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have you got low self esteem..........if you have STOP caring what other people think of you and have a better self image of yourself........takes time ................but when you get there you'll happy..................figure out in what situation you feel shy and try to figure out i.e. write down on paper on how to overcome that situation.....hope this helps mate :TH:

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Look at what's holding you back, the reasons you have to be shy...first, is it excessive to the point that it holds you back from important things in life? You have to look at the significance/importance of the things that make you shy, maybe theyre insecurities, being overly self conscious, realistically, would ppl even notice those things? If they do, is it that big of a deal? You've prolly seen similar things in other ppl but have they left a lasting impression on you?? Put yourself in the other persons shoes and you'll see there's really nothing to be shy over :TH:

But, like Papi said, being shy isnt a bad thing either, as long as it's not excessive...because those overly confident, loud mouth, attention seeking ppl start getting on ppls nerves real quick too :nihungsmile:

Good luck and dont give a s*^T%

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im shy

Look at what's holding you back, the reasons you have to be shy...first, is it excessive to the point that it holds you back from important things in life? You have to look at the significance/importance of the things that make you shy, maybe theyre insecurities, being overly self conscious, realistically, would ppl even notice those things? If they do, is it that big of a deal? You've prolly seen similar things in other ppl but have they left a lasting impression on you?? Put yourself in the other persons shoes and you'll see there's really nothing to be shy over :TH:

But, like Papi said, being shy isnt a bad thing either, as long as it's not excessive...because those overly confident, loud mouth, attention seeking ppl start getting on ppls nerves real quick too :nihungsmile:

Good luck and dont give a s*^T%

thanks. well im having trouble on my work/training. when the trainer ask me a question i just freeze. even though i only have to give a simple answer. its not that i dont know it. i just feel my heart beating and i would rather be anywhere but that room.

im starting to feel embarrased about it. becuase people must be thinking this guy cant string a sentence together. when that is not the case.

the trainer asked my . 'what is stress? a simple question. and i could even answer it which is why i feel ashamed of myself. i dont know why ive become like this. im also getting maybe a bit paranoid. becuase i dont like pople staring at me. which happens alot becuase im a good looking guy joke lol

but on a serious note theres this girls who keeps looking at me. i dont know if she's giving me dity looks or what.

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