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I'm an amritdhari 14 year old and I have masturbated 5 time.i really hate my self for it but in the moment my mind gives in. It somehow relieves me of my lust but I don't want to do it my mind gives in and im also forced by my mind to do it. I want to stop. Please help me pyare sangat 

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22 hours ago, Guest User3737373 said:

I'm an amritdhari 14 year old and I have masturbated 5 time.i really hate my self for it but in the moment my mind gives in. It somehow relieves me of my lust but I don't want to do it my mind gives in and im also forced by my mind to do it. I want to stop. Please help me pyare sangat 

You have mentioned  a couple times the word mind, in your short post.

So you are aware, that it is the mind which is making you dance to it´s tunes. Your soul knows this, and it does not like it. But brother, the solution has to come from your within, none of us can help you in that sense. You have already taken the first step by recognizing at falling prey to kaam.

Guru Sahiban are Wahiguru, believe firmly, you are the royal child of Scahay Patshah Wahiguru Akal Purukh, and unluckily, the vikaar of kaam is troubling you.

My only humble suggestion is, keep an eye on this thief and be alert, when you see it coming towards you, look at it firmly, and tell it, enough of troubling me, I am also no small thing, I am the child of the most Highest and Powerful Being, Wahiguru, and from now on, do not even bother to trouble me, because I have recognized you, and in no way, I am going to fall into your trap, and at the same time imagine that Guru Jee is near you and watching your bravery...with practice and faith, by His apaar Kirpa, kaam wil trouble you no more.

At the same time, avoid bad sangat, and join good and healthy sangat. The company one keeps, has an deep impact on us. So better let it be good.

If you have any films, magazines, nude photos, throw them away, it is all rubbish, which only fuels kaam.

And at the same time, read Gurbani, divert your attention towards His Lotus Feet, by regularly and faithfully doing His Simran.

God bless you.

Sat Sree Akal.

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Little Brother Waheguru ji ka Khalsa ,Waheguru ji ki Fateh,

The mind is very mischievous it wants to take you away from your bhagti because it knows the closer we get to Waheguru through Gurbani , naam and sewa the less power it will have . The five chor steal your good qualities and efforts away don't let them spoil your life , do an ardas to Guru Pita ji to help and protect you from these bad influences , he is always there for you just call out . 

 

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To be honest being so young its highly unlikely you wont do this again, your hormones are high right now, i am confident you will do it again, so my advice is when that unfortunately happens, rather than thinking of something dirty which is not good for you if you have taken amrit, try not to think of anything, not sure if that is possible but least then it's similar to i dunno...  itching your arm?

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