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   Tapoban

   August 30, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   What's happened to the forum?

   

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   Alcohol On Side

   August 28, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   ITS RECENTLY BEEN BOUGHT 2 MY ATTENTION THAT MY MASSAR MIGHT BE CONSUMING ALCOHOL HE IS AMRITDHARI HE HAD A DRINKING PROBLEM IN THE PAST HE WAS CAUGHT BUYING BEER CANS IN A SHOP BY MY OTHER COUSIN ALSO EMPTY BEER CANS WERE FOUND UNDER HIS BED BY HIS SON ALSO IT HAS BEEN NOTED THAT YOU CAN SMELL IT ON HIM I DONT KNOW HOW I SHOULD CONFRONT HIM IM AMRITDHARI AND IT MAKES ME SO SAD AND ANGRY THAT SOMEONE IN MY FAMILY CAN DO BEADBI LIKE THIS OF MY FATHER AND HIS PRECIOUS GIFT OF AMRIT ALSO I DONT HAV EVIDENCE MYSELF IM JUST GOING BY WHAT I HAVE BEEN TOLD I DON'T CARE IF IT CAUSES AGGRO BETWEEN OUR FAMILIES BECAUSE DISRESPECT OF MY KHALSA FAMILY MEANS SO MUCH MORE …

   

   Last reply by Sikh_Kuri, August 30, 2005

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   British Airways 1 2

   August 24, 2005 by Guest _Harpreet_

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   Sangat Ji I was watching the news yesterday and the day before and whats all this business about the Sikhs geting angry at Gate Gourmet (A singh even stuk a finger up :wub: ) and the BA Heathrow dispute? I fail to understand how the sikhs are involved as it showed the MP or someone entering Southall Singh Sabha Gurdwara Sahib.

   

   Last reply by singh_sandhu, August 30, 2005

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   Death. How Did U Deal With It?

   August 29, 2005 by Guest confused

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   how did u guys deal with loosing close loved ones???? did it bring u closer to god or not??? im probably guessing most replys are going to be sayin do as much simran and read bani etc but i mean the other stuff....at home with family,school/colege/work,friends etc etc etc

   

   Last reply by singh_sandhu, August 30, 2005

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   Hunkaar Vs Sikhi

   August 29, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   How do u distinguish between hunkaar and sikhi? For example, i was recently in conflict with a member of my family where I said that as per sikhi, we should be trying to go to gurdwara as often as possible and they told me that as gursikhs, we have to perfect in everything (not just spiritually), so if i was not the best at studies or at work, then I wasnt a gursikh! When I tried to explain my point of view, I got told that I was displaying hunkaar and that because they were older than me, they were definately correct!! I have had other conflicts with this person and because from my understanding of sikhi, their point of view doesn't seem to be in line with my understand…

   

   Last reply by mann_kaum_layee_qurbaan, August 30, 2005

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   Dont Know What To Do

   August 17, 2005 by Guest sikh_person

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   sangat ji as we know rakhri is a manmat thing, and i agree so thats why im not gonna where one. my parents and sister are fine with it, and agree. however my grandmum and other family are gonna be angry with me for not doin it, the same thing happened last year. sangat ji please help me,i dont know what to say, because they wont understand me.

   

   Last reply by Guest, August 29, 2005

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   Chipped Lips 1 2

   August 24, 2005 by Guest Guest

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   I know this sounds really stupid but I wanted to know that if you have chipped lips and are usualy dry and tend to rip is using nivea moituriser lip care ok? Its not like lip gloss or makeup or anything it's just mainly a moisturiser for the lips bit like lip balm? Is that ok or does that categorise as Make up and changing appearance?

   

   Last reply by Balwinder Kaur, August 29, 2005

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   About Tell Me About Rss

   August 28, 2005 by Guest manmeet singh

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   PLease any body tell me that how the harmful RSS for sikhi in india?

   

   Last reply by Guest, August 29, 2005

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   Mum's Making Life Hell

   August 25, 2005 by Guest Amar Singh

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   I donno why but my mum seems to want to make my life hell and wants me out the house she even says that openly....... i'm at the age where they are starting to talk about marriage... and before I do get married I need a good job and a place of my own, which I dont have. I see friends and cousins doing great and settling down but I don't see future. I feel like crap and mum doesnt understand she just keeps hurting me mentally saying im not trying hard enuff looking for a job even though I am she doesnt care. I wish I could just have my own place somewhere right now away from the grief im getting at home..... but I dont .... Anyone feel the same? any advice? Is there…

   

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    Help Me Please 1 2 3

    August 26, 2005 by Guest _Singhnee_

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    VJKK, VJKF Sangat Jee I'm stuck in a massive Dillema. I don't know what to do. My parents want me to get married but abroad mainly because they think there are not enough Amrit Dhari's in UK. I'm an Amrit Dhari myself aswell. This guy from India they chose come down to see me, but I didn't like him as he doesn't even have general knowledge. I'm studying pharmacy and all he wants to do is plumbing. However I also know another Amrit Dhari guy, we only chat at the moment but I kind of like him, and I he likes me too. (Havent done anything wrong). But I'm scared of my parents that they'll get upset if I dont go ahead with the one from India because they seemed to like …

    

    Last reply by Balwinder Kaur, August 27, 2005

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    Please Help Me 1 2 3

    August 5, 2005 by Guest Guest

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    i have a really bad situation i basically dont know what to do anymore, and expecially if your a girl .. im in a relationship with a guy, we both are into sikhi, we love each other very much and want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. the only problem is our parents. they both are into caste but i think his parents will agree, my parents will NEVER ever agree on this. i dont know what to do anymore! along the way we made many bad mistakes we shouldnt have and took that extra step away from sikhi which we both know was wrong, and we are ready to go for peshi, but as of now our parents dont know, and i dont want to bring them down further in this. They h…

    

    Last reply by WGJKKWGJKF, August 27, 2005

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    Sadness

    August 22, 2005 by Guest feeling so down

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    vjkkvjkf sangat jee. recently, i have been feeling very upset, extremely lonely and VERY sad. i cry alot most times....most times i use up 1 tissue box within the span of one night just crying crying crying...i can't stop these tears from clouding my eyes all the time...i try to hold them back but eventually i break down and cry. after each round of crying, i feel so guilty because as a sikh, even when faced with horrible tortures, our guruji, shaheedi singhs and singhnees never relented, much less cry like a weakling like i do most times. i feel none understand my pain and loneliness. i try to do paath but i find myself being so disillusioned. i'm at my wits end...total…

    

    Last reply by sewak sikh, August 27, 2005

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    Affair

    August 24, 2005 by Guest no name

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    ok basically my cusin bro is marired with kids (i hope im not doin nindyia :wub: ) and he aint happy in his marriage he is frm india n like his wife is nice enuff i guess n he is havin an affair with my friends sister! she isnt married, divorced i think but i duno what to do like we hav told my cusin umpteen times to get out of it but he dont listen he jst sees her when and how he pleases he aint amritdhari btw jst typical "punjabi sikh" do i tell my friend? what if my friend finds out and then he finds out i knew all along? tho he dont know my cusin at all and i dont knw his sister like i sed hello to her once i think aint ever spoken 2 her keep tellin me cus…

    

    Last reply by Guest, August 26, 2005

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    Attachment?!

    August 25, 2005 by Guest ....

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    ok so i have a really close mate we get on really well.we talk ALOT about all sorts of things. hes someone i can really open up to and tell my problems etc. ive known him for years and years and is like a brother i never had. but recently i havent been able to speak to him and feel really let down which is really silly!!! and sometimes even feel that he doesn't want to speak to me! its as if i NEED to speak to him and i get so confused because gurbani says that all friendships etc are false but i think im too attached to him! i dont know! so what should i do?!?! a dont want to loose a good brother, hes such an amazing gursikh!!!!!!

    

    Last reply by Sath, August 26, 2005

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    Feeling Sad.........

    August 25, 2005 by Guest :'(

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    u know when u feeling sad........ like when things gettin ontop u especially like exams an stuff wot do u do...... a sikh shdnt be depressed like but u know during exams when u cant rember nuttin and just having crape day......... i mean its hard to rember that everything happens in his hukam when things just go wrong and like ur gone let ur family down.....

    

    Last reply by Pheena, August 25, 2005

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