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u've done all u can do for now... the rest is up to her...

'aapay beej, apay hee khaoo'... let her bear the consequences (whether they be good or bad) for her own actions...

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i used to be a goth

well i mean i used to dress like one - that's the only thing i liked haha

well for that reason i am not going to log in and reveal my identiy haha

mmmm anyways nothing to do with the thread yes i know

:lol:

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He is white...

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A rather odd comment that never needed to be mentioned in the first place.

Anyways, i think the best course of action would be too see if he could at least go to one visit at the local gurdwara. Have you actually presented or at least mention the sikhi religion to him?

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i can't believe singhnia's standards are sinking so low that they have to go out with guys to satisfy their ego. Singhnia usually go out with people from outside their own religion (not that going out with someone in your own religion is good) to feel like they fit into society, they believe that they look ‘different’ and by many westerners views ‘masculine’. Let’s face it most singhnia are self conscious and want to look beautiful hence the wearing fashionable tight clothing and going out with guys showing their femininity. Like myself before I wore a dastar I used to be a total tom boy wearing guys clothes sports clothes and I never got any reaction from people nor did I ever feel uncomfortable in what I wore thinking people might assume im a dude. So after I started wearing a dastar and continued with my tom boy look I got very negative responses from people like famliy members saying don't wear baggy clothes your going to look like a guy. Most comments were from my fellow Sikhs asking my parents if im their son.

Anyway where was i. I don’t think this particular situation is mere lust although lust exists, your friend has some inner issues she needs to deal with. this little bubble she's living in will soon pop and then she'll be brought back to earth to face her consequences. from the knowledge i have of goths is they like doing extreme things and being different and are anti-everything i think he's probably just going out wiht this singhni because he wants to a make statement. basically he's using her and this will never last so why bother even going out with him.

maybe your friend needs counselling, i do feel for her she seems like a confused child.The only thing you can do is show her how disgusted you are and treat her like she has a disease that usually works. im sorry i don't know where i was going with this post doesn't make sense

Btw I hope singhnia don’t start going on with the chavs who wear adidas bottoms and hoody’s with yellow teeth hanging around town with 1 gcse with nothing better to do.Seriously :lol:

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I hate goths, over here in Uk we have a problem with chavs and yobs

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Hate...You hate people just they are different from you and dress differently. You dont even know the boy and from you disgusting attitude, i doubt you have ever spoken to one. Goths are not bad people just coz they dont worship a god or don't have a faith. Stop being so ignorant, he won't hurt her just beacuse he does not worship god.

Can you imagine people saying, i hate sikhs...maybe just coz they wear turbans or look different to other folk?

Sometimes i wonder about people. i really really do..

But as for the girl, have a word with her. im sure she will listen but don't make out this boy is bad, just because you may perceive goths as bad people. they aren't half bad, in fact they are just kids with a dark sense of humour. They arent all bad.

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Kiran Kaur Bhain Ji, to be perfectly honest the credibility of your comments is not helped by the fact that you have a male celebrity as your display picture who I am sure is fantasized over by various young western teenage girls in many different countries.

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seems like she knows what she is doing but just rebelling...

you can only tell someone so much but if they don't wanna listen then what can you do.....it's her Sikhi thats being affected so let her do what she wants...if she's amritdhari then she must know the implications

i wouldn't tell her parents at this stage, not a wise idea

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don't think u should tell her rents at any stage... like singh said.. she knows what she's doin... she'll suffer the consequences of her own actions.. all u can do is show love and still be her friend.. :wub:

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People can find romance which is virtuous in people of different or no faith. Just because someone has a different faith doesn't mean they are just full of lust or are not a good partner. It's up to the individual to make their decisions. If she thinks it's right for her why interfere?

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i dont even care bout kuri'h like this anymore....what is the point...their all "luvy duvy" now then after they come whingin bak - 'oh he dumped me - for no reason' - same old bull story....(maaf karna - Waheguroo)

duno bout u lot but am tired of hearin these emhi stories...i suggest bhenjee jus get on wiv ur own life....:TH:

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Kiran Kaur Bhain Ji, to be perfectly honest the credibility of your comments is not helped by the fact that you have a male celebrity as your display picture who I am sure is fantasized over by various young western teenage girls in many different countries.

haha jokez

chill with the suggestions of talking to her,it hasnt worked, it aint gonna work

leave it up to the big guy!!!

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