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Suits Vs Pants
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa! Vaheguru ji ki Fateh! people tend to give you their view of how you should dress up wearing suits 24-7 if you are Amrit Dhari. I know Baanaa is the best when it comes to the code of dressing. But whats wrong in wearing pants (if they are decent ofcourse) ? also, yo dastaar should be this, ohh you are embarassing us by looking like a guy wearing a dastaar.... HOW DO UYOU REACT TO SUCH USELESS COMENTS? keep quiet n walk away or talk back?
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Other Options Other Than Meat
by Guest Pavanjyot Kaur- 5 replies
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Sangat recently i have just known that I'm lacking red blood cells. The docz advised me to eat meat. But I dont want 2. What other foods bust up red blood cells? HELP PLEASE !
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Tapoban
by Guest Guest- 3 replies
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Alcohol On Side
by Guest Guest- 9 replies
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ITS RECENTLY BEEN BOUGHT 2 MY ATTENTION THAT MY MASSAR MIGHT BE CONSUMING ALCOHOL HE IS AMRITDHARI HE HAD A DRINKING PROBLEM IN THE PAST HE WAS CAUGHT BUYING BEER CANS IN A SHOP BY MY OTHER COUSIN ALSO EMPTY BEER CANS WERE FOUND UNDER HIS BED BY HIS SON ALSO IT HAS BEEN NOTED THAT YOU CAN SMELL IT ON HIM I DONT KNOW HOW I SHOULD CONFRONT HIM IM AMRITDHARI AND IT MAKES ME SO SAD AND ANGRY THAT SOMEONE IN MY FAMILY CAN DO BEADBI LIKE THIS OF MY FATHER AND HIS PRECIOUS GIFT OF AMRIT ALSO I DONT HAV EVIDENCE MYSELF IM JUST GOING BY WHAT I HAVE BEEN TOLD I DON'T CARE IF IT CAUSES AGGRO BETWEEN OUR FAMILIES BECAUSE DISRESPECT OF MY KHALSA FAMILY MEANS SO MUCH MORE …
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British Airways 1 2
by Guest _Harpreet_- 13 replies
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Sangat Ji I was watching the news yesterday and the day before and whats all this business about the Sikhs geting angry at Gate Gourmet (A singh even stuk a finger up :wub: ) and the BA Heathrow dispute? I fail to understand how the sikhs are involved as it showed the MP or someone entering Southall Singh Sabha Gurdwara Sahib.
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Death. How Did U Deal With It?
by Guest confused- 7 replies
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how did u guys deal with loosing close loved ones???? did it bring u closer to god or not??? im probably guessing most replys are going to be sayin do as much simran and read bani etc but i mean the other stuff....at home with family,school/colege/work,friends etc etc etc
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Hunkaar Vs Sikhi
by Guest Guest- 4 replies
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How do u distinguish between hunkaar and sikhi? For example, i was recently in conflict with a member of my family where I said that as per sikhi, we should be trying to go to gurdwara as often as possible and they told me that as gursikhs, we have to perfect in everything (not just spiritually), so if i was not the best at studies or at work, then I wasnt a gursikh! When I tried to explain my point of view, I got told that I was displaying hunkaar and that because they were older than me, they were definately correct!! I have had other conflicts with this person and because from my understanding of sikhi, their point of view doesn't seem to be in line with my understand…
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Dont Know What To Do
by Guest sikh_person- 8 replies
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sangat ji as we know rakhri is a manmat thing, and i agree so thats why im not gonna where one. my parents and sister are fine with it, and agree. however my grandmum and other family are gonna be angry with me for not doin it, the same thing happened last year. sangat ji please help me,i dont know what to say, because they wont understand me.
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Chipped Lips 1 2
by Guest Guest- 15 replies
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I know this sounds really stupid but I wanted to know that if you have chipped lips and are usualy dry and tend to rip is using nivea moituriser lip care ok? Its not like lip gloss or makeup or anything it's just mainly a moisturiser for the lips bit like lip balm? Is that ok or does that categorise as Make up and changing appearance?
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About Tell Me About Rss
by Guest manmeet singh- 3 replies
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PLease any body tell me that how the harmful RSS for sikhi in india?
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Mum's Making Life Hell
by Guest Amar Singh- 6 replies
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I donno why but my mum seems to want to make my life hell and wants me out the house she even says that openly....... i'm at the age where they are starting to talk about marriage... and before I do get married I need a good job and a place of my own, which I dont have. I see friends and cousins doing great and settling down but I don't see future. I feel like crap and mum doesnt understand she just keeps hurting me mentally saying im not trying hard enuff looking for a job even though I am she doesnt care. I wish I could just have my own place somewhere right now away from the grief im getting at home..... but I dont .... Anyone feel the same? any advice? Is there…
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Help Me Please 1 2 3
by Guest _Singhnee_- 27 replies
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VJKK, VJKF Sangat Jee I'm stuck in a massive Dillema. I don't know what to do. My parents want me to get married but abroad mainly because they think there are not enough Amrit Dhari's in UK. I'm an Amrit Dhari myself aswell. This guy from India they chose come down to see me, but I didn't like him as he doesn't even have general knowledge. I'm studying pharmacy and all he wants to do is plumbing. However I also know another Amrit Dhari guy, we only chat at the moment but I kind of like him, and I he likes me too. (Havent done anything wrong). But I'm scared of my parents that they'll get upset if I dont go ahead with the one from India because they seemed to like …
Last reply by Balwinder Kaur, -
Please Help Me 1 2 3
by Guest Guest- 21 replies
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i have a really bad situation i basically dont know what to do anymore, and expecially if your a girl .. im in a relationship with a guy, we both are into sikhi, we love each other very much and want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. the only problem is our parents. they both are into caste but i think his parents will agree, my parents will NEVER ever agree on this. i dont know what to do anymore! along the way we made many bad mistakes we shouldnt have and took that extra step away from sikhi which we both know was wrong, and we are ready to go for peshi, but as of now our parents dont know, and i dont want to bring them down further in this. They h…
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Sadness
by Guest feeling so down- 6 replies
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vjkkvjkf sangat jee. recently, i have been feeling very upset, extremely lonely and VERY sad. i cry alot most times....most times i use up 1 tissue box within the span of one night just crying crying crying...i can't stop these tears from clouding my eyes all the time...i try to hold them back but eventually i break down and cry. after each round of crying, i feel so guilty because as a sikh, even when faced with horrible tortures, our guruji, shaheedi singhs and singhnees never relented, much less cry like a weakling like i do most times. i feel none understand my pain and loneliness. i try to do paath but i find myself being so disillusioned. i'm at my wits end...total…
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Affair
by Guest no name- 7 replies
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ok basically my cusin bro is marired with kids (i hope im not doin nindyia :wub: ) and he aint happy in his marriage he is frm india n like his wife is nice enuff i guess n he is havin an affair with my friends sister! she isnt married, divorced i think but i duno what to do like we hav told my cusin umpteen times to get out of it but he dont listen he jst sees her when and how he pleases he aint amritdhari btw jst typical "punjabi sikh" do i tell my friend? what if my friend finds out and then he finds out i knew all along? tho he dont know my cusin at all and i dont knw his sister like i sed hello to her once i think aint ever spoken 2 her keep tellin me cus…
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By ipledgeblue · Posted
lol dal panth Panj told me explicitly not to associate with Vadhbhag Singh Sodhi followers!
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