Its important to put this right infront before marriage. I have seen lots of divorces, marriage problems bcoz the girl does not want to live with the parents and dont want to do seva of in-laws such as leg massages, cooking food, laundry etc and more.
If you ask a white girl to do that, you would get punched in the face. If you ask an Indian, get prepared to hear a lot of name callings. Times have changed now. Its rare, very rare. Girls frown on guys like that.
By percentages you might be right. At the same time some people are trying to live timelessly as an extended family still, and if that's what Veer Ji needs, and it's important to him he has to put that out there from the beginning. There might be a Bhenji in his same situation with her parents.