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Is it worth Meditating When you don't keep kesh? 1 2
by Guest H.S.j- 17 replies
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I watched a video about by Nanak naam on this topic but I'm still left very confused. I am wondering if there is even a point to meditate and pray if you trim your beard? i don't intend to to trim forever, just for a few years at uni, I still want to feel connected to sikhi and doing naam and not dm allows me to feel good, but I can't help but feel like I'm lying to myself by balancing a spiritual life and a non spiritual life, I like to devote my 100% to everything I do, am I just being counter productive if I meditate or is it still better than nothing? I know now many of you will say stop trimming, and yes I know I will eventually, but while I am doing it,…
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Is Jagmeet Singh .. 1 2
by Guest - gupt -- 12 replies
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I was just wondering, Is JAGMEET SINGH - from birmingham - married??? :lol: Next time please the PM system.
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Is Judging A Potential Partner On Their Financial Security Right Or Wrong?
by Guest OzzySingh- 9 replies
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Sat Sri Akaal to the Sikh Sangat community, I have been browsing the forums for quite some time but this would have to be my first post to date. The topic at hand is that I would like to gather and understand some of your opinions on what is in my eyes an issue that requires clarification. Firstly allow me to quickly describe myself. I'm a 22 year old Sikh Male currently in my third year of studying Medicine. Although born and raised in the UK my family moved to Australia when I was in my mid teens. As I come from a fairly financially secure family I couldn't help but wonder is it right to judge someone on their financial wealth? As I've grown up I've often come acr…
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Is Kaam a bajjar kurehit, do i have to a peshi please help
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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Wjkk wjkf. I am a 17 year old amritdhari sikh and i had the urge for a couple of months to indulge in kaam. After really hard trying to fight it i gave in *edited*. I feel very guilty as maharaj said that you should look at the opposite sex as mother sister daughters etc. So please tell me if this is a bajjar kurehit and i have to do a peshi in front of the 5 pyare, or should i do ardas and ask maharaj for kirpa and forgiveness.
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Is Kashera Out Dated?
by Guest confused- 7 replies
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sangat ji just a question is a kashera outdated? i mean we have boxers etc.. even today you can get khasereh with the elastics are they ok? or are kashera required to have a naala? if so why is this? dont mean to offend
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Is kissing and hugging someone considered kurehat
by Guest Vikrams- 2 replies
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fathe I once went for a massage, but did not realise it wasn't an authentic place until later. ——- deleted——— I Am confused whether this is considered as par istree da sang or not. Whether I should confess to panj pyare and take amrit again? I took hukamnama To clear my doubt Ang 595 Sorath m 1 ghar 1 Man haali kirsanni karnni saram paanni tan khet. Please let me know your views. Because there is a amrit sanchar happening tomorrow in the nearby gurudwara.
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Is Kp Gill Still Alive?
by Guest Death- 9 replies
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Is the DOG KP Gills still alive?
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Is listening to Bhangra songs wrong in Sikhi? 1 2 3
by Guest Kaur 2- 23 replies
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VJKK VJKF Is listening to Bhangra songs wrong in Sikhi? I couldn't find any gurbani quotes about it and I couldn't find any Basics of Sikhi/Nanak Naam videos about it. I want to know if I have been doing the wrong thing and I want to put a stop to it quick. VJKK VJKF
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Is Looking At A Singh In A Romantic Way Wrong? 1 2 3
by Guest silence- 29 replies
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WJKK WJKF i really wanted to know whther it is wrong to lok at a singh in a attractive way wrong... i am confused becuase if you are attrcted to a singh then doesnt that at least mean you are in the right mind in looking at him rather than looking at someone who is not the same religion as you. if you are attracted to a singh then what should you do becuase in many ways you shouldnt be lustful but a singh is still sikh... confused... HELP! WJKK WJKF
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"Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!" I wanted to know that are Sikh's forbidden of love? Does it say in the Guru Granth Sahib Ji that it is forbidden? That would be great if we have some opinions on this topic becuse people are very confused about this! "Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa! Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh!"
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Is love marriage in same pind allowed? PLEASE HELP 1 2
by Guest Stranger101- 17 replies
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Waheguru ji ka Khalsa Waheguru ji Ki Fateh I am a 20 year old girl living in Canada with my parents. A few years ago, we went to visit family back in India where I met my childhood bestfriend who I grew up playing with (they were our neighbors). When I came back to Canada, we started talking and became really close. When my parents found out I talk to him, they got extremely mad, threatened to kick me out of the house, and said I was gonna ruin their “izzat” in society. I don’t understand what I am doing wrong. I only lived in India for a few years of my life so how is this wrong? My dad says that everyone in same pind are siblings... but we are not related in any w…
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I wanted to know what the sangat thinks about getting married. Does every sikh have to get married at one point in their life? Or is it ok if we don't. Is is compulsory to get married in Sikhi?? I wanted to know this because I am a girl who doesn't want to get married and whenever my parents or anyone else talks about getting me married, I get really mad. I really start to dislike whoever talks about it. I want to know what everyone else thinks about it.
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Dear friends, Discussion of topic like masturbation is embarrassing but we have make it clear is masturbation a keraht or bajar keraht. I asked to few amrtdahri persons (even serched on internet )they views didn't matched thier were like this :- 1. It is keraht but not bajat keraht 2. It bajar kehrat even highest of all of them. 3. Can't say, panj payeri don't tell about so we can conclude it is not a bajar keraht ( which if we do then we are no more amritdari persons ). Now my question is masturbation a part of bajar keraht or but due to embarrassment one talk about masturbation.
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Is Masturbation Allowed In Sikhi?
by Guest WeirdQuestions- 7 replies
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Well i am 16 and well as a teenager. masturbating is something i do often. But i am wandering is it allowed to masturbate in sikhi? If it is can you tell me whats so bad about it? It rerlives stress, feels good, and relieves sexual tension. so anything wrong with it?
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is music bad for sikhs
by Guest singh2004- 5 replies
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1. is listening to music bad for sikhs? i understand simran and kirtan is good but what if we want to be in a more aggressive mood like how theres Nihang Misl songs with rap beats in the back. at the end of the day they are only praising Gods glory rite? 2. is it wrong to produce instrumental rap beats using softwares on my computer? it seems like a nice hobby and pastime to create music instrumentals. or to upload them on YouTube and people actually turn it into a living as well by selling them online or getting artists to send them audio digitally etc. as Sikhs, we can turn this negative hip hop into something positive, let me know your thoughts …
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Yeah Dhadi and Kaweshria are known for joking around now and then. -
Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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