alot of things in my life, including religion which is really starting to worry me. I am sikh but trim my beard and eat meat and often drink alcohol. I have always believed in god and do try and to do japji saihb most mornings. my parents are both amritdhari and always go gurdwara and do bani. They have always given me freedom and have never forced religion on me, they say when you are ready to commit wahaguru will guide you. another problem is, that i am quite lazy and not the most intelligent person in the world. I have no qualifications and am finiding really difficult getting a job which often leads me to a d…
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Which Uk Party Should Sikhs Vote For ?
by Guest gill- 5 replies
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Please who should uk sikhs vote in the coming european mep and general election, which parties is for the sikhs.
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WJKK WJKF I'm trying to find a new career and have been wanting to get out of my job. I'm in IT abd where I am there's no progression and the area I'm in, support engineer i do not want to do anymore. I been looking at different areas of IT and wanted advice so I did a Hukamnama from Guruji. Can someone please explain to this manmukh the meaning of the Shabad. Is Guruji telling me not to look around after other things and stay put? Am i in trouble or with bad Sangat? What is Guruji telling me to do? Phul Chuk Maff swrg mhlw 5 ] Saarang, Fifth Mehla: ApunI ieqnI kCU n swrI ] By himself, the mortal canno…
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Loss of faith after marriage and depression
by Guest Incompatible- 9 replies
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Thoughts are on what people do when their marriage is troubling and not the greatest feel God has forsaken me
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Staying at the Central Khalsa Orphange as a guest
by Guest Thorspider- 9 replies
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I am 14-years old and I have been corresponding with an inmate who lives at the Central Khalsa Orphanage in Amritsar by snail mail for the past year and he asked me if I could come as an exchange student to India and stay at the orphanage as a long-term guest for free. I am not sure if this is a good idea or not.
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Guilty Conscience
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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my mum and brother had a massive fight this morning. i had to come and break it up they were jus trying to beat the <mod edited> out of each other. then my bro hit my mum on the head and she started crying. mum sed shes not gna make my bros packed lunch for sch so i started making it instead. she started shouting at me n tryin to argue with me so i told her not to and she ok, as long as you dont make him (my bro) anything to eat. so i didnt and he went hungry for the whole day at school. this might not b a biggie 2 any1 here, i mean he only missed one meal, but i feel really guilty. my mum AND my bro were in the wrong. but did i also do wrong by listening…
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Members Moving, Disapearing 1 2
by Guest -?????-- 12 replies
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why are there alot of high profile members like PSK disapearing from SS.com? I have noticed that other users are not posting here, what's going on?
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Family Memeber Ill.
by Guest -worried- 4 replies
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Wjkk wjkf. Hello sangat jio, Im having a problem and i want some opinions/help. One of my Family membeers was Very sick with Depression in the past, and currently i worry alot that It can happen again. It was very hard for my family to deal with. I constantly worry that it will strike again. This family member is very important to me, and i tell him all the time to stay happy and not let litle things bother him. But at the same time... one something personal bothers him he bottles it all Up and doesnt talk about it. I cant really talk to him about his personal problems. But... at the same times hes not VERY religious.. im jus wrried i guesss... that was one of the har…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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