Amridhari, Need Advice

[Guru_Da_Chella]

this boy is only in college it is too early for him 2 think about marriage. but would you say it is okay for him and the girl to be together (sensibly nothing beyond say talking) until marriage...about 4 years down the line?

on one hand you say he's too young for marriage, but then you ask about "being together" ? I think you can figure that out yourself (no offense )

But, for talking, they don't need to "be together". I don't like this "being together" business, doesn't soudn respectable, not very annakhi.

And everyone matures at different ages, so we can't judge whether he is or is not ready for marriage. Look at young teenagers getting pregnant, or having bf-gf relationships etc.

I have a traditional mindset, so for me marriage is a good, if not very good, solution to these kind of problems. And he seems to feel very strongly about these feelings.

[Singhballer]

Went through this before...

You need something to occupy your mind so that thoughts about this Girl are not floating around your head.

Bani .. Naam Simran best thing that you could possibly do.

Also you might want to try to find something else which requires mental attention so you can occupy yourself with..

May I suggest Basketball

Always done the trick for me .

Peace