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I Messed Up
by Guest i dont know anymore- 6 replies
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Just now, i was about to eat when someone called. I picked up and it was a veerji, he said that all the kids (sikh kidss.. benjia, veerai) having a get together. I knew my mom would say no, so i said i would call him back. I went upstairs and asked my mom, she broke out into yells. She said taht i treat another peoples families better than my own. I told her the honest thruth that if i didnt go than everyone would talk like "oh why didnt she come', I know i shouldnt care about taht kind of stuff, but i just dont want it to happen you know? I would want to avoide it. So i told my mom that i had to go, otherwise they would all talk and she said "noo your just being a drama …
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today i got into a huge arguement with my parents n i ended up losing my anger and punched my mom few times i ended up bruising her arm. if i apologize and she forgives me will i be in trouble from Waheguru?
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I Miss My Mom 1 2
by Guest Guest- 16 replies
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I cant stop my tears right now... even after showing no signs of sadness at the airport or even after seeing my mom after 3 yrs, I just cant control my emotions right now.I ve managed to hold it and become strong but after sp ending time with mom, I cant even enter my room. I have exams coming up too. If i listen to keertan, i cant focus and all i remember is how we spent time together doing simran and keertan... I want to get over the situation faast so i can study and focus... Vaaheguroo is always there but me moorakh gets all sad ... I really want Sangat power ...
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I Need A Song Related To...
by Guest Anonymous- 3 replies
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Well basically, I made a short film for a school assignment and it's about a Sikh's life. I need a backing song/music. I don't know what to use though. Any song/music out there you can recommend?
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need advice I need advice
by Guest dreamer33ph- 5 replies
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Good afternoon. I had a previous boyfriend who I treasure so much. He made a mother promised to me before. This August he left me for another woman. During that time I need his strenght the most it is during my cousin funeral and her baby, then my auntie is in the hospital. I took advantage of the mother promise I ask him to leave her girlfriend because he had a mother promise to take care of me...He say he wont. I said they wont be happy because they hurt someone. And now I am very sorry to take advantage of the mother promise. I really am... I am saying sorry everyday to his mother in heaven. I tell my mother what I have done so she can be ashame of me doing the wrong t…
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I Need Advice
by Guest crazy kaur- 3 replies
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I need help bcus i keep getting too attched to people, like ill want the person to be all mine, im not talking about lover, i mean as family... i.e. my close cousins ... like ill try really hard and always look forward to get togethers so when i see them kinda mingling with other far relatives who dont really try too hard. . I get really upset from the inside.. its kind of eating me away bcus i get do entangled into the love they give me and get protective and jealous ... i just cant seem to accept that everyone is going to talk to everyone, just as i do, if i can do it then why do i get jealous when others are... i think its an insecurity in myself bcus i feel that the…
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I Need Advice How To Stop This 1 2
by Guest Stupid fake sikh- 10 replies
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Dear sangat. I have been into sikhi since I was young, I am 20 now. I then cut my dhari and took up drinking due to university life. How do I stop drinking? I have tried many many times this past year I went two months without drinking then I went out and had a beer with a friend!! what do I do to stop? its runing my career prospects, family, friends, and personal intimate life! what do I do to stop drinking? I try to read bani as much as I can i listen to kirtan soo much BUT I go out with friends and i then have a drink what the hell do I do to stop?????????????????????? If I carry on drinking I will either do something too far, if I dont remember the whole night …
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I need ardaas please
by Guest Anmonymous- 1 reply
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh I am having a lot of problems at home and also at work they said I might get dismissal and I will get sacked I'm really scared as I'm already working part time and I'm struggling with money also I will be so depressed if that happens can you please do ardaas they don't sack me. I am a good worker but I forgot to tell something.
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I Need Direction.
by Guest Confused.- 6 replies
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Ya this may have been posted b4..... I sometimes do question my religion mainly because of other people's actions...keeping my beard long...and clashes between todays society and old indian mentality..what is ur take one this? what problems do the other sikhs face in society? uhgg...i'm just wondering b/c b4 i didn't question the religion or anything else for that matter.....for me it was really hard after 9/11 I think the hardest part for me is to be able to maintain some sort of direction....religion: SIkhism: Jatts v Tarkhans bull <admin-profanity filter activated>: Hindus v Sikhs:Muslims v Sikhs....so in the end when i go to the gurudwara i go to the place in…
Last reply by Neva 4Get 84, -
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Recently i have not been feeling well for few months. I cant concentrate and feel depressed like there is a chaaya (black cloud) can you recommend me of any babaji who would help me.
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Ive done so many mistakes but now im on the path of waheguru ji. I feel lost, i try to wake up at 445 take ishnaan and do nitnem japji sahib, jaap sahib and anand sahib bt i havent been successful in waking up at 5 everyday somedays i would wake up at 8 or 9 and do the nitnem that time. I wish to meet waheguru ji and take amrit. But i also worry what people at my work or in family gna say i do eyebrows and waxing my facial hair. I need waheguru ji to guide me so i can meet him.
Last reply by Not2Cool2Argue, -
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FATEH sangat ji......wat do you do wen you like a guy yet u keep tellin urself dat no becuz u know its wrong....i mean like..... .....i hate it.....ima kinda scared now....cuz i dun like it....i know its wrong yet then agen...help! FATEH
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I Need Help
by Guest SCARED- 9 replies
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wahegure je ka khalsa waheguru je ka fateh lately i've been prayig more then usually and something weird is happening. i can't explain it but really really bad thoughts are coming into my mind. these thoughts are sooooooo bad i im shocked my mind can create things like this. imreally beginning to hate myself. everyday i try to pray or pray i silly bad thoughts enter my mind. im constantly having to hav this battle with my mind where im japing naam to overide them. i jus think i can't take it no more. i feel like these bad thoughts are taking over my mind. i fin myself hitting myself to stop them coming. i feel like hitting a hammer on my head or banging it against …
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I don't feel like doing anything, it feels like I've lost interest in everything but if someone makes me do something something simple like kirtan then I'll start enjoying it like I used to before. I want to so Simran inside I want to go do seva at the gurdwara but I don't know what's stopping me, I want to so something but it feels like i lost interest and everything seems boring. Why do I feel this way? I did have a fight with my mom earlier which ruined my mood and made me upset. But I don't know something's missing. I don't know what to do.
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I Need Help. Please!
by Guest anonymus- 0 replies
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh. I am 16 year old girl. When i was 13 i found out what porn was and since then i have been watching it. I do not touch myself in any manner but just watch porn and get the feeling of pleasure, even though i dont touch myself. I know it is a sin in sikhi. How can i stop myself. Just this week i had stopped but i did it again. i did not do it for 10 days and thats the longest i have gone. in the heat of the moment i watch porn.. but after I regret it deeply. A lot of times i have promised god and told him that i wont do it but i always end up doing it. I WANT TO STOP. I dont want to be punished and i DONT want god to hate me. I…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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