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I need help regarding my dilemma. I met a transgender woman at a social event a few weeks ago and she told me I was very attractive and wanted to go out on a date with me. I told her she was a nice person but I am not attracted to transgender women. She then got furious and accused me of trans-phobia. A week after meeting her, she got a hold of my work place and started sending emails to my co-workers and boss saying that I am a pervert. What should I do?
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Contemplating divorce..karma 1 2
by Guest Dukhi- 11 replies
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Here's a good G I got married 4 years ago and my wife was from Indiana and she's completely different than how I even imagined her she's really difficult with my parents she's not making any effort to you know blend in with the family and I've tried telling her numerous times you know I've treated her well I never never disrespect her I just I just don't want to get a divorce but I just feel so confused on what to do I blame my car my blame you know everything that's happened and I just don't know what to do you know what I really don't want to get a divorce but I just feel like in order to maintain my sanity I might have to but I'm wondering why does God sometimes do thi…
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Will Sikh Leaders Install Hindu Gods In The Golden Temple?
by Guest Gurukasikh- 0 replies
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Pardeep Attri The first step in liquidating a people is to erase its memory. Destroy its books, its culture, its history, Then have somebody write new books, manufacture a new culture, invent a new history. Before long the nation will begin to forget what it is and what it was. The world around it will forget even faster. The struggle of man against power is the struggle of memory against forgetting. - Milan Kundera. In the month June 2012, the Government of Punjab announced that it will set up a 'cow memorial' at a factory site in Joga town, Mansa District, where recovery of cow carcasses had sparked off riots. And a day after announcing a 'cow memorial', the Badal G…
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Advice needed on ectopic pregnancy
by Guest singh82- 5 replies
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WJKK WJKF Sangat ji, My Wife found out 2 weeks ago that she is pregrant. this was great news as we have been tryng for a baby for a month or 2 now. however she started to bleed and get back pain and cramps in her stomach recently. So we went hospital for a emergency scan. the scan is not showing anything, my wife is getting pains on her left side of her back and is still bleeding hhere and their but not heavily. The scan did not show a baby or a heart beat, but it did show a shadow by her left ovary. the nurse said she is around 5 weeks pregnant but it is still early to show anythin on the ultrasound scan, they have said she has sypmtoms of a ECTOPIC pregnancy w…
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Youtube
by Guest Singh- 5 replies
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Gurfathe Sangat ji, I have come to the conclusion that there is something going on with youtube. They are putting subliminal messages into video's without you knowing. Watching or even listening to youtube videos will affect you. Before anyone starts saying I'm paranoid, just try not watching for 1 week. Also anyone who is being effected by kaam/lust should stop watching youtube videos and tv also if this works for you please let sangat know on this thread. There are alot of good channels e.g rajoana tv, basics of sikhi etc doing sikhi parchaar but they need to find another way or site or maybe sikhsangat can do something so sangat can upload videos without youtube. …
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Dealing with people 1 2
by Guest Singhni- 14 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa, Vaheguru ji ki fateh. I need serious Gurmat advice. There is one Singhni in particular who I have to see very often, and who I will be living with next year (I'm close to her family). It is very hard to put up with her. She has been brought up in a Gursikh family, but is not practicing Sikhi in the sense of having taken Amrit or doing Nitnem. She has had a very good upbringing, and has been spoilt with all the love and attention she could want. Now, as a young adult, she's self absorbed, temperamental and overly confident (ego). She is more concerned with popularity and taking pouty pictures than anything else. For example, she will constantly ta…
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the first time I took Amrit, I was 5 years old. After plenty of mistakes and growing I had taken it again at the age of 12 from pressure (not all of it was bad but some auntiyan were really urging me to just do it even though my family was warning me of all my responsibilities) and just pure desire to want it. It was at a camp and they really motivate you well. I kept it up for a while and ended up doing many wrongful things afterwards. I’ve plucked my eyebrows because I started getting insecure and ashamed, and just some of my facial hair in general after I got judgemental comments even from my own mother who is Amritdhari, I’ve removed a small amount from legs a couple …
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ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕਾ ਖ਼ਾਲਸਾ ਵਾਹਿਗੁਰੂ ਜੀ ਕੀ ਫਤੇ I've been invited to a naamdhari wedding of someone I work with. It is going to be at 5am in the morning starting with Asa Di Vaar before the Ananj Karaj. Would it be wrong if I went? In my opinion I'm going to go for the Keertan. Sangats input will be much appriciated
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Hello... From my readings I understand God to be formless and genderless and incomprehensible. However, I have read in a couple placed that God created man in his image. How could humans be the image of God when God is formless and present in all of creation. To me it makes sense that God would be formless because this whole of creation is God and a manifestation of God. God isn't just a human figure sitting somewhere making the world go round. Can someone elaborate on this notion that God created humans in God's image? Thanks! Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh -I.
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Urgent info/evidence on DSS 1 2
by Guest ILoveTrees- 15 replies
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VJKK VJKF Dear All an organisation called Trees For Cities (T4C) is doing brilliant work in and around London. My husband and I went to support them last week only to find that members of Dera Sacha Sauda were there with a stall set up and literally a ton of volunteers all clad in exclusive DSS gear to help with the tree planting. Since I wrote to the organisers to explain who and what DSS stood for and wanted to know what their affiliation with T4C is, I also went into a bit of detail regarding DSS. Attached is their response. Does anyone have any substantial evidence/links I can share with them? A random DSS search results in that twat prancing around on stag…
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Why are Deras succeeding so much? 1 2
by Guest Sant Nicholas Das- 14 replies
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Why are Deras seeing so much success in Punjab? My family particularly has been going to a small dera for generations and having recently gone back to Punjab, I've seen so much anti-gurmat things at these kind of places. I especially noticed that the Radha Soami dera leader has immense influence in the Doaba region. I see his photo in every other house/shop. Is there rise in power correlated to Sikhi getting weaker? Are there any ways to combat Deras in a non-Taliban approach? Lol. Is there a way to make the people understand and critically think why their supporting these Deras rather than going towards Sikhi? I've personally tried to point out the anti-gurmat ways of th…
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Confused
by Guest Gupt.- 7 replies
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Vjkk vjkf Ok sangat je here goes.. Basically dhass stopped talking to a relative while back due to them having raised their voice,sworn & said wrong things to dhass however because dhass didn't want to hold grudges at the time dhass said sorry because dhass thought dhas would be the better peson as dhass is the amrithari and the person in question isn't so tried to be humble & non egoistic by saying sorry even though dhass wasn't in the wrong.. But today someone tried to make us talk so dhass accepted that but then shades asked for them to say sorry as they were in the wrong..but got told dhass had ego..can someone explain to dhass wha to do????dhass is confuse…
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Quick question I did not last 24 hours before breaking amrit. Accidently took off my lashera. What I am I missing out on. How different wiuld my life be if i didnt mess up. Am i still amritdhari. I need correction and live in gta , and dont know when next amrit sanchar is.
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Weird feeling in forehead
by Guest Confused- 9 replies
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i have tingling feeling centre of foreheadish when doing simran path. Also hear tingling in ears during simran and sometimes when I am not doing it as well. Can someone clear this up please with details. Thanks
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Parent's are setting me back in my Sikhi 1 2
by Guest khalsasingh101- 14 replies
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From a young age I was always active within my Gurdwara commuity, and with Maharaj's kirpa and my Mahapurakh's help, I have been able to retain that and also become Amritdhari. After I became amritdhari, I developed immense love for Maharaj, which my parents were unfamiliar with, and it seems as if whenever I want do to something Sikhi-related, they become reluctant and say 'focus on your exams'. Due to me having GCSE's coming up, I wanted to do a formal ardaas to Maharaj with a granthi and I asked my mom,(after doing around 2 hours of revision), if I could go, She went "whats an ardaas going to do for you, stop with all this nonsense and do revision". Sangat Ji, I need s…
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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