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Can I take Black seed oil because I do read bani and dont want any animal product
by Guest Jeet singh- 2 replies
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Dear Sadsangat ji, Waheguru ji ka khalsa Shri Waheguru ji ke fateh, I dont have kesh but I am planning to be guru da sikh because I kept on thinking and thinking that why i have so many body alignment and none when i use to wear paag in india. Came to usa 15 year ago every since health been bad I feel i have made very big crime doing katal of kesh. But now trying to change my heart first and then follow the path of true guru. I have gained lot of weight and always get seasonal allergies cough etc, also have stomach problems. Now I have ordered CD from Sarb rog ka aukhad naam and hope guru bani will cure all disease of body. I am also trying this new product called bla…
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helpless at home
by Guest chanan- 3 replies
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ssa sangatji. i com from asikh family. we had been going to a dera [not the misleading one] but a proper place where there is Guru Granth Sahibjis parkhash, proper rehit sikhia there is proper parchar about gursikh life & gurbani. a sant ji did tap there for many yrs but he is no more nw. there is no such things like touching feet of anyone there not even the person who is regarded as santji today.he does not allow anyone to touch feet & only asks sangat to attune with guru shabad. we stopped going there as my father had misunderstandings & now has said lot against the santji there. so much so that it scares me every now & then what will happen. we are lik…
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Singhniyah & Their Keski's 1 2 3
by Guest Concerned Singhni- 26 replies
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Theres been a question on my mind for soo long but didnt know who to ask and how i would make myself more clear. the situation is that i want to become amrit dhari soon in the near future, and would like to wear a dastaar or keski that covers my head fully. But why is it that some girls wear a keski and harf of their hair is just out? This amrit dhari girl said to me that you dont cover all your hair only a part of your hair shud be covered. Is this trua? Because I thought that all your hair shud be covered in full??????
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- does the soul leave the body instantly along with the last swaas - I have heard the soul/person is still watching until the cremation,is this correct? Does anyone have any information about what happens...
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Nasaro mansoor
by Guest Tuhi- 0 replies
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Can someone please tell me where I can download nasaro mansoor guru gobind Singh by akj in bir ras style Kirtan, thanks
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Something for all of you...
by Guest Kaur- 3 replies
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I have been feeling this way and I need to get it out of my chest. To start off, I'm a 20 year old girl who's recently just started loving my religion, Sikhi. I had to experience a major downlow in my life for me to have my eyes truly opened and get my head out of this life, all this illusion..However, I did make mistakes in my past which I took self-pity for over 1.5 years and then I realized "that's it..I can't sit here and be sad anymore, Guru Sahib has already forgiven me". I am now starting to understand that my past actions are in the past - and whatever I have done wrong (which btw were A LOT OF THINGS!) ..I have to simply let go. Now, I read a few posts on her…
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Sikh name?
by Guest dass- 1 reply
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Gurfateh I just wanted to know if anyone could tell me whether someone called Ram Chand could have been a sikh or would he have been a hindu? This name has popped up from someone's family history.
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Should I Do This Pooja? 1 2 3
by Guest REP- 23 replies
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I'm 25 with no job and various other problems. I am a keshdhari singh and believe in going to the gurdwara as the route out of any problem. I am heavily against poojas. The thing is, my mother is not as sikh inclined as me. She used to do sukhmani sahib paat and maybe still does now and then. She has grown really worried and tired of me not having a job and my general condition, so out of being very desperate she went to see an astrologer behind my back. The astologer told her a few things about me which were quite accurate. He also told her that people who were born when I was born, we have all been pretty messed up due to the alignment of certain planets. He a…
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Dear Sangat Ji, I am a frequent reader of this site but I seldom post, and am for the first time ever starting a new thread. I do so because I feel that we can perhaps openly examine as a community some of the root causes of many of the challenges that posters present here, especially in the Gupt section. I post here instead of "Whats Happening" as there may be those who wish to contribute but not reveal their identities. The topics that keep coming up over and over include: Women and issues with hair (and the fact that it affects their chances of marriage) Youngsters and romantic relationships (how soon they wish to start their journeys toward Ghristi Jeevan) Depres…
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Hair and not overdiscussed
by Guest Akaur- 6 replies
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WJKK WJKF Jio, I have been amritdhari for a few yrs now and of I don't pluck off my facial hair I will grow a beard. When I did not touch it in the early days I was laughed at and even in my wedding I was ridiculed. I don't want to carry on commiting a bujer kureit and know best advice would be from the panj pyare but to any Gursikh - Shall I take my kirpan off (pray that one day I CAN have it with me again) but still keep keski, kara and kachera becuase these I need and have the strength to keep. Thanks. WJKK WJKF.
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Dealing with guilt
by Guest guilt- 4 replies
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Fateh I was at school and my friends were gossiping. They asked me stuff (about guys etc) and I told them new gossip and what else I knew about boys in my class and now I feel bad because we talked very rude. I am amtishaki and talked rude-very rude :no: How do I overcome this guilt. I can't say that I feel uncomfortable talking like that because I will probably get laughed at and have no friends. I will try and avoid it now but do I have to do anything like peshi .I have asked for muaafi in ardas.
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advice please
by Guest confused kaur- 3 replies
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gurfateh ji with maharaj kirpa it will soon be my anand karaj and was thinking about doing a shabad- however i am struggling to find a shabad to sing! any help about possible shabads to sing is really appreciated as time is not on my side!! vaheguru!!
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I am really stuck and dont know which way to go or who to ask. Problem is that nearly all my life I have known that I was different. I have always felt attracted to people of the same sex. I have only told my sister about me being gay and she just says that I should just make sure that i relly am I know I am and have had 2 partners in the last few years. Now the biggie is this...... My mom wants me to see this girl this weekend for marriage and to see if we are compatible. Problem is that I have already seen half a dozen girls and just rejected them by making some excuse or other. But this girl is absolutely faultless and nice. My auntie knows her really well and s…
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IDK Help is he a sant ? 1 2
by Guest Sewadar- 14 replies
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There is a bhai ji at my local Gudhwara, he wears a really beautiful Chola and really beautiful dastaarand when i say that i mean really beautiful stylye. When he is alone hes constantly doing simran he is also really young im 29 and hes at lest 10 years younger if not more. I never talk to him i say fateh though from a distance. im shy IDK why to talk to him, i dont talk much either so that deoesnt help i cant seem to go upto him the reason i want to go upto him is and talk is because: i walked past him one day and thefellow Gurmukhs (three really gursikh) called him sant jji and touched his knees he BACKED away QUICKLY and Grabbed there Hands he then looked at me and g…
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Survey on Sikh beliefs! Take part!
by Guest A Kaur- 4 replies
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A Brunel University student is conducting an investigation into paranormal beliefs and religion. The focus is on Sikhs, over the age of 18, living in the UK. Please help them with this interesting study by completing the following short-survey. It should only take five minutes and will also help you evaluate your own beliefs! http://surveymonkey.com/s/TM5BCLV Please take part and share the link!
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well. -
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Seriously?? The Dhadi is trying to be cute. For those who didn't get it, he said: "Some say Maharaj killed bakras (goats). Some say he cut the heads of the Panj Piyaras. The truth is that they weren't goats. It was she-goats (ਬਕਰੀਆਂ). He jhatka'd she-goats. Not he-goats." Wow. This is possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard in relation to Sikhi.
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