Gay Sikh man was forced to dress up as a woman on his wedding day because his in-laws didn't want anyone to know he was male

[RajKaregaKhalsa1]

Just now, puzzled said:

I remember reading that, it's from bhai ramas book. Couldn't stop thinking about it for several days. It's a real eye opener.  I think it's important to read stuff like that every now and then because that is reality, 

Yeah sometimes you start thinking about Kaam Krodh Lobh Moh Hankaar and you know you are but don't stop yourself. After reading Gursikhs experience like Bhai Rama Singh ji, I look at myself and think how stupid am I.

[RajKaregaKhalsa1]

http://www.globalgurmat.com/books-2/bhai-sahib-randhir-singh/

Great books, read them. 

Love Se Kinehya, autobiography of Sant Baba Harnaam Singh ji Rampurkhere wale.

http://www.globalgurmat.com/books-2/

[puzzled]

I don't fully know what was going on but my cousin In India who now has died used to mess around a lot, he slept with a lot of women and even slept with married women. he did a lot of nasha and did no seva or simran. Eventually his lifestyle got to him and he became very weak. For about a year before he passed away he became very quite and odd. We go India every year so I noticed his behaviour. One day he told us how when he was sleeping "they" came and were sitting on his neck and that he couldn't breath! He would be sitting down and then quickly look behind him or random direction as if he heard a noise. Once he heard a noise and he was like what's that, I said it's the boiler and he was like oh I though bibi came! But bibi had passed away a year ago! He used to make so many random comments like that. He eventually passed away about a year later but I sometimes look back and wonder what he was seeing and hearing!   It's really scary stuff. 

Waheguru! 

[puzzled]

7 minutes ago, RajKaregaKhalsa1 said:

http://www.globalgurmat.com/books-2/bhai-sahib-randhir-singh/

Great books, read them. 

Love Se Kinehya, autobiography of Sant Baba Harnaam Singh ji Rampurkhere wale.

http://www.globalgurmat.com/books-2/

Thanks