Gettin Over The Past

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ok well if this is abt physical attraction, then thats just like weird...

if you just took every person who was the opposite gender as your brother, then whats the prob?

i dont get how people have these crushes on others.

how can you LIKE someONE just by LOOKing at that person????

its like....its like you lovin a stranger :wub: @

i just dont get it.

the person can be so cold-hearted, and youre sittin there going....omg! hes so this...hes so that..

or ... shes so this. shes so that.

how can one like another by observing physical appearance????

i dont get it

if u were in her shoes u wud feel the same way. u cant say how cud you like sumone by jus looking at them until u experienced it.

[Guest Papi]

im 18..n ur right i dnt wanna spend the rest of my life with them because there is no furture not now neway

where can u get a hukumnama from ? apart from actually going to gurdwara

hukumnama as per rehit maryada must be taken from guru granth sahib saroop. ie. not a random shabad online. you must physically goto gurudwara, do ardaas, n take hukam. if you are unsure about how to take a hukum, ask the granthi sahib at the gurudwara. or maybe a friend who knows how to do it properly.

[Khalsa_Girl_1]

ok well if this is abt physical attraction, then thats just like weird...

if you just took every person who was the opposite gender as your brother, then whats the prob?

i dont get how people have these crushes on others.

how can you LIKE someONE just by LOOKing at that person????

its like....its like you lovin a stranger :wub: @

i just dont get it.

the person can be so cold-hearted, and youre sittin there going....omg! hes so this...hes so that..

or ... shes so this. shes so that.

how can one like another by observing physical appearance????

i dont get it

if u took everyone has ur brother or sister then hw can other relationships be made?

a crush is something that happens in primary school as u grow older u start to think more..appearances dont matter (well shudnt) its bou personality n u dnt understand that when ur little..

not being rude but ur have never looked at n opposite sex n may even for a split second looked at them in a different way?

lol...

thing is..im not gettin married...so why even think of this stuff

and no, youre not being rude...s'all good.

ever since i found the relgioin SIKHISM, i see no reason to like a guy.

and BEFORE i found SIKHISM...

i didnt even know abt the liking thing...

and i'll be PERFECTLY HONEST...no joke.

i dont remember having a gay crush on some guy.

i can see how someone would think that another is attractive.

but like.. how can you LIKE someone by LOOKING at that person.

that means that..you dont like the person..you like the appearance.

so in the end..it dont make sense to me, sorry.

i know a lot of people go through it...but

i never really understood how people start liking someone by lookin at the person

i dont see how appearance can lead you to liking someone.

peace...

GurFateh.

[Guest s133k_s1kh]

FATEH!!!

lol...

thing is..im not gettin married...so why even think of this stuff

You are not gettim married ?? ... you are not gettin married now or u just wont get married?..first you replied wid gr8 enthusiasm in this thread, and now u r like Y EVEN THINK??..its seems u r just a lil kiddo and u just type thgs dat strike u'r brain cells @ dat very moment. I DONT THK DAT IS A VERY GOOD WAY OF EXPRESSIN U'R SELF. BIBI posted her problem here and going on da teaching of SIKH GURUs we should be helpin her instead of puttin tags on her that how could she randomly like someone..blah blah!!

ever since i found the relgioin SIKHISM, i see no reason to like a guy.

and BEFORE i found SIKHISM...

i didnt even know abt the liking thing...

SIKHISM doesnt say u shouldn't like a someone or somethg( it could be anythg.)

Likin a person is no big deal..and the BIBI who started this thread never said she started likin da guy just after seeing him. She did go out for a while. AS I SAID EARLIER IT ALL DEPEND ON WHT [AVASTHA] YOU ARE IN.

I HAVE TO ATTEND AN IMP. LECTURE NOW. I WILL GET BACK ON THIS TOPIC AFTER SOMETYME.

GUR FATEH!!!

[Khalsa_Girl_1]

FATEH!!!

lol...

thing is..im not gettin married...so why even think of this stuff

You are not gettim married ?? ... you are not gettin married now or u just wont get married?..first you replied wid gr8 enthusiasm in this thread, and now u r like Y EVEN THINK??..its seems u r just a lil kiddo and u just type thgs dat strike u'r brain cells @ dat very moment. I DONT THK DAT IS A VERY GOOD WAY OF EXPRESSIN U'R SELF. BIBI posted her problem here and going on da teaching of SIKH GURUs we should be helpin her instead of puttin tags on her that how could she randomly like someone..blah blah!!

ever since i found the relgioin SIKHISM, i see no reason to like a guy.

and BEFORE i found SIKHISM...

i didnt even know abt the liking thing...

SIKHISM doesnt say u shouldn't like a someone or somethg( it could be anythg.)

Likin a person is no big deal..and the BIBI who started this thread never said she started likin da guy just after seeing him. She did go out for a while. AS I SAID EARLIER IT ALL DEPEND ON WHT [AVASTHA] YOU ARE IN.

I HAVE TO ATTEND AN IMP. LECTURE NOW. I WILL GET BACK ON THIS TOPIC AFTER SOMETYME.

GUR FATEH!!!

kk..i get you

but neither did i say that she started liking him just by lookin at him.

lol…but she said that she liked him… you didn’t have to say that she liked/likes him …she stated that herself:

i liked someone and went out wiv them 4 6 months (1 st mistake)

…..

neway..its 1 year down the line n i still like them..

and also…

i was talkin in general…so how can you say that im pointing this out at her…??

i didn’t even mention her name or her in my posts at all…

i was generally speaking throughout my posts:

ok well if this is abt physical attraction, then thats just like weird...

if you just took every person who was the opposite gender as your brother, then whats the prob?

i dont get how people have these crushes on others.

how can you LIKE someONE just by LOOKing at that person????

its like....its like you lovin a stranger :D @

i just dont get it.

the person can be so cold-hearted, and youre sittin there going....omg! hes so this...hes so that..

or ... shes so this. shes so that.

how can one like another by observing physical appearance????

i dont get it

i was simply asking how people start liking others just by looking at them.

cuz i actually am confused abt it.

i didn’t ONCE mention the person who started this topic…

SIKHISM doesnt say u shouldn't like a someone or somethg( it could be anythg.)

Likin a person is no big deal..and the BIBI who started this thread never said she started likin da guy just after seeing him. She did go out for a while. AS I SAID EARLIER IT ALL DEPEND ON WHT [AVASTHA] YOU ARE IN.

see now...

w/e i posted..please dont take it in a wrong way...

i didnt mean that SIKHI says you shouldnt like someone...

my posts hardly had ANYTHING to do with the GIRL herself.. and what shes going through/feelin etc.

i was just talkin in general yo..

like...it wasnt even more abt likin someone..

it was instead more abt like ATTRACTION...

my Q:

how can one like someone just by lookin at the person...

at the same time, i was talkin abt it with someone on msn :wub:

so...maybe i mixed the convos :wub:

and no..im not young..im 18...this month :D

BIBI posted her problem here and going on da teaching of SIKH GURUs we should be helpin her instead of puttin tags on her that how could she randomly like someone..blah blah!!

but..im 'not' puttin tags on her

i was being general...

i didnt say anything towards HER...

i was talkin general...

oh Vahiguruu...im sorry if it seemed as if i was bashing her..

thats not what my intentioin was...

sorry penji if i offended you.. :umm:

[Guest ..................]

rite u no wot....i didnt like the guy jus based on looks..its not based only on that

[Khalsa_Girl_1]

rite u no wot....i didnt like the guy jus based on looks..its not based only on that

alright, well im glad you didnt like the guy just based on looks

and i had never said that you did.

peace...

GurFateh.