Intercaste Marriage - Jat Sikh Girl Vs Ramgharia Boy

[JagsawSingh]

Wow. This thread's deteriorated fast since I stopped posting on it.

My advice then to the OP: Stop keeping boyfriends. It just makes half of our community, inlcuding me, look down on and have a low opinion of you and your family. Especially your family.

Instead, ask your family to find you a suitable Gursikh husband, but reiterate that he must, in the interest of Sikhi and anticaste, be a Ramgharia, Khatri, chamar or bhatra or something. Not a jatt.

Happy days. We're all winners then and we're all happy. The only people that won't be happy of course are the ones (many of whom are here amongst us now) who are from families where their sisters or daughters keep boyfriends. They like to bury their heads in the sand and pretend that more than half of our 'community' don't laugh at them, look down on them and see them as kanjar parvaars. So, apart from them we all, incuding you and your parents, will be happy. Happy days indeed.

[SheikhYoBooty]

I did date a hindu jatt though and my parents didn't like it. SO I had to break her heart.

Wow u are so independent minded and such a free thinker dude.

Your Jatt parents didn't like u dating a girl from your caste due to her religion so u broke it off.

And there was the whole forum reading that u don't believe in any religion and are not Sikh but only a Jatt.

It just makes half of our community, inlcuding me, look down on and have a low opinion of you and your family.

Especially your family.

They like to bury their heads in the sand and pretend that more than half of our 'community' don't laugh at them, look down on them and see them as kanjar parvaars.

Wow so these hindu caste system supporting families look down upon those who believe in Gurmat + Rehat Maryada + Manas ki jaath sabhe ek pechaanbo.

The original poster sbhullar clearly does not have multiple boyfriends but during the course of her studies developed a platonic (which means non-physical and non-sexual) friendship with a Gursikh who she rightly wants to marry.

The only people that the Sikh community regards as kanjar parivaars are those who go against Gurmat in constantly supporting the hindu caste system, whilst always standing up as a mouthpice for Pakistan + Islam at the same time.

[JSinghnz]

I am a Sidhu jatt sir.

Stop calling yourself a Khalsa if you are still a caste ridden individual.Quite shameful of you following double standards.

[Sbhullar]

Thanks everyone. I had enough inputs from you all. We should stop here.

Thanks.

[SheikhYoBooty]

Good luck sister.

We all support you (apart from a few lunatics that oppose Gurmat + Sikhi).

I hope you will post marriage pics of you and this Gursikh when the time comes.

All of us will do Ardas that your parents support you in your correct decision to marry this Gursikh according to Sanjog.

Best wishes

[Sbhullar]

@ sheikh

Thanks brother. Just need blessings.

Ofcourse i will share my pics. I m hopeful n believe that waheguru g will let me get thru this hard time and will bring peace n happiness all around.

When i joined this forum, i was so confused and wanted to see from others perspective how they luk into this situation. I got support n few stood against . Thanks to those who supported me and thanks to those who stood against as now i feel more determined towards my goal.

I feel happy to say that within this couple days i mean since i joined this forum, i met two angels who will support in my journey. Feeling blessed.

Thanks from the bottom of my heart brother. God bless you.

[ASKhalsa1]

Stop calling yourself a Khalsa if you are still a caste ridden individual.Quite shameful of you following double standards.

I just demonstrated to you that 'Jatt' is not a caste. It is an ethnic group.

And even if it was a caste, the Guru Sahibaan, who abhorred the caste system, still said they were Khatris and described themselves as Khatris. Are you going to accuse your own Gurus of following double standards too?

[SheikhYoBooty]

^Bro, our Guru Sahib were not Khatri as they had no caste + they hated the caste system.

Our Guru Sahibaan all emphasised repeatedly on "kul nash" = the importance of having no lineage pride.

I believe that u are an honest Gursikh and don't see yourself as superior to any other Sikh.

So i can understand that u view Jatts as an ethnic tribe as opposed to an occupational caste.

But tribe (if u don't mind me saying as I like most ur posts) still comes under the radar of being destroyed by kul nash.

http://sikhinstitute.org/akal_takht08/baljika.html

[ASKhalsa1]

^Bro, our Guru Sahib were not Khatri as they had no caste + they hated the caste system.

Our Guru Sahibaan all emphasised repeatedly on "kul nash" = the importance of having no lineage pride.

I believe that u are an honest Gursikh and don't see yourself as superior to any other Sikh.

So i can understand that u view Jatts as an ethnic tribe as opposed to an occupational caste.

But tribe (if u don't mind me saying as I like most ur posts) still comes under the radar of being destroyed by kul nash.

http://sikhinstitute.org/akal_takht08/baljika.html

I agree entirely. I take no pride in or place any stock in my being a Jatt, I just acknowledged that I am of Jatt ancestry, as the Guru Sahibaan were of Khatri ancestry. This is not an opinion, just a fact. I couldn't change it even if I wanted to.

But I'll be damned if anyone tells me I should stop calling myself a Khalsa, as a brother above did. It is my right.

[SheikhYoBooty]

^ Bro I agree that one can be a Khalsa (formerly of ethnic Jatt tribal lineage) but I hope u agree that one cannot actively be Jatt, Tarkhan, Rajput, Gujjar etc at the same time in spirit (regardless of biological ancestry). As obviously the only names the Khalsa Panth can bear are Singh and Kaur.

Also given that some research is now showing that our Guru Hargobind Ji ki Mahal was of Jatt ancestry, Guru Ram Das Ji was not of Khatri ancestry, nor were Trehan and Bhalla originally thought of as Khatri clans and Mata Gujjar Kaur were of Gujjar ancestry, the whole Mughal and Hindutva lie that our Guru Sahib were so-called Khatri's comes crashing apart. Basicly because Guru Nanak Dev Ji were undeniably of Khatri ancestry, writers co-opted subsequent Guru Sahibaan and Guru Ki Mahal as being of the same ancestry when the factual reality for that was not really there.