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On 9/10/2018 at 10:24 PM, Guest Pure Races said:

But I would be saddened. As muliticulturalism, and multiracialism, is on the rise. It will create a cultureless, uniform, boring, and easily controllable society

That's very interesting, especially the controllable society bit. I agree.

Though I disagree with people sticking to their own castes. I think young sikhs need to do the opposite, marry out of your caste, it will creator stronger relationships between sikhs of different castes and we need that...

In fact I hope i do marry someone outside of my caste 

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On 9/6/2018 at 3:18 PM, puzzled said:

I think I would just accept them!  Would be Interesting to know what other people would do ...

Wrong, accepting them is foolish and sets precedent for others to follow their foolish path.

Best thing to do is help that person regain their faith put doubts into them of other foolish path they have gone on to. Athiesm can be exposed as can all faiths. Just a matter of how much you love your own faith and the person you want to convience. If you dont love your faith sikhi or dont have firm belief in it then you will easily accept others not to believe either you will have become just another low IQ coconut fake sikh who doesnt understand gurbani or relevance to todays issues.

 

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On 9/15/2018 at 11:33 PM, Guest Kaur4life said:

Wrong, accepting them is foolish and sets precedent for others to follow their foolish path.

Best thing to do is help that person regain their faith put doubts into them of other foolish path they have gone on to. Athiesm can be exposed as can all faiths. Just a matter of how much you love your own faith and the person you want to convience. If you dont love your faith sikhi or dont have firm belief in it then you will easily accept others not to believe either you will have become just another low IQ coconut fake sikh who doesnt understand gurbani or relevance to todays issues.

 

What if they still don't listen after you try clearing their doubts on sikhi      and what if they keep saying they in love with a non sikh    then what are you supposed to do?  Disown? 

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6 hours ago, puzzled said:

What if they still don't listen after you try clearing their doubts on sikhi      and what if they keep saying they in love with a non sikh    then what are you supposed to do?  Disown? 

What would you do? I don't know what I would do...

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8 hours ago, puzzled said:

What if they still don't listen after you try clearing their doubts on sikhi      and what if they keep saying they in love with a non sikh    then what are you supposed to do?  Disown? 

Yes i think disowning until they have kids. They r making a big decision in life. U dont want them to make it without thinking of the consequences. So make it really hard for them. So that u know that even after all this suffering, they stuck to their position.

Also u want to get involved once kids r in the pics so they know abt their roots.

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2 hours ago, GuestKaur2 said:

VJKK VJKF

What would you do? I don't know what I would do...

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umm,  I think i would tell them to go and get on with their own life!  but keep some contact.  I asked my Mum what she would do if i come home with a gori and she said she would just tell me to leave and get on with my life and do what i want, she said she wouldn't want anything to do with me then lol   

If my sister told me she wanted to marry a non Sikh, honestly i wouldn't talk to her anymore! i would be very disappointed, I'm very sure my parents would do the same 

 

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36 minutes ago, puzzled said:

umm,  I think i would tell them to go and get on with their own life!  but keep some contact.  I asked my Mum what she would do if i come home with a gori and she said she would just tell me to leave and get on with my life and do what i want, she said she wouldn't want anything to do with me then lol   

If my sister told me she wanted to marry a non Sikh, honestly i wouldn't talk to her anymore! i would be very disappointed, I'm very sure my parents would do the same 

I think the situation for this to happen was if your sibling felt as if they weren't being loved by family but felt loved by that individual. And... We all know how great Punjabi parents are at showing their love to their child/children. I would try speaking to them first and tell them why its not right. A bit of explaining with pyaar can go a long way...

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I think if you put yourself in their shoes and then explained to them the alternative option that they could've chosen it could be more effective. If you cut off completely with them, the Panth won't grow because if he/she has children, who will teach them about Sikhi? Yes, marrying a gora/gori is not the right thing to do but if you explain to them from your point of view why you think its wrong, if they truly loved you then they would understand you aswell. So its a two way thing, you have to understand each other in order to find the solution.

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