Canadian Priest Fined $415,000

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http://www.sikhnet.com/daily-news/canadian...y-abusing-niece

Monday, June 30th, 2008

VANCOUVER: A court here has ordered a Sikh priest and his wife to pay $415,000 in damages to their niece for sexually abusing her for over a decade.

Karamjeet Kaur, who is 50 now and known as Vicky Waters after her marriage to a white man, was sexually abused by the 'granthi' who along with his wife adopted her following her mother's death in an accident.

In its judgment Thursday, the provincial British Columbia Supreme Court said Joginder Singh Bains, now 77, began sexually abusing Kaur when she was just eight on their farm at Fraser Valley near Vancouver.

Judge Nancy Morrison said the adopted girl was subjected to oral and anal sex, and also beatings. To prevent pregnancy when she reached puberty, the couple had an IUD inserted in her.

The assaults took place over a period of 10 years and began when Waters was eight years old.

Waters, 50, told the court how she had pleaded for help from her aunt, Darshan, and a grandmother after Bains began sexually assaulting her, but her pleas went unanswered.

Darshan and her grandmother colluded to have a doctor insert an IUD device to prevent pregnancy at the onset of puberty.

Morrison said the inference was that Darshan knew what was happening and wanted to ensure "there would be no pregnancy or discovery of on-going abuse."

"Both defendants played a significant part in her losses. The young plaintiff was present in their home, slept in their bedroom and at times, in their bed with them, when sexual assaults took place," the insertion of the IUD into an unknowing 12- or 13-year-old is, as I have stated before, appalling," said Judge Morrison. "She was denied aid by her aunt, her father's younger sister to whom she turned to for help on two occasions. This child was vulnerable as she had recently lost her mother in a tragic accident," said Morrison in her written reasons.

Waters testified that the sexual assaults - also committed by a second uncle who knew she was being sexually abused - had caused severe psychological problems during her life.

"The plaintiff's inability to control her emotions, her loss of enjoyment of life, the interference in the development of interpersonal and sexual relationships and her ongoing mood swings and depression are amply proven by the evidence," said Morrison.

The judge dismissed the defence's argument that damages totalling $70,000 be assessed as the Bains's had lost face in the community, nor did she accept that they were of modest means.

"There is evidence the defendants have operated a dairy farm for many years. There is property jointly owned that is assessed in excess of $1 million," said Morrison.

Waters' counsel had argued Joginder Bains deserved a substantial penalty since at the time the assaults began he was 35 years old, was married and portrayed himself as an educated man, esteemed by his community and within his religion. He had the status of a "Giani" - a position of privilege within the Sikh faith and had denied the assaults and had shown no remorse.

Morrison agreed and said Bains continued "what can only be regarded as arrogant and callous conduct towards the plaintiff."

Bains, one of seven children, arrived from India in 1961 with a religious degree in the Punjabi language, which earned him the respected East Indian title of giani. He worked two successful dairy farms and bought multiple properties over the years.

Waters said once she launched the public lawsuit her prominent relatives disowned her and made her an outcast. But Morrison praised her courage. "It is clear she not only wants to obtain justice in her own case but also to serve as an example to others who may not be as willing to go through the trauma and uncertainty," Morrison wrote.

"She also seeks an end to the anxiety, shame and humiliation that she has experienced and believes it is important for her own healing to be able to speak freely. It is important for her to speak out for the benefit of others who may be experiencing the same trauma."

Damages were assessed at $325,000 for general and aggravated damages, $80,000 in punitive damages and $10,000 for future care. The years of abuse have left Karamjeet with low self-esteem, depression and nightmares, the judge said. Morrison added: "The plaintiff's problems are many. First and foremost, she has suffered a loss of innocence and the loss of a normal childhood. The insertion of the IUD into an unknowing 12 or 13 year old is appalling."

The judge rejected the Sikh couple's argument for waiving the compensation amount because of their "modest means".

Now a mother of two, Karamjeet left the Bains' dairy farm after finishing her high school.

The disgraced couple are bound to face the wrath of the Indo-Canadian community and become the theme of radio and TV talk shows in the coming days.

Wife knew about it....holly gosh.

[mann_kaum_layee_qurbaan]

no words.

[khalsaforce]

this is the most disgusting and disgraceful action a animal can commit yes he is a animal..

[Surban]

OMG this made me angry and sad at the same timee

[Singhballer]

That is Sick and EVIL!

[Surban]

man Vancouver is crawling with indo-canadian sikh gangs... i hope this <admin-profanity filter activated> gets wht he deserves.. forget the fine, ppl like him deserve to get the same abuse done to them as he did to her in this lyfe and the next (by same abuse i mean something tht leaves him jus as emotinaly scared)

[caveman]

thats just sooo wrong!

[republicofkhalistan]

he should be tortured to death

[RKang17]

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[buddasingh]

He had a degree from 1961 that makes "sikh priest", an oxymoron, the headline of the story? Being thick must be a pre-requisite for headlines writers. That one has been staring at too many catholic clergy headlines. (so we don’t get carried away, it should be obvious that the vast majority of catholic priests are decent).

Cheap headlines belittle someone conveying so much suffering. This type of abuse, likely pervasive, should raise cultural questions in addition to those not limited by a culture. It is not related to a religious institution in manner, shape or form similar to church headlines.

How does cheap sensationalizing help victims? The courage of the woman to take this so far is belittled by such blatant idiocy.

On the note that the person was considered “educated”. I find that there are many Punjabi’s who have accumulated wealth or “education” yet live their lives according to ethics and thought indicative of anything but learned.

Despite our new found phd, doctor, attorney, other professional designations, or real estate prowess, we continue to hold onto our justification of caste, sexism, gaudy displays of wealth and vacuous cultural pride.

The first and hardest step to learned living is to resolve to continuously look within to examine my individual prejudices, beliefs, and resulting actions or inactions. If people do that then there is a greater chance that someone may intervene next time an 8 year old daughter or sister is suffering.

May waheguroo continue to bless this woman with the same courage she has imparted upon all of us.