Jump to content

Asking For Forgiveness?


Guest Unknown
 Share

Recommended Posts

Guest unkown

I have committed all these sins and I no I have been punished. ... I have recently lost my wife at a young age

I loved her very much and wonder has this all happened because I was unfaithful to her I..drink...smoke... I wanna find away out I am left with my children and want

Forgiveness but don't know what to do ......I believe in god I just don't know . My head is that screwd I look at other women I need to get out of this stupid thinking and stop all ov this

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest hilroy

I have committed many sins too, esp related to kaam. I am such a low life and seems that I have destroyed my human life. Just relying on Guru ji to give me the strength so that I can follow his hukam. But I cannot believe how mad I had gotten, I realize my mistakes but still...I just keep doing ardass and believe one day things will be better

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 2 weeks later...

go to satsangat everyday. there is salvation there and shelter. the energy of meditating in sangat is immensely powerful. over time this energy will build up the power inside of you, you will be empowered to change your bad habits and to stand tall again.

when dealing with wrongs from the past i find that two things are very very important. one is to forgive others and ourselves too. the second is to learn what we can from it. sometimes people ask why did this happen? b/c we almost never receive confirmation of the reason why this question can destroy our peace of mind. don't bother asking it. it's bhana, leave it at that and ask what can i learn from this? how can i use this to make me a better person/sikh?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Guest daljeet

i also have made loads of sins in my life and am only 14 yaers old but reading theses stories and comments have shown me that the guru will forgive me if i really mean it from the bottom of my heart i really want to change so waheguru to that i will go down the right path and start again

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 8 months later...
Guest Sweety

Sat Sri akal sangat ji,

Please mainu Dasso ke main kive apni galtiyaan di maafi manga.

Main apne jeevan sathi nu hurt kitta hai. Jinna ne mainu rabb naal jodya,main ohna nu hee enna hurt kitta k ohh mainu chadd rahe hai.

Main apni life vich bahut galtiyaan kariya par ohna ne mainu maaf kar dita si kyonki main ohna nu sab sach dass ke maafi mangi si. Hun Ek din, mere Mann vich vichar aa gaya apne past vich dekhen da, jisde karke ohh hurt ho Gaye te kehnde main ohna da saccha pyaar deserve nai kardi.

Mere to galti ho gayi sangat jee, main ohna to door nai reh sakdi. Please sangat jee, mainu meri galti di maafi de do, mere Pati nu mere to door na karo.

Please mainu Dasso main ki kara?

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Your already forgiven, ur always forgiven- but the law of karma is perfect.

For each misdeed, u will pay off karma. I've been paying of karma for so many years. Do naam simran/practice Truth. Itll make u pay off your karams faster and your good deeds will help u discover more of Truth.

Theres no point in saying that you're not religious etc- u need to make a solid committment to Truth, thats how u can stay strong enough, and eventually youll even be able to control your thoughts- because bad thoughts can also generate bad karma.

God Bless you.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

To unknown- do this and youll get stronger. See girls as your sisters and men as your brothers.

When lust comes and you start looking at women, recognise it as maya. Its just God dressed up staging the khel.

If nothing else brother, honor your wife and stop being an idi*t.

U have no idea what awaits the adulteror in hell, trust me, ive seen the demons that wait for adultorers and they love it when we think they dont exist- they laugh at us and wait patiently.

But then even demons and hell realms are not real, they are all just God staging the khel.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Hi, I was wondering if any of you could help me with this question as it has been bothering me for way too long now.

This might be a bit long, so bear with me.

Basically, I'm a 19 year old girl who is NOT amrit dhari and not very religious (i cut my hair etc)

however, I have always believed in God and go to the gurudwara and pray more than I used too.

Anyways, I have committed many sins throughout my teenage years and not so long ago, I did some

things with a guy and I am not exactly proud of it..

Now, of course..this regret and guilt is killing me and I do not have anyone to reach out but God himself.

However, I seriously feel ashamed in front of him for the "lust" activities I have been through.

I just can't deal with this anymore, I've been super depressed and the guilt is literally finishing me off from the

inside day by day. I asked God for forgiveness but I have not come to peace with myself. You could say, I am a girl

that beats herself down over and over again. My sins have been big but my regrets/apologies are even bigger, believe me.

Okay...so the main question, I guess...How do I ask for forgiveness? How will I know I have been forgiven?

Does God even forgive these sins? I want to start on the right path...how do I control my mind/thoughts/actions?

Could I ever cleanse my soul from these sins or will I have to go through the bad things because of this? (Karma)

I've seriously realized all the things I have done were really bad! At this point, I would like to change myself but

don't even know where to start...I just keep calling myself "stupid, <banned word filter activated>, worthless" etc :(

Confused & lost, please help!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cMgqwmDngzU

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • 1 month later...
Guest Virinder Singh Cheem

Waheguruji ka khalsa waheguruji ki fateh I am 15 years old and living in the UK I go to school and pray a lot and go to the Gurdwara. Around 90% of my friends are muslims none have asked me to convert but for some reason I feel as if I want to but I am so passionate about sikhi. I need help how can I overcome these thoughts.

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • This topic was locked and unlocked

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Loading...
 Share


  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt
  • advertisement_alt


  • Topics

  • Posts

    • lol dal panth Panj told me explicitly not to associate with Vadhbhag Singh Sodhi followers!
    • We have lamp (or Jyot) the pure unscented candle for a reason. Traditionally, Patis used candle light (jyot), so they could read SGGS in darkness. Light, elec didn't exist. Dhoop is used to attract the "Good spirits" but also keep freshness where Maharaj will be.  Interestingly and coincidentally I heard Sakhi a few dsys ago. During Dasa Pitha's time these souls were roaming the Earth and even Sangat noticed. Maharaj asked them "y u here?" They replied during recitation of SGGS and making Degh they didn't bother lighting candle. THAT WAS THEE ONLY REASON NO GATI WAS GIVEN TO THEM!!!  AUTHENTICITY NOT CHECKED I heard once on YT like 2 days ago.  If u apply dhoop in one room of your house twice a week u will notice a difference esp in the smell and freshness of that room. 
    • Sangat ji, With the hot weather as per Guru's Hukm, how can we look after our kes?  First of all the beard! Working in Construction, factory and any other heated environment I UNDERSTAND! At my workplace it's over 32 degree celcius and sometimes we have to lift 20kg ALL! DAY! My tips, regularly shampoo the beard during ishnan. APPLY OIL! The technique of applying oil is by rubbing it thoroughly in the roots. Pay attention to the noise esp on the chin. You will hear this "crosh crosh" noise. Keep rubbing oil until u can't hear it no more! This means the oil has blended in properly.  Second tip on beard, keep an extra kanga in your pocket. Every two, three hours give your beard a proper comb down to get rid of any sweat or stickiness. SECOND BENEFIT! Do this all 12 months every single day your beard will look like it's been professionally groomed. TRY IT! People will ask you "What gel u use? How can yer beard be naturally like that?" You can say all I use is coconut oil or whaeva oil but just comb the beard every 2-3 hours for a minute.  As for the kes, morning time get rid of all the gronjra (or knots - forgotten English word), in the morning. However, during evening comb down make sure you get rid of small remaining gronjra and comb yer hair nice and straight. You will feel soooo so relaxed. Yes our hair will go unnoticed due to Dastar, but our hair demands time and self grooming!So proper combing down, spending a good 15-20 mins most evenings is an absolute MUST!  Most evenings I let my hair down and cover hair with my parna for 2-3 hours so it gets to relax from the tying up.  FINAL TIP! We are Sikhs so we keep fighting and remember this! The tradition of Dastar and uncut hair started in India, where the weather is twice as hot. Everytime we bring this thought in the mind, Guru ji will bless us and make us feel cooled down by a notch.  Fateh.       
    • Been so much nindya and attacking Shastarvidiya since the 2000s, however if we look at gatka now it's still mostly as poor and poorly taught as it was back then, still morris dancing moves and still behzti moves in BBC shows about sikhi and vaisakhi. If people were going to attack shastarvidiya, wouldn't have made sense to improve gatka instead and make it more effective? Additionally, the Nihang Singh presence has improved greatly now, and the cracks within the the SGPC and affiliated jatha jathebandis are showing more greatly as panth becomes more knowledgable with dasam bani and itihas day-by-day, so much gyaan which was lost within panjabi sikhs during colonial times. In the 2000s, the groups were able to talk down this bani and  gyaan by associating it with  RSS and hindus, brahminwaad etc. Not working so well now is it? However with gyaan it would be also good for us to try and preserve our martial arts and keertan vidiya as well! More and more crazy keertan videos are coming out from jatha members that are being made fun of and making sangat annoyed and upset, on tiktok and instagram reels.  
    • Author Posted April 24   On 4/21/2025 at 2:43 PM, ipledgeblue said: sirr should not be nanga because keski is usually worn.   Sikhs can sleep nanga-sirr if they choose to . Being from Punjab, almost every Sardaarji i know (amritdhari or not) sleeps/showers with their hair uncovered. I don't think Guru Sahib asked us to wear Dastar to sleep and I don't think it is in SRM.   The idea of "keski being worn to sleep" is cos in Bollywood films (Bachna Ae Haseeno) Sikh characters usually tie a gol parna when sleeping since the actor's usually Hindu. So they gotta cover his head somehow or he'd have cut hair. Same reason Diljit wore a pagg to bed in the El Sueno vid. Only time they didn't do that was in Gadar with Sunny Deol which just looked odd tbh   What in the world? What sikh or even a decent human would base their knowledge of their culture or religion on a movie industry, that too Bollywood?  Believe me, no sikh ever said, I must cover my head becasue an actor did so in a movie. I've been doing it all wrong, I must start covering mh head because the sikh in that movie did.  Just because every panjabi and sardaar you know, does something, also doesn't make it right..  Follow the guru. And if you have a medical condition, then exemptions can be made.  Just admit it, because of my medical condition, I am not able to follow this rehit. Why are you getting everyone else to drop to your level?
×
×
  • Create New...

Important Information

Terms of Use