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I have a question say u like a person but the problem is their white... and if ur amrithdari can u still go out with them or even go as far as marrying them?

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Nnooo ji not a good idea

If you feel 'feelings' towards a nonsikh person and especially if you're still young, it's best to just remain good friends with them and maybe eventually start seeing them as a brother or sister that has God in them

Usually at a young age we'll feel a pull to anyone, even if they r not the same religion, but a lot of times it's just attraction (physical usually) or some other type of materialistic connection, but it's not real Amrit to Amrit bond between Guru Gobind Singh jis children, that can truly last and create a strong force on its way to union with Akaaaal

(Hope that makes sense)

It's not about colour, its about religion, if u have taken Amrit then you should find a match that follows the same discipline as you or it might make you weaker in your discipline (rehit) and might make u feel confused about sikhi

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Vaheguru ji ka khalsa Vaheguru ji ki fathe

Veer ji you must control your mind , it is proper manmat that you feel this way, you are NOT allowed to date that is totaly against Gurmat. If you want to marry her then she must take amrit. Singh try keeping pukka amritvela and increase the number of bani's you do for nitnem slowly your mind will change and you will realise how much of a waste of life all this boyfriend /girlfriend crap is. If you want LOVE, then love your Guru that rue love , all other love is false. The disease of Kaam effects all it can only be cured throguh naam and bani, as an amritdhari you are an ambassadaor of SIkhi/Guru Gobind Singh, these actins are not those as perscribed or practiced by our Guru ji.

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Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh!

Soooo... i have a question for the sangat. I guess it goes with this thread, either way im gonna post it.

So i have liked this Singh for about a year and a half now, but i have never said anything to him about it because i dont want to reuin the friendship that we already have. We are both Amritdharee, but i just feel bad that i have these types of feelings towards him. I have tried doing simran and paath, and i have Begged Guru ji to help me forget about him, but i still have feelings for him. I have talked to a couple of friends about how i feel because they kno him aswell and some have said that they think " he likes me too" and others have just told me to " try and forget about him... because this is kaam"

soo sangat jio... what should i do???

Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh!

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