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I Dont No Anymore
by Guest Confused- 2 replies
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Faathe jio, I have come to a stage in my life where i am totally lost i mean like its hard to explain but one time i was thinking and i started to think what color should i use, what words, what expression, what sound, what shape to describe him? I feel like my body is cage and i cant leave. When i talk to someone i feel as i shouldn't. I feel like sitting in a empty room all by myself and just doing simran and being there. im sorry for sounding so damn stupid, i just needed to tell someone.
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What Should I Do 1 2
by Guest Singh In Need- 10 replies
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i am a 27 year old sikh male who was happly married with two children, until i found out that my wife of five years is having an affair with another male. I am amrit dhari sikh and my wife is amrit dhari was well. Before people on this thread start saying have i got any proof well I have photos of her with this home wrecker hugging and kissing. I have yet to confront her on this issue i would ask for suggestions of how to handle this situation.
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Under Moderation For More Than 1 Year
by Guest _Kurtas_- 1 reply
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Gur Fateh More than 1 year on I am still under moderation. Whilst other users who have used vulgar language on these forums are allowed to post I am banned from posting even though I never used bad language. If I PM admin they never reply. Why are they scared to lift the moderation ?
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waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh! i just wanted to start this topic again...so we can see for ourselves what it means to judge others and also to judge our own selves. we sometimes are soo cruel to not just others but to the self as well. it can be very dangerous to do that. lets put our thoughts here, learn from each other, what it means to be judgmental, is it important? is it necessary sometimes? how does it affect us, u me and people living around us, in living a proper life(life to the fullest)? if u can think about more questions...post thm. posting real life situations where judging someone or urself has helped or damaged u would be great.=) and ho…
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hey basically i neva knew i would get ill or any think but they diagnosed me with multiple sclerosis which is rare for asians as we come from near the equator n u cant get ther but u can get here as 90,000 people have dis problem, bout 2 years ago i was in hospital like every other week as my legs would stop working n my arms would mess up n my eye sight was like trash, but wen i was in hospital i prayed deep for sikhi and have seen the power sikhi holds for us sikhi is great!!
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eazy geeza's can someone do us a favour and give me linx to download Gurbanee Santh'eh'yaa by Bhaee Gursharan/Gurcharan Singh Jee London Vah'leh...they do Gurbanee Santh'eh'yaa on Amrith Baanee radio but i cnt find any downloadbale ons on the net so help a Bhenj jeh? I bid thee farewell toodles chums xmuwahx
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Lies Breaking Up My Relationship With Family Member
by Guest Need_Advice- 7 replies
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What would you do if someone in your family (e.g. brother in law or sister in law) was lying about you to someone in your family (e.g. your sister or your brother) and your sister/brother believed the lie to be true? This is my situation and it has destroyed my relationship with my immediate family member. We do not speak and act like strangers. That person now does not trust me and thinks of me badly. It is making me so sepressed that I am starting to fall into a state of mind where I am starting to blame myself. I have no support from other members of my family, they all get along with the 'liar' fine in order to avoid any further conflict. The liar will never admit t…
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Ouch!
by Guest ouch!!! :(- 7 replies
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vjkk vjkf! sangat jeee please please help me! i have started tying a dastar :nihungsmile: but oh my god!!! wen i dont wear it, my hair killllllsssssssssssss my head actually feels as if its bruised .. is this normal?? loll..... is it because my kes sint used to having a joora?? orr... perhaps its too tight? plzz leave some comments and soloutions! thanks vjkk vjkf! :TH:
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Choota Sauda
by Guest jagga jatt- 0 replies
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choota sauda
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Destroy
by Guest _learner_- 7 replies
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how can taboo filled thoughts be destroyed from the mind?
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Whaeguru Ji Ki Fateh I tried searching this topic but since I am not a member it never let my search go throw. Also I tried recovering my lost password with no luck on this site so mods please let this question go throw as I will join into the discussion if I get any replies. Anyway I wanted to ask the question that Muslim’s say that Mohammed was the last prophet of God so what does that make our Guru's? Also they say the Quran is the last revelation of God so what does that make our Guru Granth Sahib Ji? Genuine question no offensive intended. If this has been discussed before you can just give me the link to the discussion. Waheguru Ji Ka Khals…
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1. What is the difference between ad granth and dasem granth? 2. Why is ad granth in gurdwara's when dasem granth is not? 3. Is ad granth our guru only? If so what is dasem granth..
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2pm - 4pm PANJAB RADIO
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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Khalsa Jee Did N E 1 wach Panjab Radio 2day on the panjibian dhi gal baat show fing? OMG a aunty rinsed Manjit out propa. Woz quite funny, but true tho. N E 1 record the beginning?
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Amritdhari's And Xmas Trees
by Guest Singh of the Guru- 9 replies
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Gurfateh! I recently had a conversation with an Amritdhari Singh who said he was putting up his Christmas tree. What does the Sangat think of this - personally I think its wrong and hypocritical. I don't think Amritdhari's should be doing these kind of things. Could more learned Gursikhs give their opinions please. Thank you Gurfateh!
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa WaheGuru Ji Ki Fateh There is one thing that had came to my mind while sitting in front of Shri Guru Granth Sahib G ..... Please Suggest me with Gurmat Maryada (According to Rehat Maryada). That during a Pujabi Sikh Wedding Scenario both the couple have to sit in Front of Shri Guru Granth Sahib G ... The dress sense of a women is fine she can either wear either lehnga or sm punjabi traditional suit .. But a a sikh (man guy) has to wear a Kalgi at that time its just the same as 10th Guru Ji use to tie in his turban/dastaar sahib. But we ppl are nothing in comparison to that to wear those sort of stuff.......!!! I dont know why this thing has c…
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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back then was waaaay different. ppl didn’t attend higher education or have much to do after the age of like… 13, lol. you’d have 13 year olds boys and girls that know how to do kethi, cook entire meals, etc nowadays even 22 year olds are extremely immature and can be sheltered. the average person doesn’t know how to do anything except their 9-5 which they are probably half arsing as well.
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