Mrkhalsa007 135 Posted August 28, 2013 Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Vjkk Vjkf ji I'm confused on how a Gursikhi viyah is done. Take this scenario: a singh singhni like each othe like are cool with each other then what should they do? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
VanHelsingh 1,983 Posted August 28, 2013 Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Vjkk Vjkf ji I'm confused on how a Gursikhi viyah is done. Take this scenario: a singh singhni like each othe like are cool with each other then what should they do? One would hope marriage is based on something more than liking and being cool with each other. I feel the same way about my postman but I'm not going to marry him, am I? :giggle: 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mrkhalsa007 135 Posted August 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Lool no I meant like cool as in the families are fine and its a match lool Quote Link to post Share on other sites
VanHelsingh 1,983 Posted August 28, 2013 Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Lool no I meant like cool as in the families are fine and its a match lool haha, no worries brother, I was just pulling your leg. Well if that's how you feel and your families are happy, then go for it. Good luck. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mrkhalsa007 135 Posted August 28, 2013 Author Report Share Posted August 28, 2013 Lol, bro how would you go from their? So straight a anandkaraj then langar and then go home? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
VanHelsingh 1,983 Posted August 29, 2013 Report Share Posted August 29, 2013 Lol, bro how would you go from their? So straight a anandkaraj then langar and then go home? Surely both families should get together and discuss how to proceed? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
savinderpalsingh 705 Posted August 29, 2013 Report Share Posted August 29, 2013 WaheguruJiKaKhalsa!!WaheguruJiKiFateh!! Please read DamDami Taksal's rehat on this. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
GurujisDaughter 29 Posted September 4, 2013 Report Share Posted September 4, 2013 I personally think that if we are not in the age of marriage we shouldnt even think about it. It is because it is a vikaar to think about it and kind of makes our thinking go in those type of things. But yes, it is a procedure like parents talking and deciding. Being marriage definately has to do way more than being cool. It is more about where one is spiritually, understanding and similar goals. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
innergear 35 Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 My postman is well fit. Wo shud i do ? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
osingh 207 Posted September 9, 2013 Report Share Posted September 9, 2013 Gursikhs wedding are arranged. There is no dating or any sort of relationship prior to marriage. If a gursikh wants to get get married he can approach elder Gursikhs who can then find a suitable match. It is ok if the couple talk after the match has been made to see if they are suitable for one another. However Gursikhs will not be interested in maya (worldy) related stuff but Gurmat - i.e. what is their rehni behni, do they get up at amritvela, do they keep rehit, is their goal in life to meet waheguru. The wedding of Gursikhs should be a spiritual union. Bhul chuk maaf jee. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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