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This is gonna sound reallyyyyyy silly, but I mite aswell say it. I don’t know if im being majorly paranoid or something yeah, but I always get really strange looks from people. Not even non Sikhs, theyre alrite, there might be a couple who look at me oddly but apart from that…its mostly apneh. even if I go to a program or something. Ill give u an example, few weeks ago I said fateh to a friend at a rehnsbai n we started talking as usual. N then randomly I noticed this other bibi givin me really funny looks. It wasn’t nasty, she just stood there n stared. Made me feel really uncomfortable (im a bibi too btw). Ive had this from more than one person, its not a dirty look o…
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Amrit Shak
by Guest Concerned Sikh- 6 replies
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my frinds tking amrit in a month,but i know she isn't ready.she won't be able to keep up with huge responsbility that cmes with Guru Mahrajs nectar,and i don wnt to tell i her i know this as she will thnk im jealous and are stopinng her,but what if she tke amrit and does bad things i wil get the paap ,what do i do ? ? :sady:
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I Dnt Feel Like Going Gurudwara Anymore Help! 1 2
by Guest _anon_- 10 replies
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wjkk wjkf i dont no wot to do I love going gurudwara i love listening to kirtan in the gurudwara but lately things aint right. It jus feels like that every gurudwara i go to the atmosphere aint right there always people arguing doing sly things to piss others off its all become so political i jus wish that gurudwara commitees would sort themselves out and people who actually really know a lot about sikhi would run the gurudware. it cos of all this tension and stuff in gurudwaras i dnt feel like going anymore cos instead of relaxing and listening to the bani etc the things going on around me jus take me away from it. ive tried jus ignoring it but it jus doesnt work i dn…
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Keski Kwestion
by Guest dumb and dumber- 7 replies
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hi all i have a question, i find it hard to play football in my keski, and i was wondering if i can wear a patka over it to keep it in place whilst playing footy? i dont think its a problem because i wear a dastaar over it during the day time. I know i cant take it off, but i risk that at footy, so keeping a patka to keep it secure seems the best bet... anyone been in this situation?
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im 22, 23 in may. not married and ive never been with a women i.e. kissed etc........maybe due to the fact i used to be clinically obese and had bad teeth....since then ive lost 7 and half stone (100 pounds) and got my teeth straigtened up.any way now im soley concentrating on becoming a lawyer so i havent got time for a relationship and its likely i will be a virgin until i get married.........what i wanted to know was whether a woman would get put off or laugh at me if she found out i was a very and had no experience (not even kissed ever). would a women want to get married to a guy like me....i would like female opinions only.
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Amritdhari Marriage Related Question 1 2 3
by Guest _Gupt_- 29 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh Sangat ji is it ok for a married amritdhari singh and singhni to sleep on one bed or do they have to seperate beds? Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fateh
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Hormonal Imbalances And Hair 1 2 3
by Guest - gupt -- 25 replies
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i have this mate who is having hormonal imbalances and one of the problems is facial hair, is it okie to have treatment for this???
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Registration?
by Guest khalsajot singh- 5 replies
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fateh ji. i have been trying to register to a while now. could some1 please explain how to do it as everytime i send a email or post (under guest) i dont get a reply at all. fateh ji khalsajot singh
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Drama Actors/actresses Required
by Guest Akaal Organistaion (Wolves)- 0 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! Speaking on behalf of the Akaal Organisation in conjuction with Sikh Soldier Forum. I would like to ask the sangat for some help. We require some volunteers aged 15-30 who would like to take part in a small drama that will be played LIVE at the Vasaikhi Birmingham (Mela). Everybody is welcome, there is no criteria of people we are looking for so i reiterate everybody is welcome! As there will be rehersals every week (possibly weekends) i do recommend people from the midlands to come forward as it will be easier for them to travel, however if you feel you have no problem in travelling and coming to the midlands every week pleas…
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I Cant Bring Myself To Care About The Name So W/v... 1 2
by Guest -_-- 12 replies
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i dont know who to talk to about this, usually i dont talk to people about things and keep a lot of things to myself, but i dont think my thoughts are healthy...and id rather do this than do something that i shouldnt have done.. if i talk to someone i know in person i might just scare them and make them worry, besides who really cares,everyones got their own stress, so i decided to post on here. i've had some fd up experiences in my life..i've been through all of that sexual abuse when i was younger (not as bad as some girls tho... HAH how many girls before me have said that s***t right? happens to girls for sure in one form or another, what a retarded world), that pro…
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Robbery At Gurdwara.. 1 2
by Guest Southampton_Youth- 10 replies
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Today some paapi, robbed a local gurdwara, and took the golak (which commitee members say that there was at least £700/800 maya in) i wanted to know, what does guru ji say about stealing/robery etc... As far as I know I was told that *edited*
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Amritdhari Advice 1 2 3 4
by Guest kaurin turmoil- 33 replies
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having taken amrit 2 years ago, my parents give me a hard time because i don't wear jewels and fancy clothes. recently at a family function i turned up dressed simply and wearing a keski. my parents hit the roof, and havent stopped shouting at me since, they expect me to dress like a tart. what should i do? please help.
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Need Help Controling Anger 1 2
by Guest pathetic- 13 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh:) sadh sangat ji ... ive got such a bad temper.. and its not even funny no more! its really bad and when my temper triggers off so dus my language! ... hai hai im trying really hard now not to swear or get angry but waheguru ji is it hard for me im such a fialure:( waheguru any tips anyone? waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh
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Chandi Di Vaar And Bhram Kavach Banis
by Guest _Gupt Singh_- 0 replies
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WJKK WJKF Sangat ji can anyone direct me to an online gurmukhi onlkine version of Chandi di vaar. Here is a link but i dont where it starts: http://searchgurbani.com/main.php?book=das...mp;action=index Also if anyone has bhram kavach bani can they supply it to me. Thanks. WJKK WJKF Admin Note: Topic closed. Please do not post such request in Gupt Section as its only for unique topics which requires the members/visitors to stay anon...
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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