Sex B4 Marriage

[Nihang Singhni]

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!!

i havent search the topic thoroughly yet but so far havent came across a topic where some1 has spoken about having sex before marriage

this is just for those people who may have had a physical relationship before marriage but havent spoken up about it

so urm wt wud u want 2 know?

well first of all, bieng sikhs of guru ji, we all know that its wrong to have sex before marriage

so what if you have already committed this sin?

what if you are repenting for the sin?

what if you want to reform your life?

will waheguru ji forgive you?

what must you do to seek forgiveness?

and finally...

can one still reach sachkhand after committing such a sin?

well i dont have the answers to these questions, but if some1 could provide an answer that would be brilliant

just thought id start u all off, cuz i know some people are too shy to talk about it, so i may aswel act as "the voice of the people" lol

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!!

[hps62]

there is no one answer to your question?

All I say is " ask no quetion and u shall be told no lies "

[Mutheeaa]

so urm wt wud u want 2 know?

well first of all, bieng sikhs of guru ji, we all know that its wrong to have sex before marriage

Tru u say!!

so what if you have already committed this sin?

So he cud forgiveness more time than we cud commit!!!

what if you are repenting for the sin?

Going to right path!! Nice

what if you want to reform your life?

Start it from this second

will waheguru ji forgive you?

Last time when he said 'nahee' i don't remember!! Do you??

what must you do to seek forgiveness?

and finally...

An ardaas cud do or as simple as saying "Guru Nanak Main Bhuliyaa"!! However everything shud be from heart along with right path(nitnem is a must) for future else u'll again fall in the trap!!

can one still reach sachkhand after committing such a sin?

Ever listened to katha of Bhai Jogga & Ajamal & Gankah!!

just thought id start u all off, cuz i know some people are too shy to talk about it, so i may aswel act as "the voice of the people" lol

Well u have lot of Guts!! Lol

waheguru ji ka khalsa, waheguru ji ki fateh!!

Fateh to u too!!!

Atlast finished!!

[Guest *]

This is the answer for "can a person repent?", "what if you want to repent?", and "what must you do to seek forgiveness?":

Everyone makes mistakes and you can always repent and seek forgiveness at Guru Sahib's charan. Sex before or outside of marriage is not just a small mistake, but is infact a bujjar kurehit, so the only way for a Sikh of the Guru to seek forgiveness for such a mistake is to seek forgiveness from the Guru himself, who, in this day, is in the form of the Punj Pyaaray. This is the only way in which a Sikh can seek forgiveness for a bujjar kurehit -- by presenting her/himself before the Punj, admitting the fault, and seeking forgiveness in this way, thereby being brought back into the Sikh fold.

Only Waheguru can judge who will or will not go to Sachkhand, but one thing is for sure: if a Sikh has made such a mistake, without seeking forgiveness from Punj Pyaaray, there's no way such a person can really be forgiven.

[jassa]

as far as i studied ... in all granths no sakhi came about sex b4 marriage .... but 2 sakhis came 1 guru shri nanak sahib ji and other guru gobind singh sahib .... and both are sex out of marriage .... and sakhi about it before marriage dont come because at that time they get married at 12 - 14 maximum 16 ....

guru nanak sahib sakhi teaches about this sin in very detailed ... like what will happen when such a person will go in dargha how will yamdotts behave with him ... what akal will ask ...

i can post full sakhi here if mods allow .... as its related to kam in detail .....

[Akaali]

Panthic stance on sex before marriage is not allowed, and is a bujjar kureiht, for which you must goto the punj pyaare to be forgiven and listen to what they say.

Jassa, you can send it to one of the moderators and we will review it before it being posted. Thanks.

[Tony Montana]

why is sex before marriage not allowed. we all say its not allowed but why?

[Guest Kharkoo]

when animals have sex...they dont get married...but we humans do!..so if we had sex before mariage.....what is the difference between us and animals??Plus.....sex b4 mariage is just PURE lust....just LUST..thats all..there is no love.(no matter what u people say).....Sex after mariage is a resposibility*edit* u learn how love them and live with them as Per Gurmat Maryada.....

Dhan Guru Ram dass jee......

[Tony Montana]

when animals have sex...they dont get married...but we humans do!..so if we had sex before mariage.....what is the difference between us and animals??Plus.....sex b4 mariage is just PURE lust....just LUST..thats all..there is no love.(no matter what u people say).....Sex after mariage is a resposibility*edit* u learn how love them and live with them as Per Gurmat Maryada.....

Dhan Guru Ram dass jee......

beign married does not mean lust is not their , people get married and divorced nowadays what about them ?

[kaur_khalistani_lioness]

when animals have sex...they dont get married...but we humans do!..so if we had sex before mariage.....what is the difference between us and animals??Plus.....sex b4 mariage is just PURE lust....just LUST..thats all..there is no love.(no matter what u people say).....Sex after mariage is a resposibility*edit* u learn how love them and live with them as Per Gurmat Maryada.....

Dhan Guru Ram dass jee......

beign married does not mean lust is not their , people get married and divorced nowadays what about them ?

we are talking about sikhi ( walking on the path of Guru ji)...what sikhi/Guru sahib says about this! not what the world thinks or what people do. if we followed people...we will be in a big mess!

Spiritual beings follow the path which is distinct.

and it is said that one is to control the 5s not get rid of them according to what i have read and learned from others.

bhul chuk muaff karni

waheguru ji kakhalsa waheguru ji ki fateh!