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Well what do u think the answer is fool?? You're askin this stupid question on a sikh forum!!!

Cuttin your hair aint gonna change nothin, you'll still be an insecure little kid trapped inside a body of a man!!

The other guys who've replied to this are right in sayin you shouldnt go lookin for love, it'll happen when it happens. <EDITED>

Mod note: Watch your words!

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what about women who marry turbanned men these days but make them cut their hair ...this is becoming very common now .... what are guys like me supposed to do?

I knw of a girl who wants to get married to a turbaned kesdhari person, but she wants his heart taken out.. should i talk bout you to her ?

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Sometimes I wonder if people come on here with the intentions of steering, those in sikhi, away from it by discouraging them..

Well I'm a girl and I wanna let my bearded, dastaar wearing bros know that a guy that has a flowing beard and a dumalla is also my preference.

I would never, ever go for a mona...no offense, I love them like brothers but I could never marry one....sorry :D lol

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Well I'm a girl and I wanna let my bearded, dastaar wearing bros know that a guy that has a flowing beard and a dumalla is also my preference.

I better learn tying the dumala now tongue.gif

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_/|\_Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! _/|\_

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Listen

We all Have the Same Mother And Father

That makes us all brothers and Sisters right?

So Why would you want to marry your sister

Vahiguru Ji shall decide when and who you should marry

all you need to do is keep kesh

Be a Gursikh and take amrit :TH:

Then all shall be ok

_/|\_Vaheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Vaheguru Ji Ki Fateh! _/|\_

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