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wow u use derogatory remarks towards pakistanis ur so proud are'nt u.

ne ways.

Some ppl have "maan" in guru ji, even though their religion is different. We have a skewed prospective on what punjab used to be.

hindus and muslims, would practice some sikh practices such as nitnem or phaat generaly.

if one has any faith it is their right. not your duty 2 stop them. let god decide who's marriage stands, not you. This is not beadbi, if it is a muslim shoudl not be able to enter a gurdwara sahib.

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wow u use derogatory remarks towards pakistanis ur so proud are'nt u.

ne ways.

Some ppl have "maan" in guru ji, even though their religion is different. We have a skewed prospective on what punjab used to be.

hindus and muslims, would practice some sikh practices such as nitnem or phaat generaly.

if one has any faith it is their right. not your duty 2 stop them. let god decide who's marriage stands, not you. This is not beadbi, if it is a muslim shoudl not be able to enter a gurdwara sahib.

i agree we shouldnt judge but sikhs should only marry sikhs. if a sikh marries a hindu then they will blend in, hence lose sikhi and if a sikh marries a muslim, the muslim will always convert and sikhi will be gone completely.

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i'm not in a mixed relation, but i can tell you rupinder, love knows no boundries when it comes to finding your soul mate.

You cannot dictate who you are giong to fall in love with.

bollywood dialog grin.gif

but carry on ur discussion.

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could it be a prank? a person e-mailed someone about it to see what their reaction would be? :lol:

if u that worried, like somoene suggested..call the gurdwara sahib and fnd out

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<admin-profanity filter activated> bollywood dialouge? i have'nt watched a bollywood film in 15yrs, obviously u keep up 2 date!

and obviously you have'nt b'n in a situation...life is not ideals kis...its freaking hard...deal with it. schit happens, and when it happens, u don't run, beacuse of what society is going to deam right or wrong, unless it is moraly and ethicaly incorrect.

change ur name to insluting kaur khalistani insulteress

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I'm probably too young to understand anything. But people can fall in love so quickly and think they are perfect for each other; why is it so hard to develop such love for God?

I think this soulmate stuff is crap, but then again I got no experience. However, baanee does say no relationship will continue after you die except the one with God. As a result, I think that marriage doesn't really have to do with marrying the perfect person that is meant for you for eternity. I think its more of marrying the person that will travel the same path with you to God in this lifetime, and if thats right, then they should obviously be in the same religion too.

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