Revolution Of Singhnia

[rupinder singh]

Im sure Singhnia want to get out their too but sometimes situations are diff. for a man and woman. :lol:

LOL..what.. like parrallel parking and shopping???

Truth is the majority of men still wont like their own sisters or wifes or daughters go on any frontline whether amritdhari or not. That's where the problem will always lie

[Guest peacemaker]

Truth is the majority of men still wont like their own sisters or wifes or daughters go on any frontline whether amritdhari or not. That's where the problem will always lie

So we shouldn't get involved and just say "to each their own", right?

[rupinder singh]

Truth is the majority of men still wont like their own sisters or wifes or daughters go on any frontline whether amritdhari or not. That's where the problem will always lie

So we shouldn't get involved and just say "to each their own", right?

Thats my view. Let everyone be. Let everyone contribute as best as they can and as best as they want. Constantly putting people on a guilt trip doesnt acheive much, in the end ones "wake up panth" type parchar just becomes one big nag and you'll find people switch off.

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[rupinder singh]

Interesting post rimmel, I see where your coming from. Many males are protective over females and this extends to women being seen as property and the honour of a family or community. Men struggle to snap out of this. Whether we agree with this un-pc statement or not, “it’s a man’s world out there”. Men of the community will ultimately end up controlling the decision making, so to pass the blame solely onto bibya is not entirely right.

Spritually we know that there is no discrimination based on sex because Guru Ji’s refers to the human as either a manmukh or a gurmukh. There is no male or female, no jat or chamar, no elite jatha, no black or white, just a manmukh and a gurmukh. But maybe spiritually we may lack the strength to see that, so we differentiate gurmukhs based on their gender and other things. We start blaming our own shortcomings onto these groups we classify people into.

[AK-47]

Like they're really family centred whereas I am world centered.

With all due respect to all the brothers and sisters, maybe if we all became Guru Granth Sahib Ji centered then we wouldnt have any issues at all.

We basically said how a lot of singhs chill out, hang out together etc and how it wud be cool if the kuriya did tht.

As a singh who 'chills out' with other singhs, i would advise that you do not copy us. 'Chilling out' is a waste of time (if we look at it with a gurmat prespective), its time wasted, if the singhs got together and became sadh sangat by reading gurbani, discussing gurmat, did bhagti etc, then copy that and repeat it. if its sitting around in someones house, then your better off leaving that alone.

its good that singhs are realising the waste of time 'chilling' actually is.

[rupinder singh]

its good that singhs are realising the waste of time 'chilling' actually is.

Tell me about it. I've been chilling out all my life and as you can see it's done me no favours.

But one thing I will advise kaurageous group is dont just focus on the social element, make sure u attempt to capture the real gurmat type activties. As my dear veer AK 47 says above dont bother copying the chilling out singhs, believe me there is a false sense of ekta being built in "chilling out", which u only really realise when there's a big bust up.

[Simple Singhani]

I agree with rimmel bhenji. A lot of kuriya are lyk that. But maybe people just dont wanna go cus protests really have a bad name in uk now. lyk that behzti one.. and a few others! Ther seen as violent. And to be honest i thikn if i went to one -singhs would tell me to go home.Truth is singhs are to over protective of singhnia.. lyk we shud be at home cooking and looking after kids... when really haha we arent different at all- hmm i duno in my view a lot of them thikn ther superior. It would probably make a different if 100 singhnia got together and did a protest.. singhs almost just get carried away. im surprised u guys want us ther! Anyway i wud love to go! lol just dont knw when they are....

[Amrit Kaur Khalsa]

Other than that they don't do anything without asking their parents and thats really annoying.

That's coz of what parents are lyk. Parents are very protective of their daughters and it's sometimes justified. Also, if a girl goes and does something that her parents have told her not to do,her parents won't trust her anymore and their relationship will be broken up.

What i'm tryin to say is that it aint the girls, it's the parents. But what's stopping the parents from going wiv her - or singhnia going in groups?