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Not Having Boyfriends/girlfriends? 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 28 replies
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Sangat Ji, I no dis ayn probably right important at the moment but I wanted to know the views of is it wrong not having boyfriends. I've never had one, I was always thirsty for Guru Ji's name and this one girl, I dont even know her. She came up to me and we got talking she asked me if i ever had a boyfriend and I told her I havent even had a guy mate, is that wrong? Because she had started to laugh at me and say I'm a boring person. (This girls Sikh herself with an Amrit Dhari background, as in her parents n grandparents etc... But she also tells everyone she wants to become Amrit Dhari.) She made me look like a fool for a few minutes as if I havent got a life. Now I don…
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I just want a veiw from both side i mean guyz asking for gurl which is <admin-profanity filter activated> but they themselves have done them many time but still want a pure girl In My Veiws i pray to god that in your eyes what i am (either i have done it or not) plz gave my life partner on that basis only)I mean If i am <admin-profanity filter activated> then i should get <admin-profanity filter activated> gurl & vice-versa I also want gurl veiws on this that do u want <admin-profanity filter activated> boys ? Bec. we alwayz talk about girls But while doing that thing we both looses it right ? modertator comment : Please check out the follo…
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What Do I Do?
by Guest manmukh- 2 replies
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vaheguroo ji ka khalsa vaheguroo ji ki fateh saadh sangat jeeo, when I took amrit, I was told to wash my hair daily, atleast with water everyday if not shampoo…I want to know, should one wait for the kes to dry, or just rub them hard enough and tie keski over them even if they are mildly wet? Also I m not able to keep rehit properly, like amritvela, nitnem, naam simran, bibek, etc. and also I m always under attack by kaam and krodh… I also tie my beard at certain times…I intend to re-take amrit in future and follow it in a much better way when I m financially independent…I know I should be regular and strict in amritvela, and also I am not able to keep proper bibek as o…
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How Do You Decide Who To Marry And When And If You
by Guest getting married...?- 4 replies
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Hi peeps, I'm in a tough situation. For nearly a year now I have decided that I don't think marriage is really for me...I think I'd be much happier on my own, and besides, I'll be making enough money after college to live well without anyone elses's financial support. I've grown up in a house environment where not a week goes by when I dont' argue and fight with someone over the stupidest things ever, and it's not even my fault I think, its the other family members who love to argue and get me <Edited> off...(what a way to seek pleasure!)...so I dont' see how I will get along with a complete stranger and his family if I can't get along well with my own family. so…
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Left Speechless!
by Guest random person- 4 replies
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Vaheguroo Ji Ka Khalsa! Vaheguroo Ji Ki Fateh! I was listening to some katha this morning on "visaho daan" as in the 7 daan mentioned in the ardaas: "sikhi daan, kes daan, rehat daan, bibek daan, visaho daan, bharosa daan, daana sir daan naam daan." Visaho daan is unfaltering faith in the greatness of our Guroo Ji. The kathavaachik gave examples of Sikhs in the past who had such faith, for example, Bhai Joga Ji when he realised that Guroo Gobind Singh Ji was all-knowing and had protected him during the night from commiting any sins due to the vice of kaam. This made me wonder, what sort of things have happened to people today that increases the amount of "visaho daan"…
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Is an amrit dhari Sikh allowed to swear? 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 22 replies
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Is a amrit dhari sikh allowed to swear or not? And what if they do?
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"rakhriya" In Sikhi
by Guest Question Singh- 9 replies
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Could some1 explain whether Sikhs should tie "Rakhriya" - when the sisters tie them on the brothers or is this a Hindu tradition? Some ppl say that Guru Nanak Dev Ji's sister Bibi Nanaki used to tie a Rakhri on Guru Nanak Dev Ji, is this true?? Also, after the "miya" at a wedding, many sikh families tie these red strings on every1's wrists there - whats that about - is it real sikh wedding tradition or another Hindu one mixed into Sikh weddings?? What are the Sikh views on these traditions and what facts r there to back up ur views? thanks wjkk wjkf
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When Is It The Right Time To Fight Back?if Ever
by Guest proud_to_be_singhni- 7 replies
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vjkkvjkf sangat ji, seems like smpleenuf question but truly speaking when is it the right time to fight back? lets say sumon eis realy pissing you off, taunting whatever, wen do u talk back and if they then try and fight you wat do you do, do you get ur kirpan out!!, like how can u defend without causing more harm - wat khalsa needs todo? do u start ur gatka style moves? or od u walk away? krodh wen is it not krodh?wen is it acceptable in guru ji's eyes!
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I Neet Some Advice Plz Sangat Ji
by Guest _gupt_- 4 replies
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vaheguru ji ka khalsa vaheguru ji ki fateh !! im writin this on behalf on a reeli good mate of mine............ well, firstly, ma mate, she is gettin engaged very soon, thing is her parents are very traditonal and so its an arranged marriage wer she wnt get to speak to the guy, she is rely worried because she is reeeli into her sikhi and well this family dnt seem into it as much, she cnt say no she has to go along with the marriage.....also on top of the ma mate got this illnes were she gta take a pill everyday, now her parents dnt wna tell her inlaws.........she jus worried wts gna happend wen it evetually does come out about the illness..... on a separate issue her…
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Vaheguroo ji ka khalsa vaheguroo jiki fateh sangat ji i was wounderin... about taking amrit without parents knowing? what do people think of it? as my parents are stopping me .. but im thinking how can somebody stop you from the path of god? and i want to give my heard to guru ji !1 do you tthink i should as k 1 more time, and if they say no .. i should just go for it? AS I AM READY VAHEGUROOO JI KA KHALSA VAHEGUROO JIKI FATEH
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Present For Sister...?!?!?! 1 2
by Guest f00l- 13 replies
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im having some trouble on what to by my amritdhari sister for her birthday, so i thought hopefully you guys can give me some ideas pleaseeee!! :TH: thanks! (and ive already thought of the basics...teddies etc but wana get something nice!)
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Panj Pyarai
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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How are the panj pyarai chosen for an amrit sanchaar? Is it the sangat that chooses or do 5 singhs volunteer or what? Mod comment : Please make sure topics that dont require the user to be anonymous are posting in the main forum using a regular Id, this forum is only for topics that a user may feel uncomfertable discussing with regular ID. All future topics in this section will be locked if they dont require the user to be anonymous. Therefore we request that if you wish to discuss this topic further, post using a normal ID
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Pics
by Guest guest- 4 replies
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does anyone knoe where i can find some really good pics of the 1984 massacres for a project.
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What Is Naam?
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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What is Naam? Mod comment : Please make sure topics that dont require the user to be anonymous are posting in the main forum using a regular Id, this forum is only for topics that a user may feel uncomfertable discussing with regular ID. All future topics in this section will be locked if they dont require the user to be anonymous. Therefore we request that if you wish to discuss this topic further, post using a normal ID
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Site With Good Info On 1984 Riots Report
by Guest Guest- 0 replies
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http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/jaskaran/news...epartments/1984 Please check this site out thanx
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https://www.youtube.com/@TheWonderous1Channel I found this new channel on YouTube. Apparently they will be uploading a new video every week! Seems good, please subscribe and share with others. Thanks -
Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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