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What Would you do if your child at the age of 16 or below decided to cut their kesh even though everything has been explained to them why kesh are important?  

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  1. 1. Child Cutting Kesh??

    • Let Him Cut his kesh
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    • Continue to educate
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    • Kick him out of the house
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    • Don't talk to him
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    • If other please write.......
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teach the child sikhi .... take him to sanagat regurlary... get the child involved in activties involved in sikhi, e.g. teach him keertan etc.

educate alot of sikhi..... .. altho i will need it too :)

tel about all the sacrifices... yh and agre with karkur veer... u shud read sukhmani sahib jee... :@

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I would beat the child severely then throw him on the streets in his underwear...

Just kidding - I'd do nothing of the sort. Religion has to come from the heart, if it doesn't then it is just plain fake and sooner or later it will show.

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I would beat the child severely then throw him on the streets in his underwear...

Just kidding - I'd do nothing of the sort. Religion has to come from the heart, if it doesn't then it is just plain fake and sooner or later it will show.

In a nutshell this is it. We need to realise the kes is growing from our heart right where the dharam comes from. Whoever choses to destroy their kes does so at their choice and is dependent on their current state of mind, understanding and worldy circumstances

I trimmed by beard for many years without any thought, but one day I could not get the clippers out without physically feeling sick. Corny as it sounds, one day kes had no meaning in my life and another day kes meant everything in my life. This came through self realisation with the Gurus grace.

Each of us have our own relationship with the Akal purakh and this cannot be dicated by a parent or even the greatest parcharak has little influence. We can sit through hours and hours of parchar yet still not keep our kes or beg for amrit.

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