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Thanks for your replies.... after some bad reactions from the family he is now thinking deeply on if they have a future or not.

He is saying she has researched sikhi and they will bring their kids up Sikh. If this is the case then great but it’s unlikely as she will see her family and I’m sure they will always try to make the kids Muslim. He also said she said her family will disown her and she is ok with that. Not sure if that happens anymore and also slightly weird she’s will to give them up for a guy. 

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On 1/6/2021 at 7:08 PM, Guest Simran80 said:

Thanks for your replies.... after some bad reactions from the family he is now thinking deeply on if they have a future or not.

He is saying she has researched sikhi and they will bring their kids up Sikh. If this is the case then great but it’s unlikely as she will see her family and I’m sure they will always try to make the kids Muslim. He also said she said her family will disown her and she is ok with that. Not sure if that happens anymore and also slightly weird she’s will to give them up for a guy. 

maybe also show her what happened to sikhs during partition, how pakistanis treated them etc....

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20 hours ago, ipledgeblue said:

maybe also show her what happened to sikhs during partition, how pakistanis treated them etc....

why?  what does that have to do with this?

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On 12/30/2020 at 1:28 PM, Guest Simran80 said:

I have recently found out a very close relative (boy) has been going out with a Muslim girl for a while and he intends to marry her. How should I approach this? 
I can’t believe it as she isn’t even pretty and she’s fat. It doesn’t even make sense as he’s a nice looking typical Punjabi boy who can be shallow. And he’s very protective of you say anything about her. 
 

he comes from a sikh family where his mom is religious and all his extended family too. He was brought up around sikhi but spoilt I guess, put on a pedestal and no fear of elders instilled in him. Still... it doesn’t make sense as she’s not even attractive where it could be lust!!

it effects the whole family, especially when he has kids and expects us to all socialise with her Pakistani family which I can’t see as being easy and nor do I want my kids to do that or think it’s ok to do what he has done.

He will be singing Allah Wakbr. 

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To the OP,

Whatever you do. Go into Muslim dharam and you fall down 2 grades below Sikhi. Eg. If you are in grade 8 in sikhi school. Islam is like grade 6. 

Tauba Tauba. Astakullallah.

 

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6 hours ago, singhsince1981 said:

To the OP,

Whatever you do. Go into Muslim dharam and you fall down 2 grades below Sikhi. Eg. If you are in grade 8 in sikhi school. Islam is like grade 6. 

Tauba Tauba. Astakullallah.

 

islam is not dharm, it is deen. Abrahamics do not follow or understand concept of dharm!

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