£2000 lengha

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Found this old article from the SYUK annual magazine. It's written by some Punjabi female who was in a relationship with a Gujarati guy, a live in relationship, around the same time people were protesting against interfaith marriages. Its not very often you read these kind of articles. She talks about all sorts, how her parents disapproved but still went along with it, a £2000 lengha which is just bonkers! and how she started falling out with her Gujju lover. She's obviously not a Sikh, just a regular moni, but its interesting a interesting article.  I used to have these SYUK magazines, can't find them now. 

 

 

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People are still doing this. Its quite pathetic that some people are saying that bani on invitations is parchaar and spreads awareness so people should be allowed to print it! If the only Sikhi someone has in their life is a pangti from a wedding card around 3 times a year then i really don't know what to say.

https://en-gb.facebook.com/SikhYouthBirmingham/videos/stop-printing-bani-on-invitationswatch-this-clip-to-see-why-it-is-wrong-to-have-/1612977855397038/

[Lostandmessedup 54]

Who knows that her lengha was the size of a parachute lol

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2 minutes ago, Lostandmessedup said:

Who knows that her lengha was the size of a parachute lol

Don't know why Indian brides spend thousands on something which make them look like they are wearing a tent. 

I'm guessing it comes down to competing. 

[Akalifauj 900]

11 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Don't know why Indian brides spend thousands on something which make them look like they are wearing a tent. 

I'm guessing it comes down to competing. 

The tent is also worn by the white chicks you idolize.  

[Lostandmessedup 54]

13 minutes ago, puzzled said:

Don't know why Indian brides spend thousands on something which make them look like they are wearing a tent. 

I'm guessing it comes down to competing. 

Bro you are right they do waste so much money for one single day who afterwoods nobody remembers or cares about at all.

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6 minutes ago, Akalifauj said:

The tent is also worn by the white chicks you idolize.  

I don't think White women are better than Indian, only reason White people wear Asian outfits and make themselves looks like clowns is probably because their Asian friends get them to wear them. 

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4 minutes ago, Lostandmessedup said:

Bro you are right they do waste so much money for one single day who afterwoods nobody remembers or cares about at all.

True, 2 days after guests have already forgotten the wedding. 

[Lostandmessedup 54]

5 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I don't think White women are better than Indian, only reason White people wear Asian outfits and make themselves looks like clowns is probably because their Asian friends get them to wear them. 

True you could call it fancy dress lol.

 

4 minutes ago, puzzled said:

True, 2 days after guests have already forgotten the wedding. 

Bro i forget it about the second i walk out the door lol. 2 days is way too much lol to think about someones wedding.

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3 minutes ago, Lostandmessedup said:

Bro i forget it about the second i walk out the door lol

        

[Akalifauj 900]

18 minutes ago, puzzled said:

I don't think White women are better than Indian, only reason White people wear Asian outfits and make themselves looks like clowns is probably because their Asian friends get them to wear them. 

You people need to live a little.  White women also wear tents on their wedding day and its a white tradition. 

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3 minutes ago, Akalifauj said:

You people need to live a little.  White women also wear tents on their wedding day and its a white tradition. 

oh I thought you were talking about White guests wearing Indian tents at Indian weddings. White women wear White tents, but Indian women end up looking like they are wearing tents with Christmas lights and decoration wrapped around it. They just need David's star on top. 

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  wedding memes

 

[Kaurr 630]

16 minutes ago, puzzled said:

  wedding memes

 

Why is she in a bathtub?   

Is that lengha waterproof or something? 

[S1ngh 2,267]

When religion is not playing any role in someone's life, they tend to go on a route which is pretty much going in a wrong direction and against our dharam principles.

There is no point of hating those who are  following such materialistic life.

We should see these as an example of early warning that our own future generation can be like that and should do ardas that they won't get tangled in such maya web.