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Got home to find a wedding card -

It Read Balvinder Kaur ****** Weds Jasper Smith

You could say jasper smith is the same as any mooner segdethrai sikh who does meat sharab, who nows he may be better.

But you would think a commitee full of old guys would be against this.

Where is this wedding, i think R4GGSJ should be doing something against this too!

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Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

Unfortunately, its not your choice, or some old guy on a commitee's choice. Its their choice. If they have little value for sikhi then that's their problem: we have no right to denounce it or force them otherwise.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

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Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

Unfortunately, its not your choice, or some old guy on a commitee's choice. Its their choice. If they have little value for sikhi then that's their problem: we have no right to denounce it or force them otherwise.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

This is where its wrong then, Commitees have the authority of who gets married, if she wants to marry a white man then go to a registry, the danger is on the sangat, just imagine a young sikh "look mum that girl is marrying a gora so it must be ok if we allow it in a Gurdwara.

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Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

Unfortunately, its not your choice, or some old guy on a commitee's choice. Its their choice. If they have little value for sikhi then that's their problem: we have no right to denounce it or force them otherwise.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

This is where its wrong then, Commitees have the authority of who gets married, if she wants to marry a white man then go to a registry, the danger is on the sangat, just imagine a young sikh "look mum that girl is marrying a gora so it must be ok if we allow it in a Gurdwara.

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

I don't see it anywhere here talking about them marrying in a gurdawara... do you?

Waheguroo jee ka Khalsa!

Waheguroo jee kee Fateh!

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This type of stuf is happening everyday, where sikh girls have been mentioned converting to Islam, the above case mentioned could be classed in the same frame.

Converting to Islam is obviously going to be seen as a worse case scenario due to the history of the mughal's and the current situation, but we have to also do something to stop other areas and issues effecting Sikhi.

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