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The Best Type Of Seva 1 2
by Guest guest in this world- 12 replies
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I once heard someone say the best type of seva is simran. Do you believe this is true? If not, what do you think the best types of seva are for the Panth
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Dasam Bani 1 2
by Guest na taate na maate na jaate na pa- 11 replies
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Well here is my gupt problem. Very often when I read dasam bani like akal ustat I get really really edgy and just feel like punching something or releasing my energy somehow. Im not talking about chandi di // Im saying normal dasam bani like akaal ustat. I have been told that even if you read jaap sahib 5 times a day you will notice increased levels of bir rus because all Dasam Bani can have this very powerful effect. Why do I get so edgy though, sometimes I get goosebumps too and get a tiny bit shaky, or internally I feel like reading it all again and again, like this endless burning pyaas that will only be fulfilled by Guru Gobind Singh jis bani. Sometimes I get hot, …
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I Like This Girls, But... 1 2 3
by Guest _Gupt Singh_- 27 replies
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Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Wahe guru Ji Ki Fateh Sadh Sangat Ji, There is a girl that I like and I see her whenever we have SSA meeting. She is very very nice, does Paath, keertan, and is very very strong in Sikhi. I think she took Amrit when she was young and Guru Sahib blessed me with this daat about year and hafl ago. We sometimes call each other when we need somthing for the meeting, no personal talk or anything like that though. But the problem is whenver we talk, she refers me as "veerji" te mera sara mood off kar dindi aa. I don't look at her in a bad way. I respect her simplicity, calmness, and everything. I want to marry her, but I am afraid of telling her that I…
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WJKKWJKF Sangat ji i wud like to know if any of ur families have been affected by alcohol how did u deal with it because my families tearing apart because of it WJKKWJKF
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Parents- we all know how undermining they can be not to mention some things too embarrasing toask them about :wub: Giani ji's - tend to be too blunt or will talk about something completely different then what you cam to them for, and 100 percant of time will talk in panjabi! Your bros or sisters - reliable source but sometimes you need to ask things that even they caould not be asked Youth/sangat/without going to them/at anytime - now that seems comfortable, free, easy and for some people if htey require a gupt place to share their problems, seek help of any questions :wub: :wub: So for the paajis or penjis that take mick out of sum pples questions, read above fi…
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Help! What Shall I Do
by Guest _sharonjit_- 6 replies
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WJKK WJKF I don't know where to start. I shall try and start from the beginning and keep it brief. I am 25 years old.My family is amritdhari and I have been blessed to be born into a gursikh family But lately or should i say this past year i have gone so far far away from sikhi. Let me try to explain ever since i was little i was brought up to live a gursikh life. Always doing kirten and paht etc but all that has changed. Once upon a time i could not wait to to got to the gurdwara and see Guru Ji but now i struggle to go to the gurdwara, i can't or should it be won't go??When i do my nitnem in the morning and if i do get as far as sitting there with my gutka i don't get…
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Do you have to sleep with your kirpan? When is it ok to take of the kirpan? just wondering bout u Sikhs who have taken Amrit
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Person U Like? 1 2
by Guest someone that needs advice...- 19 replies
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vjkk vjkf! I have a question say u like a person but the problem is their white... and if ur amrithdari can u still go out with them or even go as far as marrying them?
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Turban
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WJKK WJKF I am having some trouble with my turban, is it possible to wear a dastaar for 24 hours and without your ears or head hurting??? Because I am havnig problems with my ears when putting the turban on for over a day. Can the sangat suggest me any tips or style of turban to tie? WJKK WJKF
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Why?
by Guest Sad_man- 8 replies
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Hello,, satsriakal, i found this forum looking for sikh things on google. Im very happy to see somethign like this for young sikhs. Let me explain abit about me, I am alot younger than most members here. I have loved sikhi from a young age , i keep kesh and i love reading many books to learn as much as i can. I really love our heritage. Now my problem: Im generally very quite at my school i have only a few friends, but im happy with that because i dont want to keep bad sangat. I would love to be in company of gursikhs, thats why i go to many sikh youth groups and camps etc. but nones ever really taken any notice of me. I try to be as friendly as possibe,i don…
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Relationship
by Guest need advice- 7 replies
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So im thinkin I need to get outta this relationship im in, im with this girl, we r both amritdhari but I feel ma sikhi is beginning 2 slack behind, im not feelin as energetic and positive, dnt get me wrong I mean we aint done nothing wrong in terms of physical stuff, hell we aint even held hands or owt but its really drainin me just emotionally, I regret now not thinking bout it and just jumpin in head on so how do I tell her witout it breakin her? I mean we talked bout marriage and we wer both in it 4 the long haul but im jst not feelin it now, im bak at uni doing my final year and I need to concentrate and I wana bring ma sikhi bak up on form, past few months I bin feel…
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Mosque Names After Sri Guru Hargobind Jee
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is dis true..dat ther is a mosque named after our 6th king of kings..guru hargobind jee mahraj..in punjab?
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this may sound stupid, but here it goes.... some people i have met in my life are one day keen to take amrit, i have no idea when as i am not them. but one of the reasons why they are not willing to take this step is either because they have a huge bush growing between their eyebrows or they have really horrible nose hairs, or some other reason in which in early life kids decided to tease and kinda bully them for it. because of the fact they were dissed when they were younger (say like 11), this has psycologically damaged them. because of having hair they wish they never had, (and they are now 19-20). they were wondering if they could get the panj piares permission to re…
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Amrit Sanchar In The Nj/ny Area November/december?
by Guest Some Idiot- 6 replies
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Anyone know of any Amrit Sanchars occuring November or December in the New York/New Jersey area? Gotta find out for someone.
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Attachment?
by Guest Me- 2 replies
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Vaaheguroo Ji Ka Khaalsaa Vaaheguroo Ji Ki Faateh Sangat Ji, I need help! I got this huge problem with attachment, where, everytime, I start speaking to someone I get attached....and when they go or leave, I get very upset and depressed . I know, I shouldnt get attached to this extent, but its what I do and everytime I promise myself I will not, it happens. I really hate this feeling, and was wondering if there was anything I could do to stop it happening in the future, short of turning my heart into stone . Vaaheguroo Ji Ka Khaalsaa Vaaheguroo Ji Ki Faateh
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https://www.youtube.com/@TheWonderous1Channel I found this new channel on YouTube. Apparently they will be uploading a new video every week! Seems good, please subscribe and share with others. Thanks -
Leaving aside Guru ji, the general question of taking afeem (opium) in limited quantities for war/medical wounds is simply unproblematic. When you go to the hospital, they give you morphine. What do you think morphine is? It's an opiate. Even codeine (cough syrup) is an opiate! Ever had a cough? Granted, it is against Gurmat to take opium or other drugs for the fun of it. -
Yeah, that's one possibility. Another I initially thought is that it's a Muslim trying to gather info. But then, you might ask, how does he know about Sikh textual sources. Well, you'd be surprised at their resourcefulness. A final possibility is he's a weak Sikh who was asked a question by a non-Sikh and now he's suddenly feverishly wondering where it's "written" that you can't marry a young child. To the latter, I would say, you're looking in the wrong spot. Gurbani isn't a 1428 page rulebook, like Leviticus or the Vedas: ਸਿਮ੍ਰਿਤਿ ਸਾਸਤ੍ਰ ਪੁੰਨ ਪਾਪ ਬੀਚਾਰਦੇ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ਗੁਰੂ ਬਾਝਹੁ ਤਤੈ ਸਾਰ ਨ ਜਾਣੀ ॥ The Simritis and Shastras discriminate between charity and sin, but know not the essence of the Real Thing. Without the Guru, they know not the essence of the Reality, know not the essence of the Reality. Anand Sahib.
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