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Indian Culture Versus Gurmat(Khalsa) Culture And Making Leaders


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4 minutes ago, proudkaur21 said:

Yup true. 39 is not too old to get married as a man. I know of many women who cause their son to divorce their wives. Why is it so common in our culture? I know so many punjabi mother in laws destroying their son's marriage out of jealousy from the wife. It is insane. 

Women are going to women as harsh as that may sound, but in these cases I just can't believe how the sons don't see the manipulation that's happening before their own eyes. This stuff doesn't happen in homes where the father wears the trousers and knows the exact goings on in his household.

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14 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

I really love listening to sir Ian chappell.

Even Punjabi culture has flaws.

I am 39 and my mad bevkoof mother doesn't allow me to take any decision. She out of her Moh(which is one of the 5 chorr) never trained me to be self independent and to survive in this mad world.

She also made sure that I get divorced.

Move out then

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12 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

He was an excellent batsman. Only Lara is better than him. I used to be his fan, BUT NOT ANYMORE.

Bradman was better.

I never liked Indian cricketers as people, I might like watching some of them play but as people, they're too up Indian government's arse.

 

12 hours ago, shastarSingh said:

There is problem with English cricket too. They are too SOFT and get a bit weak in crisis situation. They are always thrashed by Australians in Australia.

Only Andrew flintoff was excellent.

Lol you should have watched the ashes this year, it was hilarious, England is beyond repair

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4 hours ago, proudkaur21 said:

Yup true. 39 is not too old to get married as a man. I know of many women who cause their son to divorce their wives. Why is it so common in our culture? I know so many punjabi mother in laws destroying their son's marriage out of jealousy from the wife. It is insane. 

Control freaks. Want to be in charge of everything, want everything to happen and revolve around them.

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33 minutes ago, MisterrSingh said:

I've always thought that if our people used the same cunning and ruthlessness against non-Sikhs as we delight in using against our own, we'd be a world power by now, lmao.

Oh we would. My dad tells me that apne are like if I lose $100 but my neighbour loses $70 then I would be happy with that and count it as a win.

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42 minutes ago, Kaurr said:

Oh we would. My dad tells me that apne are like if I lose $100 but my neighbour loses $70 then I would be happy with that and count it as a win.

They say vengeful demons are given the opportunity to incarnate in human bodies to work out their churasi lakh joons. I'm guessing Sikhs who think like the people in your post were those demons in recent lifetimes, lol.

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