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What Shall I Do!
by Guest Kaur- 5 replies
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Vaheguroo Ji Ka Khalsa Vaheguroo Ji Ki Fatheh... I reli wantt to take at the amrit sanchaar in april... i can do all my baneeyaa...i know they off by heart too... but i jus dont do any simran in the morning i wake up on time to do my paath and then go to school but i jus cant do simran...i dont no whyy!!! i reli need advice on what i shuld do...the only time i am actually able to do simran is in the evening and that too only on vaja! PLEASE help me!
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What Shall I Do?
by Guest Kaur- 5 replies
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Hello all, I want to fulfill my wish of being an Amritdhari one day and I am just practicing at this stage. I am in a relationship which I never actually wished to have. I feel it was my test from Waheguru Ji. Now its too late to turn back because I do have feelings for him. I regret letting him into my life everyday and I think "what if." I try to tell him that I want to practice being a Sikh and later on in life we may marry and then he gets aggressive and I end up feeling guilty. This results in me giving him the upper hand and trying to figure out what to do next. He even threatens to kill himself if I leave him and I don't know what to do because I don't want to b…
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What should sikhs be wearing on their wedding days? Do they all have to be wearing blue bana or any bana or Kurta pyjama or what? Waheguro
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh! I have couple of friends that are boys and girls... but when all of us meet up in the gurdwara like for example: Camps, Kirtan Class, Tabla Class, Gatka. The people that are around us... like the bibian and babaye, think its wrong that all boys and girls are together... in Sikhi it says that all boys and girls are equal... but how come the society don't let that happen... if we back chat our parents about this... they think that we are small... and have no sence...! What should the children do? (Main question of this situation). My friends want to be together forever... until we die... and be their for eachother forever! W…
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What Should I Do 1 2
by Guest Singh In Need- 10 replies
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i am a 27 year old sikh male who was happly married with two children, until i found out that my wife of five years is having an affair with another male. I am amrit dhari sikh and my wife is amrit dhari was well. Before people on this thread start saying have i got any proof well I have photos of her with this home wrecker hugging and kissing. I have yet to confront her on this issue i would ask for suggestions of how to handle this situation.
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What Should I Do To Improve My Punjabi? (Speaking) 1 2 3
by Guest Mr_C- 23 replies
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I always thought my Punjabi speaking skills weren't that good because I was born and raised in the United States. However, over the years I have made friends with a lot of people who are Punjabi and they speak Punjabi very well even though they were also born in the United States just like me. Since then I have always wondered: Why is my Punjabi not so good? My parents were both born in Punjab, India and raised there until they migrated here. As a child, I always spoke to them in Punjabi, but I was raised around a lot of Hispanics and White people. Fast-forward to now, I am 23 years old and I speak in Punjabi at home so I can practice. However, my pronunciation is still…
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What Should I Do? 1 2 3 4
by Guest Kane- 35 replies
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these days women only want clean shaven men, i dont drink, smoke or eat meat and dont ever intend to but is it wrong to cut ones hair in order to find a wife?
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What Should I Do? 1 2
by Guest SERIOUS HELP- 18 replies
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Dear sangat I do not ever post on these sites for advice as i am a very private person, but now things are very hard and just wated a different unbias perspective on things. I have been going out with a sikh guy now for nearly three years. The relationship was not for fun it was with the aim of getting married. I told my parents, my mum met him everything was perfect couldn't get better...everyone got on great. He told his parents, however, his parents don't want to know bcos we are different castes. They have not even met me! I am undecided on what to do...do I keep fighting bcos we are perfect together...or do I walk away bcos I can't risk wating and waiting as i am…
Last reply by sum chumaari, -
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Gurfateh ji vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh now well i have this friend she's sikh and all but it's just her parent's, u c she want to become guru's daughter (amit dhari, singhnee) sooo soo very much but her parents r not letting her 4 some reasons, although she doesn't c the problem in it, nore does anyone else, is this common.? if so what should she do? Please help thank you saatsangat Ravinder Kaur fateh Vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh. untitled.bmp
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What Should Sikh Guys Do When…
by Guest BBBSingh- 0 replies
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…Sikh girls have Muslim Boyfriends? Hello everybody Apologies for asking this question here. I am not a bigot, nor do I wish to stir up any Muslim v Sikh debate/hatred. I just need to find an answer for a topic which is affecting me (even now I am finding it hard to type this) I met a nice intelligent Sikh girl over Facebook last year, we talked a lot and although we agreed to meet up for a friendly coffee, it never happened for different reasons. Later that year she started uni but we initially chatted when she moved into halls. However communication suddenly went very quiet. I sadly assumed that she met someone. I was disappointed to find out it was a Muslim boy who…
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What Sikhism Says About Egocentric Predicament?
by Guest Ex-sikh- 9 replies
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It is a philosophical idea that we can't confirm the truth about reality and in the end our version of reality depends upon what we believe.Basically if I can't confirm what is real then why should I believe in a religion. Consider these facts There is 10% probability that you're dreaming right now. 20% that we might be inside a simulation like matrix. Some probability that you might be in coma (because in coma consciousness is there) And these are one of many possibilities that I can think about reality.So why follow religion if I can't even confirm what is real and what is not.maybe I am already in hell? Through The Wormhole - S04E08 - Is Reality Real?: http://y…
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What things require Pesh
by Guest sahur- 5 replies
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Hello, I wanted to know are there things outside the 4 Bhujer Kurehits that we’d need to Pesh for in front of the Punj Pyare if we’ve taken Amrit?
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does amritvela change depending on what time the sunrises? sunrise these days is at 4 so does that mean amrit vela can be from 1-4? or is it still 3-6?
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What To Do 1 2
by Guest :(- 17 replies
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i cant help but feel a feeling of jealousy toward my to be sister in law. Almost jealous that she live with my husband to be and shes there before living with family and getting in with family n stuff. I kno this is silly and wrong i really dont want to feel this way. I feel as though she doesnt really like me either and she almost rubs it in whenever i see her that she's there and im not. I really hate this feeling i would love to get along with everyone since we'll all be living in same house but i just dont get a good vibe from her. every time i try talking to her she just brushes me off. my husband to be gets along with her, he gets along with everyone, furth…
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Hello everyone I'm growing a beard again, I have trimmed it before. Its quite long now but doesn't look good, my hair are very thin and wiry. So what can I do to make it look good? Don't say let it remain as it is. Give me ideas.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then.
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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