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Is It Ok , To Marry None Sikhs?


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  • Is your boyfriend a clean shaven Punjabi or does he wear a turban (with uncut hair as well as uncut and untrimmed beard)?
  • Is he devoted to Sikhism or does he think its ok to drink alcohol?
  • Is he Amritdhari? i.e. is he baptized and wears the 5 kakaars (5 blessings in the form of "symbols") namely long hair (kesh), underpants (kashera), wooden comb (kangha), iron bracelet (kara), a small sword (kirpan)
  • Are his parents/family alright with you marrying him?
  • Are your parents/family alright with you converting to Sikhism?
Please understand the difference between Sikh, Punjabi, and Indian. The 3 cultures can have several similarities but are not the same. Indian culture is adhered to differently in various parts of India. Punjabi culture is adhered to differently in East Punjab (India) and West Punjab (Pakistan). Sikh culture is totally different from all of these, although as I said, there can be many similarities.

What aspect of this culture attracts you the most? Music? Dance? Outfits? Food? :)

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For been honest I thought he was Latin from how he look and dress like, I was surprised he was Punjabi Sikh.

He drinks alcohol I don't mind even if I don't drink alcohol but I'm from the state of Jalisco in Mexico from were tequila comes from ill be very hypocrite If I say something about it since most of my family drink.

None to all of that his father looks more traditional except for the sword.

I'm barely 22 he is 23 were not trying to marry any time soon. Maybe in 3 more years and we don't bother telling them because is 3 years and everything could happen and since there traditional we don't want to give them hard time for nothing. But that doesn't mean I want to be ready to then to acept me that's why I want to learn during the next years :)

My family would have a hearth attack , not my parents, my parents are very young and they just care for my happinest and there not religious at all as long were good with brother and sisters.

Music its similar, I havent try the food since most of it looks spicy I'm trying to go to this Indian Buffett but havent decided when and wich one.About the clothes I would like to use once in a while a Saree but I can't left behind the fact that I'm mexican and I never weared a Saree in my life so it would be something new.

But what mostly attracted me besides you guys are gorgeous that you guys are very family oriented ,gentlemen and educated.

:)

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