Im Filthy

[Guest Guest]

sangat i kno my actions r disgustin, i kno dere rong, bt y cant i stop? is my mind 2 weak?

dis is real imbarrisin i cnt stop goin 2 'adult sites'

fing is i kno its rong innit, an i kno i shudnt do it, but sum geeza sed its betta dan goin wif gals u kno?

my family is very respected in sikhi, and its bad i aint a gd sikh man.

[Singh-in-Welling]

chek this link paji:

http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=23962

also, i read that reciting sukhmani sahib paat evriday can help u get out of looking at websites!!

if u start to look at these websites because u get bored easily on the internet then u shud keep urself occupied so u dnt have anytime to look at such websites, or stay in good sangat all the time so u cant look at the sites!!

hope this helped!! WJKK WJKF

[hum kookar tayray darbaar]

jup jup nanak jeewatay

[Guest Guest]

WJKK WJKF

Veerji daas uesd to be in your position once, it is very very very hard for a person to come out of the cycle once your hooked. But luckly with guru's kirpa i heard a kirtan updesh by Bhai Guriqbal Singh Ji and they said that the more number times you recite sukhmani sahib paath and afterwards do ardaas evryday the stronger you can fight any one of the five vikaars which it heavy on you. Bhaji please give this method a try for a week and see the results for yourself.

Bhul Chuk Maaf

Wjkk WJKF

[Akhoza]

yh your a guy plus your probably in your teens and you probably get carried away with peer pressure, it happens but the Gurbani says that when our body or clothes become dirty, they can be cleansed with soap and water, but when the mind becomes dirty, it can be cleansed with the "Love of the Divine Name".

[Guest Guest]

keep busy, play some sports or get away from the computer for a while, that should help.

[Singh With Dunalli]

It happens man. Keep yourself really busy with the things you need to do, at the end of the day you will be really busy, and won't even have the energy to look at "adult sites." Also, if you listen to kirtan more often (perhaps your favorite raagi, it can help you cure that disease as well).

GOOD LUCKK!

[jassa]

see shote/vadde veer .... dont try to run away from it .... more u think to get away .... force u away more u will find urself attracted towards it .... i will not say u to read gurbani .... truly it will not help much .... mind struck in adult website ... u take gutka and start sukhmani sahib .... i mean if its me my mind will be more in that site than in path ....

best thing is get angry on ur mind .... being a soldier its easy to win then being a saint ....

remember two things ....

1 . tell ur self guru gobind singh is looking at u 24 hours ..... feel that he is sitting beside u while ur surfing porn ....

2 . SAY IT NOW LOUD ..... MAIN DASME PITA DA WAFFADAR SEE HAN TE RAHANGA .....

and change ur wall paper to some sikh wall paper .....

this will not happen in one day but u should try to give as much gap as u can ....

guru sir te hath rakhu .....

jaikara gajja

baba fathe singh de maan nu bhaa

nehal ho ja

sat sri akal

gurbar akal .....

[heart]

Waheguru

Jeeo, everyone is saying that you should go outside and play sports and keep your mind busy but in the end there are going to be sometimes when you have to be on the computer and suddenly all your work is done and bam! Your back to where you started.

Your job is not to run away from the problem but to control/fix the problem.

Guru Ji says:

gun gaavuth achuth abinaasee kaam krodh binusae mudh teethae

Singing the Glorious Praises of the imperishable, indestructible Lord, sexual desire, anger and stubborn pride vanish.

I know, for someone going through a hard time its easy for one person to tell another "Just go do Kirtan, you'll be fine". At first everything seems hard. I dont know if your 'addicted' to these websites persay but it seems that Kaam has taken affect. So the job of your mind and soul is to rid this effect and focus your mind on the greater task at hand. If you know how to play Vaja that would be a great help. Even without a vaja you can take an Amrit Kirtan and just recite Gurbani or Do some baani. It wont see to work at first and youll think its not working but inside the machines are running. Try and listen to kirtan while your on the computer because once you go on those sites and you realize you have kirtan going your going to feel ashamed so its best to have a reminder on.

Everything is hard at first but slowely with fath and conviction does it become easier. =)

Good luck Veer/Bhainjee.

Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh

[LifeIsBeautiful]

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