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OK, so I found a few guidelines on these issues for those who are in doubt, like myself. The question I'd like to ask is, in my professional manner, is it a sin for me to give to others contraception medication? :

http://allaboutsikhs.com/mansukh/124.htm

(For the one below, scroll down to find Sikhi...also interesting views on other religions)

http://www.fpa.org.uk/about/info/religion.htm

Finally there is this quote from the following website:

http://www.nsouk.co.uk/education_item.asp?EducationID=13

Marriage, sex, contraception, abortion, divorce, euthanasia

"Marriage is regarded very highly in the Sikh faith. All Sikh Gurus were married (except one who died at a very young age). Sikhs are taught that sex should be enjoyed within marriage and any acts before marriage or outside marriage is disapprove. It is up to the couple to decide to use contraception or the method of it, there is no religious reasons for or against it. Abortion is not encouraged, but is allowed in certain circumstances such as in case of a rape or the ill health of the mother. Marriage is a life long commitment and divorce is discouraged. Couples are encouraged to look to the needs of their partner. However, divorce is allowed if there is an irrevocable break down of marriage.

Euthanasia (mercy Killing) is not allowed. Sikhism teaches that life and death are in God’s hand, and human beings should not take it upon themselves to end life. However, in case of prolonging life by artificial means and putting a person through unnecessary suffering, the close relatives have the right to decide."

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Sorry for going slightly out of topic, but i found these quotes in Gurbani which sort of relate to the topic:

maath pithaa sa(n)jog oupaaeae rakath bi(n)dh mil pi(n)dd karae ||

Through the union of mother and father, the fetus is formed. The egg and sperm join together to make the body.

Page 1013 in Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji

jal kee bheeth pavan kaa thha(n)bhaa rakath bu(n)dh kaa gaaraa ||

The body is a wall of water, supported by the pillars of air; the egg and sperm are the mortar.

Page 659 in Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji.

paanee mailaa maattee goree ||

The water of the sperm is cloudy, and the egg of the ovary is crimson.

Page 336 of Siri Guru Granth Sahib Ji

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In My view

Sex is allowed number of times,its all up to you that how much time you want to do it ,If we see that we are men and a sikh and think that we should not do,then it may (or may not) hurt the feeling of ur wifeand i think that its nowere mention that it is not allowed or is allowed x number of times,but it is said that it should onluy be in the boundries of marriage and not outside marrige,and as per my view we shouuld also take care of the feelings of ourself and our wife,as per my view we are ordered to l;ive a family life which should include naam simran ,paath and remembering of., gods name,but this dosent mean that we should not have sex,life is just a Stage,its a play,everything is controlled by him,its true and every one will agree ,but we are here and to l;ead a family life so according to me Sex is allowed any number of times ,And Contraception is also allowed as if some one doesnt need a child then they can use it

Bhul Chukan di mafi

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Well, 14 is around the age when youths start to think about these kinds of things and ask these kinds of questions. Better to share information in this sort of sangat rather than with ones school peers, imho.

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well if sex isnt for pleasure, what is the purpose of a clitorus

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let me put in another way....TO ALL GUYS ON THIS FORUM: would you be okay if your little sister was talking about this sort of stuff? Would YOU feel comfortable if your 12 year old sister was talking about the quote above? Would your parents approve of young children reading about this sort of stuff?

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well if sex isnt for pleasure, what is the purpose of a clitorus

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let me put in another way....TO ALL GUYS ON THIS FORUM: would you be okay if your little sister was talking about this sort of stuff? Would YOU feel comfortable if your 12 year old sister was talking about the quote above? Would your parents approve of young children reading about this sort of stuff?

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My 12 year old nieces are very sensible and have sex education as part of the curiculumn in school.

Infact they are able to talk about such matters in a more mature manner then some of the KAAM obsessed people on this forum!!!

I would say do not dismiss such topics, so lng as they are not trivialised and lampooned and handled in a sensible maaner they can be discussed.

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Well, 14 is around the age when youths start to think about these kinds of things and ask these kinds of questions.  Better to share information in this sort of sangat rather than with ones school peers, imho.

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hey where are you goin kiddo? :)

... yeha as randip singh qouted above gr.5 and up.. they actually start teachin them this kind of stuff... ohmy.gif

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