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Problems With Mother-in-law
by Guest _Preet_- 5 replies
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Hello, I am a having problems adjusting to family life with my mother-in-law. Have been married for 16 yrs and have 3 kids but still having problems with Her. anyone else experiencing problems. I just feel that I cannot be the person I am around her - feel intimidated by her. Also, feel guilty for feeling like this but just don't feel comfortable around her, mainly because of problems we had when we were first married. Would love to hear form anyone out there with similar difficulties Love Preet
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Anyone got their A level results? How did you lot do? With Vaheguru Ji's Kirpa I've passed and can go on2 Uni.....YAY ! Thankyou Vaheguru Ji so much !
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Oily Skin
by Guest Guest- 6 replies
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I naturally have really oily skin, which is a major cause of blackheads (dead skin cells and oil) for me. I've noticed that sometimes when you remove a blackhead, because it is in a pore, if you look close enough a small hair comes out with the blackhead. Does this count as removing hair? Is the hair in that pore considered dead? Can this be considered a bujjar kurehit? I know this may sound like a silly question, but my conscience has been nagging me to find out. It is not my intention to remove the hair, and I feel really bad when I see that one has come out with the plug of oil. The only time I remove a blackhead is when it begins to stick out. I know many will tell …
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Truth..?
by Guest HIDDEN SINGH OF KHALSA- 2 replies
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http://www.sikhsangat.com/index.php?showtopic=13168 When something is good to ask and is in favor of SIKHi, Some people think thats bad they try to stop that task or thing as it now usual.
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Hukamnaama
by Guest Im in Love- 6 replies
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VJKK! VJKF!! I have recently been blessed with Amrit and ever since then, I feel that my communications with dear Vaheguru usually occurs through Hukamnaama(ofcourse he talks to us 24 7). All my answers are gotten from there and I feel sooooooooooooo happy. :wub: whats your experiences with Hukam from Guru jee? VJKK! VJKF!!
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Why We Call Akj?
by Guest Sikhi_Is_Lost_By_Us- 0 replies
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Why we say it Akhand Kirtani Jatha? Any Main Reasons? Why We Needed to Divide our Sikhi In One More Jatha Bandi as it was divided already? LETS GET TOGETHER AND BE ONE AND ONLY A SIKH, ONLy A SIKH......
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Feeling Guilty
by Guest Guest- 5 replies
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WAHEGURU JI KA KHALSA, WAHEGURU JI KI FATEH GURU PYAREE SANGAT JI SINCE TAKING AMRIT I HAVE FELT NOTHING BUT GUILTY BECAUSE I DO NOT FOLLOW THE REHAT AS A KHALSA SHOULD. I FEEL AS THOUGH I AM CHEATING MY GURU AND THAT REALLY GETS ME DOWN. I MISS NITNEM AT TIMES, HARDLY DO ANY SEWA / SIMRAN. WHEN I READ GURBANI / SHABADS IT REALLY HITS ME HARD BECAUSE I FIND IT ALWAYS RELATES TO ME. I LOVE GURU JI BUT MY CONSTANT DUBIDA OVERTAKES ME. EVEN WHILST READING GURBANI OR AT THE GURDWARA I HAVE KAAMI THOUGHTS AND FIND MY INNER SELF ENGAGING IN SLANDER. HOW MUCH BEADBI IS THAT. I GET JEALOUS WITH OTHERS AND THEN GET ANGRY WITH MYSELF THAT I AM SO WEAK. I FEEL FALSE AND TO EVERY…
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Laser
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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duz any1 no if laser surgery works 2 remove facial hair?
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Somone You Love Very Dearly?
by Guest Guest- 7 replies
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vgjkk vgjkf! sangeat jio, i was jus wondering is there someone in ur life that u love so dearly, to ur heart.. that u wud do anythin for em?!
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Man Married 4 Times 1 2
by Guest Ajeet Singh- 10 replies
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I know a family friend Uncle who's an Amrit Dhari but has been married more than once . He's been married 3 times before and all his wives are still alive wih children. His current wife now also has about 4 children. When he was confronted that why has he done such a thing, he replied back so what? Guru Gobind Singh Ji also had 5 wives. I personaly didnt accept this because he was comparing himself with Guru Ji and secondly Guru Ji only had 1 but the names of Mata Ji were different. What should I say to him as I want to explain this to him but dont know how to. Please help me Sangat Ji with some advice.
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Gurdwara Sahibs Named After Castes
by Guest Fateh Kaur- 8 replies
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Sangat Ji,I'm sure you'll agree with me that there are alot of Guru Ghars that have been named with castes aswell. During these holidays I went up to Peterborough and I was introduced to a Sikh family having been amrit dhari they still were talking about Castes. When I heard the Bibi say Have you been to the Chumaaran Dha Gurdwara? I was proper shocked so I said to her that why you saying that for. A Guru Ghar dont belong to anyone, any Sangat iz welcum you cant just place a stamp on it and say that belongs 2 sum one. And she gave me a whole mouthful and said I tlk like a granny for my age. I dont care what the Bibi had said to me because I said the truth but what gets …
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Rakei
by Guest jay- 1 reply
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I dont want no rakei tomarrow i dont have no sisters but I do have cusin sisters who I dont see all year even though they live locally and only during this time of year they all come around tie a crappy rakei around my wrist and gimme some nastee barfee and expect to make some money from our family. Any idea's how I can get out of it?
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How Do I Get Rid Of Grey Hairs?
by Guest Guest- 9 replies
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Im in my early 20s and been getting a few grey hairs here n there since my late teens, and im thinking of dying them or pulling em out. Is there any natual way to get rid of grey hair?
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Kirtan (rehan Sabaaee) - Dallas
by Guest Me- 4 replies
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Would you by any chance know of any in Dallas. Thank you very much. SSA.
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Can You Help Me Find The Rest Of This Quote
by Guest need info- 1 reply
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WJKK WJKF khalsa jee's i am lookg for the rest of this quote can u please help me out if you know it the quote starts with 'physical death i do not fear.........'' i dont know the rest of it i think it was said by sant jarnail singh ji khalsa bhindran wale please help me out WJKK WJKF
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Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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