please help , i done shameful act

[singhdhillon]

yesterday, i done shameful act,i don't watch hindi movies and hollywood movies, because in these movies the actress are wearing short dress, if i watch a movie when in movie a lustful scene comes i never seen it, i don't listen bad lustful songs, i also doing simran and my nitnem. but yesterday when i doing work in my khet [kank nu pani launda c] i don't know why, i watch hot pics of girls on internet in my mobile , i did not watch the porn but only naked pics of girls, now i feel it is very shameful for me because in the one side i do nitnem and simran with mala, my family member looks me with mala in my hand and other side i done this shamefull act , now i want increase my simran, please any gursikh naam abyaasi tell me how i do simran every time 24 hours . i also doing ardas to guru sahib for simran, sadh sangat is the roop of guru sahib so please true gursikh tell me how i increase my simran for evrytime

[Wingz23]

okay look you need to do ardass, why are you looking at nakedness man? aint going to get you anywhere... think about it what if someone was to look at i dont your sister or mother or cousin in the way that you were looking at those girls on your phone? you wouldnt like it dude. just try and think about that..... i know its difficult but come on a mala in one hand nakedness on the other... if you want to look at nakedness look at yourself no dont that could be worse, but seriously do ardas, thats why its there too, your asking for help, just try not to go back to those images of girls, yes there prats for posing like that but again you wouldnt really want someone looking at a member of YOUR family the way you were looking at the those girls.

think about it singhdhillon, SINGHS are much stronger, look at sant jarnail JI, Guru Gobind Ji, Bhagat Puran Singh Ji, Mhai Bhago

hope you are doing okay

[West London Singh]

I've got an old Nokia mobile which is about 9 years old, It's worth about £5 and does nothing but make and receive calls. Even then I've only got it so my wife and children can maintain emergency contact with me whilst I'm at work.

And therein lies the answer and cause of your problem. You're a farmer in Punjab. You're out watering the fields. What on earth do you need a smartphone with internet access for ? Are you expecting a call from the United Nations to address the assembly via conference video call ?

Get rid of the un-needed internet smart phone. Unless you need it for your business....which you don't.....its like walking around with a porno mag in your pocket. You're a farmer living and working in isolated and lonely environments. Its asking for trouble.

[Guest]

I've got an old Nokia mobile which is about 9 years old, It's worth about £5 and does nothing but make and receive calls. Even then I've only got it so my wife and children can maintain emergency contact with me whilst I'm at work.

And therein lies the answer and cause of your problem. You're a farmer in Punjab. You're out watering the fields. What on earth do you need a smartphone with internet access for ? Are you expecting a call from the United Nations to address the assembly via conference video call ?

Get rid of the un-needed internet smart phone. Unless you need it for your business....which you don't.....its like walking around with a porno mag in your pocket. You're a farmer living and working in isolated and lonely environments. Its asking for trouble.

LOL

[Guest paapi]

I recently had a same problem, im a amritdhari and my mind trapped me into watching p**n, i had kept my mind occupied for months and months not to watch it, but this time i gave in. I only watched a bit of it and decided to touch myself ((masturbate) kaam just took over).

However i forced my mind to stop before u know what comes out. Unfortunately after i took my hand away from my it came out even though i forced my mind to stop.

I feel really bad, i did ardaas for forgivness but i still feel bad. Will maharaj forgive me? Am a shame to my other amritdhari brothers?

[Guest]

I've got an old Nokia mobile which is about 9 years old, It's worth about £5 and does nothing but make and receive calls. Even then I've only got it so my wife and children can maintain emergency contact with me whilst I'm at work.

And therein lies the answer and cause of your problem. You're a farmer in Punjab. You're out watering the fields. What on earth do you need a smartphone with internet access for ? Are you expecting a call from the United Nations to address the assembly via conference video call ?

Get rid of the un-needed internet smart phone. Unless you need it for your business....which you don't.....its like walking around with a porno mag in your pocket. You're a farmer living and working in isolated and lonely environments. Its asking for trouble.

Aren't those nokias indestructible?

[Guest singhni]

this is so real, i do not listen to music either or watch cinemas, but ive been in the similar situation but my peers and close friends showed me songs of juston bieber and other singers chris brown bruno mars and then i got thee kaami feelings and cannot stop looking at justin beiber pictures. then i try to listen to kirtan then go back to justin bieber. it happens when i start daydreaming more than anything

[VanHelsingh]

this is so real, i do not listen to music either or watch cinemas, but ive been in the similar situation but my peers and close friends showed me songs of juston bieber and other singers chris brown bruno mars and then i got thee kaami feelings and cannot stop looking at justin beiber pictures. then i try to listen to kirtan then go back to justin bieber. it happens when i start daydreaming more than anything

Bieber fever strikes again. :cool2:

[Guest Guest]

i asked only gursikhs how i do simran more, i am not kaami like i have not a relationship with a girl. Or i know it kaam is a stronger. Its not the fault of phone. I have laptop and i use it for meaningful things. IT happened suddnly , i am not a saint and i know its my mistake

[Guest]

Bieber fever strikes again. :cool2:

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL