Sikh Sexual Morality

[osingh]

Benti to sangat, keep in mind that younger people also read this forum. Maybe this vichar (discussion) is better done face-to-face rather on a forum.

Also I feel it is vital to take advice from elder Gursikhs after all they have experience of living through youth and marriage. When it comes to issues such as kaam and marriage I think it is an excellent idea to ask elder Gursikhs, one's that you look up to and keep rehat, amritvela etc.

I urge sangat to consult our Guru, dhan sri Guru Granth Sahib ji, visit www.srigranth.org, and read about 5 thieves - lobh, moh, hankar, kaam and krodh. What does Gurbani say about kaam? Please try and gain as much knowledge from Gurbani first.

The ikhlaak (character) of a Gursikh is very high indeed. We should try and follow prominent the ikhlaak of Gursikh's of the past. Maybe nowadays the ikhlaak of Gursikhs is falling, but do not look at dhilley (weak) Gursikhs. Look, read and follow our Guru Sahiban, Gurmukhs and Guru Granth Sahib ji.

Rabb Rakhe

[Mehtab Singh]

Very well said. Although it is imperative that a GurSikh couple base the foundations of their marital relationship solely on the ideals of Gurmat, at the same time, what they do in their private lives is their own personal choice.

And on that note, topic closed.