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Veer Ji, please be careful about this Colombian woman. I know we all want to believe it when someone suggests they take a liking to us. But she is surely primarily (if not entirely) interested in you because you live in a more prosperous country. It hurts to admit it, but that is almost surely the case.

If you are open to girls from the developing world, why not just consider a girl from India? Anyway, I agree with you about the ridiculous standards people have in online dating. However, you should have just put down that you are 5'10': - 90% of other guys exaggerate their height, so it's still relatively accurate - All the stupid 5'0" girls who demand a tall guy would not be able to notice the difference anyway

This has probably come up before, but just wanted to share my experience. So I have been widowed for four years now again through and still going through the loss of my wife I decided to start looking to potentially get married again, so I signed up to shadi, asaind8, asainsinglesolution and seeking. I'm not the the tallest guy in the world just below 5"7, but athletic, average looking, have a good job etc , but blimey the boxes you have to tick for even getting someone to talk to you is absurd even if the lass is in her 40s and has kids. They all want a fair skinned, non turban, 6 foot who earns over 100k when did we turn into kalay, I have been watching Kevin Samuel and all the stuff he says about women thinking they are going to get Prince charming and will go from piller to bed post to attain is spot on. Ohh well hop aboard the passport bro train, I've met a Colombian women who is amazing and she looks like a apni.

True but same in Punjab, just got to take a risk, see what hukaam is about right?

He wants a hot s3xy latina

I find this a bit hard to believe. - I concede that they prefer men who are not Singhs - I concede that they prefer fair skinned. But most Punjabis who sellf-identify as fair skinned are delusional and not very fair skinned. Unless you are abnormally dark, I doubt this is an issue. - Sure, they want a guy who is well off. But by virtue of living in the west, you are already very well off from the perspective of a Punjabi girl, even if you don’t make anything close to 6 figures. - Sure, they want tall men. But have you seen how short Punjabis are on average? And have you seen how prone they are to exaggerating their heights? Just say you are 5’10” or 6’0” or whatever. It won’t matter, since you are certainly taller than their midget celebrities.

Everything I said in my 1st post also applies to Indian ladies in Punjab.

That might be the case, but they have not been indoctrinated from birth, if they change it will be slightly and due to acclimatising to their new surroundings.

Because they are the same as UK girls, they have been bamboozled with Bollywood

Goras have started to give up processed foods, refined oils, refined grains, fast food, preservatives, seed oils like palm and canola, and so on. Punjabis are stupid, so first they have to go through that stage, and only later will they notice that goras have given that stuff up. So now, Punjabis are going through the Yisu Masih phase. All the missionaries have to do is write a single line such as "ਰੱਬ ਨੇ ਆਪਣਾ ਇਕਲੌਤਾ ਪੁੱਤਰ ਕੁਰਬਾਨ ਕੀਤਾ ਤਾਂ ਜੋ ਹਰ ਕੋਈ ਜੋ ਉਹਦੇ ਤੇ ਯਕੀਨ ਕਰੇ, ਸਦੀਵੀ ਜੀਵਨ ਜੀ ਸਕੇ" (For God gave his only begotten Son so that anyone who believes in him could live an everlasting life.) And Punjabis are so dumb, they'll just believe that and not bother to read the rest of the missionary's Bible, even though it's printed in Punjabi!

Gurbani is very clear regarding this question when it says: SAAS SAAS SIMROH GOVIND There is no any before or after this or that as such thing, Simran is the foremost expression of love and devotion to Guru Jee and Waheguru at all times, it is our only link with the Lord, all other things are surplus. When we shall leave this world, it is only the wealth of Simran of His Name gathered, that which will count up there, nothing more, nothing less.

Congrats Sewadar Sahib. You have done a "punya karam" though a bit late, by keeping away such a trash of narcissistic person, a rascal full of pride and arrogance, bullying all here and there, not sparing even his "chamchaas". This bit of cleaning was necessary, on such a wonderful site as the one of Sikhsangat. Thank you really.

My wife and Ma were forced into Amritdhari jeevan. Ma had gave it up my wife's in n out. Some fools bewkoof moorkhs think it's ok to enforce Amrit on others. DISCLAIMER: I know this is talking about Sikhism and not necessarily Amrit.

This is very interesting, would love to read more

So Guru Ji accepted the hukam that Baba Banda Singh was going to be a "genocidal maniac." Where's the problem?